Children are addicted to the Internet and don t want to learn, how to quit Internet addiction?

Parents play an important role in their children's efforts to quit internet addiction, and parents must break away from the traditional practice of scolding, complaining or indulging in indulgence. Communicate with your child regularly, create an environment conducive to your child's growth, and meet your child's needs for normal interpersonal communication and play. Parents should renew their concepts, improve their understanding of the Internet era, and not talk about the change of color of the Internet, and completely prevent their children from surfing the Internet.

When you find that your child is addicted to online games, you should strictly control your child's online time, such as stipulating that your child should not be online for more than a few hours a week. The amount of time your child spends online should be gradually reduced. If your child doesn't want to, consider making an agreement with your child.

Some games can be purchased without being online, so that children don't have to deal with online games so that they don't get caught up in them.

In this matter, grooming is more effective than teaching, forcibly prohibiting junior high school children from playing games, children will be unhappy, parents will destroy the child's good mood, by the child's resistance, since it is not prohibited, change the angle, such as giving them a limited time to play, let them play at the specified time, so that the child is easy to accept. It is impossible to absolutely prohibit it, so we can only let junior high school children slowly reduce the number of times they play, stipulate that they can play openly when they can play, and put an end to playing in Internet cafes. If you can't play time, don't touch it, so parents take it outside for a walk, exercise together, etc.

Many parents have too simple education methods, either blindly doting and indulgence, so that their children develop a willful and immature character, and cannot reasonably deal with external things; Either the children are kept under strict supervision, or even locked up at home and cannot go out. Once a child becomes addicted to the Internet, he grits his teeth with hatred and wants to beat the child to death with a stick. Another is to neglect the education of children, regardless of whether they ask, resulting in the lack of love in the children's hearts, and they will go to the Internet to fill their empty hearts.

These wrong ways of educating children are all high-risk factors that lead to Internet addiction.

Parents can divert their children's attention, such as reading at home with their children, or taking them out for a walk and chatting, allowing them to make more friends, and cultivating their children's other interests. Parents should not be hostile to play all the time, but should limit it appropriately and turn it into a tool to reward their children. Usually, you can ask your child to do some specific tasks that are higher than his or her ability, and reward him with playing games after completing them, such as playing games after completing homework, and playing games after completing the learning plan.

If you want to help your child quit Internet addiction, you must communicate with your child accordingly, explain the disadvantages of Internet addiction, and take other relevant measures to effectively divert your child's attention and let your child do something other meaningful.

That is, let the child see more of the scenery outside, be prepared to eat more, let them eat, and this can be avoided.

Reduce the time of using electronic devices, improve learning enthusiasm, improve learning efficiency, correct learning time, correct learning habits, and let children know better learning thinking.

Parents should not scold and yell, do not be reasonable and lose their temper, these will not have any good impact on the child, but will only push the child further and further away and become more and more rebellious.

What should I do?

The best way is to find a professional homeschooling platform to guide yourself.

1.Reflect on yourself, whether you are busy with work or other reasons, and neglect to discipline.

2.Tell your child and accept everything about your child. Willing to work hard with the child.

3.Find the good bits and pieces in your child's life, affirm him more, and give him a sense of accomplishment and energy. Create a good family atmosphere, wake up children, manage children's spiritual world, and narrow the distance between parents and children.

4.Make a contract with your child about the use of your mobile phone, don't say anything, and implement it with a kind and firm attitude. When the child does a good job in the middle of the tour, go to affirm it in time. Of course, allow the child to have occasional non-compliance, always giving the child confidence and support.

5.Set small goals with your child during learning, and when your child reaches them, you will be able to give them a clear idea in time.

6.Discover more of your child's strengths in life and label your child positively. Use more children and cultivate children's sense of achievement and value.

7.Do a good job of communication between home and school, and ask the class teacher to cooperate. Tell the class teacher about the child's goodness, and tell the child that the class teacher cares about him. Thank you so much for caring about the class teacher.

For children who are addicted to learning on the Internet, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, we need to be psychologically prepared, update the educational concept, and work hard with the child, and it will definitely get better.

First, first analyze the environment in which children live, parents should lead by example, to have an "adult" in front of their children, we should stay away from games, pay attention to children, and pay attention to establishing a slippery image. Parents should not often hold their mobile phones to chat on WeChat, watch Kuaishou, or even play games. A harmonious family is also very important, and couples cannot quarrel with their children.

Teach children not to be simple and rude, or even to fight frequently, to be patient, and to use the right medicine.

Second, find out about the child's situation at school, whether any classmates have brought the "tools" of playing games to school. Of course, I am not in favor of giving children mobile phones, because there is no need, and the disadvantages of giving children mobile phones outweigh the benefits.

3. Guide children to have more interests and divert attention, such as accompanying children to fishing, picnics, traveling, water parks, etc. We can't ignore the loneliness and exploration of new things and the inquisitive nature of children as they grow up. Especially for families with only children, it is necessary to pay more attention to the root cause of the child's depression.

Fourth, it is useless to talk to children about big truths, and don't expect children to be conscious. Parents should not only have firm principles, but also pay more hard work to check homework, and when the child does not complete the homework, it is not a blame, but a "companion" to complete.

Fifth, if you can prevent children from playing games, it is the best, and if you can't put an end to it, you need to "three chapters of the law". Work out a contract with your child. Write down how long you can play after your assignment is completed, when you can't play it, and how you will be rewarded for what kind of performance or achievement you have.

Both parties then signed.

