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At the beginning of the school year, students have just entered the middle school, changed the environment, and put themselves into a new learning life, this new middle school life will inevitably put forward certain requirements for life, and students must strive to meet this requirement, if they cannot successfully meet the requirements of the school, students will have some psychological problems. Due to the different psychological characteristics of each student, there are many reasons for students' psychological discomfort, then, in the face of the new life, many students will show some unsuitable psychology and behavior, teachers should carefully observe, be good at finding students' unsuitable performance and take effective measures to help students adapt to the new life smoothly.
School is a new and unfamiliar environment for new students. When a person comes to an unfamiliar environment, he will inevitably feel nervous and uncomfortable. Unfamiliar with the school environment, do not know the classroom, playground, toilet, do not know the school's work and rest time, are not familiar with the school's rules and regulations, etc., which will inevitably cause students to be psychologically uncomfortable.
1. Help new students to familiarize themselves with the school environment and understand the rules and regulations.
Students sit straight with their hands on their backs during class, which is easy to cause fatigue among students; Some teachers are too serious in class, and students are afraid to speak or ask questions, or even fear the teacher.
2. Help students form a good class group".
As far as newly enrolled children are concerned, they have already formed a preliminary sense of collectivity in the group life of pre-school children, but at that time the concept of collectivity is still relatively vague and the relationship between the individual and the collective is not clear. Therefore, from the beginning of the freshmen's entry into the school, various forms should be used to educate the concept of collectivism and the sense of collective honor, and the building of class collectives should be vigorously strengthened.
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After the freshman enrolls, the most worrying thing is how to quickly integrate into the new environment, today, I will share with you the next 5 tips, parents should give their children.
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Adjust your mindset and work hard to overcome it. 1. Parents can take their children to visit the campus in advance. Parents can take their children to the primary school campus to visit more before and after the start of school, so that their children can be familiar with the campus environment, so that they like to come to primary school to study.
2. Parents should help their children meet new people. A large part of the reason why children do not adapt to school is that they feel that their classmates are very strange, and they feel lonely without friends. Parents can take care to help their children meet new friends in the class.
3. Parents should do a good job in logistics, pick up and drop off their children as soon as possible, and give them a sense of security. Parents should temporarily put aside their busy work or ask their family members to help with logistics to ensure their children's nutrition during the enrollment period. Pick up and drop off the children as soon as possible, so that the children can see the smiling faces of their families after school, and give the children a sense of security.
In this way, the child will be able to adapt to life after entering school very quickly.
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Take time to go around your classmates' schools, communicate and communicate, have fun with your dormitory classmates, get to know more students from other majors, do some small business, and learn about investment and financial management!
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First of all, it is necessary to be clear about the causes of maladaptation and the manifestations of maladaptation.
Second, adjust your mentality, bravely face the situation that you don't adapt to, and think about it.
Third, increase communication. Communicate more with classmates, roommates, and teachers, get familiar with the school campus, and find what you like and what you are interested in.
Fourth, if you really can't get rid of your discomfort, find a way to retreat, or change schools or majors, or take a long leave to rest for a while. This fourth step is not to retreat as a last resort, retreat is the best policy (except, of course, if the body is not adapting). )
Advice: Everyone learns to grow up, be brave.
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I recommend going to see "The Grave of a College Student".
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1) Environmental stress factors: mainly manifested in the changes of school environment, learning conditions and methods, changes in living habits, language barriers, etc.
2) Self-related maladaptation factors: mainly manifested in the contradiction between the "ideal self" and reality, the inadaptability in the process of self-development, the establishment of self-unity and its confusion, etc.
3) Interpersonal and personality factors: laughter is mainly manifested in the disorder of interpersonal communication, imperfection of personality, and inadaptability to the changes in motivation that develops within the body.
4) Sex-related maladaptation factors: mainly manifested in the distress of sexual consciousness, psychological problems of sexual behavior, abnormal sexual behavior, sexual injury, maladaptation caused by lovelorn, etc.
5) Other factors: discomfort due to significant loss, discomfort caused by hurtful experiences in early life, etc. Psychological research has shown that
Dramatic changes in an individual's environment can also cause psychological stress on the individual. Although environmental change is also a part of life, the impact of this change on individual adaptation is more prominent.
The change of living environment is a big challenge for new students. The main aspect of this change is to live independently and cope with all the trivial things of life. For example, several students live in the same dormitory, and they need to face and adapt to each other's living habits, work and rest arrangements, including language barriers.
In particular, many new students have the problem of being far away from their hometowns and relatives, and it will take some time to get used to it.
However, relatively speaking, it is far more difficult for college students to adapt to new interpersonal relationships than to adapt to their learning and living environment. Entering university means entering a whole new level of human connection. In the face of new students from different places with different styles and characteristics, it is very important to establish a coordinated and friendly interpersonal relationship.
Most students have been living with classmates or relatives they are familiar with before enrolling, and their interpersonal relationships are relatively stable. Once in college, Na Tuo will face a process of re-re-identifying people and establishing interpersonal relationships. The progress of this process will have a very large impact on the whole of university life.
The interpersonal relationship, social and adjustment disorders that are prevalent among college students may be related to the interpersonal relationship status of freshmen.
Adaptation to the new environment also includes adaptation to changes in one's own status. This change includes not only new learning content and learning methods, but also new interpersonal relationships, language skills, and future development orientation. The new role requires college students to re-evaluate themselves and others, and to redesign the process of self-design.
In the process of adaptation, a fundamental characteristic is that college students want to be excellent in their new environment. For new students who have just undergone great environmental changes, there is not only a problem of adapting to the external environment, but more importantly, they are also facing a process of self-adjustment. In the past, freshman orientation focused more on the former and less on the latter.
In fact, it is the latter that has a greater impact on their mental health. In general, whether it is the adaptation to the learning and living environment, or the adaptation to interpersonal relationships, and changes in self-status, it will greatly affect the mental health of college students at that time.
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It's normal to not be comfortable at a new school, and here are some things you can try:
2.Listen carefully and take good notes: In a new school, the difficulty and pressure of learning may increase, so you need to listen carefully to the teacher's lectures, take good notes, preview and review in advance, and gradually adapt to the new learning rhythm and subject teaching methods.
3.Seek help: If you are struggling with your studies or life, you can seek help from your teachers, counselors, classmates or the school hospital. You are not alone in school, and everyone will encounter similar problems, so don't be shy and have the courage to ask for help.
4.Adapting to a new lifestyle: Going to a new city or a new school requires adapting to a new lifestyle, such as school rules and regulations, diet, daily habits, etc.
Therefore, it is necessary to actively adapt to the new lifestyle in order to better integrate into the new environment.
In conclusion, adjusting to a new school takes time and patience, so don't worry and be anxious too much, and give yourself more time to adapt and adapt to the new changes.
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There is no choice but to try to adapt, and you have to learn to deal with new classmates with different personalities, otherwise the road will be difficult in the future.
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Make more friends and get used to it slowly.
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