How to break up with a girl without hurting her???

Summary. Hello, it doesn't hurt the other party to break up like this:1

Tell the other party frankly that you don't like it, and tell the other party the reason for breaking up directly. 2.Affirm the other person's efforts and don't denigrate them.

I believe that if you can go on, no one will choose to break up. Since you can only break up, when you talk about breaking up, you must not say bad things about the other party. 3.

Say goodbye to each other and draw a happy end to this relationship.

How can girls mention breaking up without hurting each other.

Hello, it doesn't hurt the other party to break up like this:1Tell the other party frankly that you don't like it, and tell the other party the reason for breaking up directly.

2.Affirm the other person's efforts and don't denigrate them. I believe that if you can go on, no one will choose to break up.

Since you can only break up, when you talk about breaking up, you must not say bad things about the other party. 3.Say goodbye to each other and draw a happy end to this relationship.

Can you elaborate on that?

First make sure that you know the other party's contribution during the time you are with the other party, and then directly give the reason for the breakup, you must be honest, and not slandering or lying when breaking up is the greatest respect for the other party.

In my opinion, as long as this girl still likes you, no matter how you use a method that you don't think hurts her, this girl will be sad, unless she doesn't know how much she loves you or doesn't love you deeply.

How to say it, no matter what way Qin Spine's breakup, it is likely to cause harm to the other party's Bi clan, but the two of them think that Hui can sit down and talk about it, and it is okay to break up peacefully.

When you break up, you must talk about it directly with your girlfriend, so that you don't hurt the other party, and don't be cold and violent.

You have to explain to the other person face to face, don't use cold violence, so that you don't hurt the other person.

Subject: Women.

Here's the thing:

First of all, my mom wanted me to marry the boy next door. My mom is a foreigner, and so is my youth. So I can't marry a foreign country because of my mother anyway.

Second, I already have a boyfriend, and now my mom is going to tell fortunes, saying that we don't agree and it's going to be bad together.

To sum up, my mom and I are very different. I made it very clear that I would never marry a foreign country, but my mother and others kidnapped me morally, saying that I would take care of my mother and go to live in a foreign country.

Therefore, dear Dada, my appeal is:How can I keep my mom from interfering in my marriage? At the same time, how can you reach a consensus with her - don't blindly use fortune telling to determine whether two people are suitable to be together?

Ask for great help from the cold.

Leng Ai replied:

Your question is particularly typical, and many people have similar thoughts-How do I accomplish something without hurting others?

Like, how can I break up with him without hurting the other person? How can you refuse not to hurt others? Why don't I hurt people and make them change etc.

This is actually your hidden problem. When you say agree, you just want to do something that doesn't hurt her.

However, the problem itself is wrong. You know,There is no way in this world to change a person's mind without hurting others. Because the process of change must be accompanied by harm.

In all major conflicts, there are three possibilities.

The best strategy is a win-win situation, everyone finds a good way, and finally reaches a consensus.

The middle strategy is that either you are cool or your mother is cool.

The next strategy is that neither of them is happy.

Therefore, in the process of this game, we must realize that we can reach a consensus without harming others, which is called the best policy. However, it is difficult to get the best policy in life, because the best strategy is not to resolve conflicts, but to resolve them in advance in peacetime.

For example,Before you find a boyfriend, you discuss it with your mom and have your own life choices and emotional choices. You didn't have a boyfriend at the time, maybe she allowed it after the discussion. That's most likely a good idea.

But now you've found someone. At this point, you can get the best results, as long as you avoid the worst-case scenario. The Chinese policy is- Either your mother is happy, or you are happy.

The best advice is to make yourself cool.

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