6. In any case, remember that brutal management, helping children quit Internet addiction or standardize game play behavior needs to be based on the premise of not hurting self-esteem, and it is necessary to use both soft and hard, and to be both rigid and soft. There should be blockages (limiting time, setting up systems, and supervision), and also sparse (rewarding time playing games or cultivating other interests). Of course, changing a child's obsession with online games is not immediate, and it is necessary to make He change his anger into thinking countermeasures, from anxiety to calmness, and from irritability to patience.

How old is the child, the rebellious period is teasing and peaceful, sometimes there is no way, unless he encounters something big, he may change his current mind.

You need to see if the child is like this all of a sudden, or if it has always been like this, you have no way to change it, you can only talk to him about lead staring.

If the child is small, you can lock it at home and prevent him from going to the Internet café to surf the Internet, or you can cut off the Internet at home, if you are an adult, it is estimated that it is a little difficult, or find a job that the other party is interested in, so that he is busy with work and has no time to surf the Internet.

In life, many parents feel very headache because of their children's games, and their children's long-term addiction to games will affect their children's academic performance. So in 2023, what I hope to do with my child is to stop being addicted to games. What can be done, let's take a look at my method of renting a stove.

1. Transfer method.

Help the child find a thing he likes, healthy things to replace the mobile phone, cultivate some good habits for the child, healthy and meaningful interests, hobbies such as sports, writing, painting, dancing, etc., let these good habits replace the mobile phone, parents must catch the small, the smaller the sooner the catch, the better the effect.

2. High-quality companionship.

When the child is young, parents must spend time and energy to accompany the child, parents must not be lazy, must be diligent, high-quality companionship is very important, in the company, children can develop a lot of good habits, the family environment is the best soil for children to grow, children are like small saplings in the family, the soil becomes better, small saplings will thrive.

3. Guide children to correctly view the pros and cons of surfing the Internet.

The Internet has changed our way of life, diversified children's learning, and infinitely broadened the channels for children's knowledge acquisition. But at the same time, it also causes distraction in children. Parents should guide them correctly, accompany their children to understand the Internet, use the Internet correctly, let their children know some bad things on the Internet, and avoid some unfavorable factors on the Internet.

4. It is better to be sparse than blocked.

In order to avoid being addicted to games, parents can train their children to play other healthy games, such as playing ball with him, playing with blocks, taking him on trips, etc. Children feel happy in real life and don't seek solace in the virtual world.

1.Slowly reduce the time spent online, and gradually cultivate children's time management skills.

2.Plan daily activities with your child and make a plan to help your child gradually get rid of Internet addiction.

3.Encourage your child to participate in beneficial activities such as sports, calligraphy, etc., so that your child can learn new skills and hobbies.

4.Educate children to establish a correct concept of Internet use, and let them know that the Internet is not the only way to live.

5.Establish rules and clarify the family's rules for using the Internet, and children should know which times they can go online and which times they are not allowed.

7.Parents should lead by example, and they should first control their own online time and not set a bad example for their children.

8.If the child is already severely addicted, professional help should be sought in time.

First, we need to set some rules at home. For example, when parents are there, they can only go online to complain about potatoes.

And make an appointment, and when the time comes, remind him to come down. In addition, you can also let your child make some cards and reminder cards by himself. When the time comes, just open the card and take a look.

In addition, Zhenchang is necessary to find a psychologist to intervene, do cognitive behavior**, to understand the harm caused by excessive use of the Internet, and the impact on him. In addition, it is also possible to do system desensitization**. Parents can do it at home under the guidance of a doctor.

For example, the time spent online is gradually reduced for him, and it is carried out under the supervision of parents. And when you go online, check some healthier content.

It is also possible to replace ** with some. Let him do some outdoor activities that he was interested in first. For example:

Playing ball, making friends, hiking, traveling, or just going out to eat. These are helpful for children. You can also let those children who have quit Internet addiction do group talks and **, help each other with friends, and quit Internet addiction.

If a child has an Internet addiction, how can we help the child to quit it? First, let's start by setting some rules at home. For example, you can only use the Internet when your parents are there.

And set a good time. Make an appointment, and when it's time, remind him to come down. In addition, you can also let your child make some cards and reminder cards by yourself.

At that point, open the card and take a look.

In addition, it is necessary to find this psychologist to intervene when necessary. Do cognitive behavior** to understand the harm caused by the excessive use of the network and the impact on him. In addition, it is also possible to do system desensitization**.

This can be done at home under the guidance of a doctor. For example, the time spent online is gradually reduced for him, and it is carried out under parental supervision. And when you go online, check some of the healthier content.

You can also use some instead of **, first add some outdoor activities that he is interested in and interested in before. For example, playing ball, making friends, hiking, traveling, or going out to eat. These are helpful for children.

In addition, it can also be used for those children who have quit Internet addiction, we do some group talks, group **, help each other together, quit this Internet addiction.

Children are very addicted to the Internet, and should be actively educated and psychological**.

First, encourage and support children, encourage children to have more contact with people, communicate and exchange with friends, and shift their attention to the real society, rather than being immersed in the virtual world of the Internet, at this time to strengthen the connection with reality and reduce dependence on the Internet.

Second, as a child's supervisor, of course, the child himself should also be aware of the great harm of Internet addiction, and take the initiative to quit Internet addiction, only parental supervision and self-supervision can effectively alleviate the harm of Internet addiction to themselves, shorten the time and frequency of Internet access, etc.

Third, psychological, because Internet addiction is also a problem of addiction, you can consider systematic desensitization, cognitive behavior, psychoanalysis, etc., these psychological methods are very helpful, can make children get rid of Internet addiction, reduce dependence on the Internet, choose all the above psychological methods to seek help from professional psychological counselors in time.