What have you learned from your past love experiences?

Don't expect too much from your first love, first love is beautiful, but it's only because it's your first love. