How did you change before you had a girlfriend and after you had a girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Psychologically, there is still a lot of change. The main feeling is that there is more people in my heart, I will think about her in everything, I am afraid that she will be unhappy, I am afraid that she will not eat well, I am afraid that she will not sleep well, I am afraid that she will be sick, I want to buy her beautiful clothes, I want to buy her when I see cute dolls, I want to buy her beautiful accessories, and I want to make delicious food for her to eat! I hope I can take care of her for the rest of my life.

    Then I feel that I am not living alone, I must always pay attention to my health problems, and I must work hard to improve myself! In the end, I feel that I have a lot of knowledge, such as cosmetics (although I still don't know much about it), such as my aunt, such as how to use an umbrella to shade the sun. In short, the ratio of the happiness index after having a girlfriend to the happiness index without a girlfriend is +!

    My girlfriend is very insecure, so I always wonder how to coax her. But she was still very insecure, so she always blamed me. Originally, I had planned to spoil her from the beginning, but I was depressed, and I encountered a lot of things and a lot of pressure.

    So sometimes I can't stand it anymore, so I quarrel with her. In fact, quarreling is a kind of emotional catharsis, although we will say all kinds of things when arguing, such as inappropriate and the like, but I think the core is that she says I don't understand her, don't value her, have no sense of security, I say she embarrass me and doesn't understand me. However, everyone will talk about the truth, and if you do it, you can't do it well.

    Later, I was also too stressed, because of other things, and why I was already very attentive, and I always said that I was not good, so I couldn't help but quarrel and broke up. This relationship only lasted 20 days. After the breakup, I got angry and opened a trumpet.

    Write some paragraphs to vent, such as, the first condition for falling in love is to be able to talk, and the second is that you can't fully agree with each other and conform to each other, you must explain the essence of the matter clearly, don't be afraid of long speeches, these two points are the secret of my single for so long.

    Getting along with your girlfriend is like a man's back. Later, I found out that it was because she always put mangoes on my back. I just got together with my girlfriend, and my wish is to have any door so that I can go and play with her.

    Now my wish is to have a time machine, otherwise as long as a message is not answered in seconds, she can open any door and tear me up. Also, I really like my girlfriend so much that I couldn't help but kiss her, but I didn't expect her first reaction to me daring to talk back to her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Before I had a girlfriend, I could be sloppy by myself, and after I had a girlfriend, I dressed up very handsome every day.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After having a girlfriend, I became more diligent and didn't panic in doing things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no change, the only change is that I have become more attentive and know how to take care of people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Originally, it was a person who made money, but now it is two people who spend it together and continue to work hard to make money.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No. Because such a woman is too casual and not suitable to be a wife, I will not accept her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To love each other is to accept her, after all, it is all in the past, it is not important whether a woman is in the past, the important thing is to love each other, tolerate and understand each other, create a crystallization of love, and accompany each other for a lifetime.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At this time, I should be unacceptable, because I am a more traditional person, so I can't accept my other half doing such a thing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm not going to take her anymore. Because people like this make me feel very stressed, and they make me feel very unhappy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course I won't. Such a girl doesn't know how to love herself at all, and I won't make friends with such a girl.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After falling in love, I learned that girls' lives were more exciting than men's, I really don't know if I don't know, I was shocked when I saw it, men are more regular, and they will be brought into the new world after falling in love. In the past, it would be more homely, but after falling in love, I couldn't stay at home at all. After falling in love, living together, boys will become very well-behaved in front of girls, more masculine and boyfriend.

    Of course, some people will become more naïve, and the big one with a length of 1.8 meters will behave in front of his girlfriend and pretend to be cute.

    In the cold winter, hugging her in his arms to watch a movie together Hu Chun, even if the movie is boring, it will become good because of her. In short, many things are unpredictable for boys, and love can always bring a lot of surprises, refreshing your understanding of women over and over again. I feel like I'm completely changed.

    What I found out after I had a girlfriend.

    1.When a girl ties her hair up or pills her head, it's not that she suddenly likes a little freshness, but because she is too lazy to wash her hair today.

    2.It's really much more comfortable for two people to sleep together than to sleep alone, and the feeling of someone holding it is almost flying. You can talk a lot, but the most repeated sentence is that you hit my hair.

    3.It turns out that girls go shopping really like a perpetual motion machine, and they can buy everything in one store, but she has to go to many stores.

    The question that men can't figure out the most: Is this still the same her who can't unscrew the cap?

    4.Your girlfriend catches up with the drama, and the speed at which she replies to your messages is the same as the speed at which you reply to your girlfriend when you are in a group.

    5.Don't lie to your girlfriends, because they are in love with an IQ like Sherlock Holmes, in fact, everything stems from insecurity, so they will think more.

    6.Foodie essence, unobstructed at a glance, a walking cookbook, but also a reclusive food guide, no matter which inconspicuous alley the delicious food is hidden, she will take you to run to find it.

    7.It turns out that girls can distinguish the color so carefully that the pants are slippery, and the lipstick color is the most intuitive evidence. Rose red, watermelon red, and aunt red are collectively referred to as red in the eyes of many straight men, but it wasn't until I saw more than a dozen colors that I realized that being a girl makes the skin really stressful.

    8.What a girl says to you when she is coquettish is what she really thinks, and what she says when she is mad is really angry.

    9.You'd think boys should be a little more innocent.

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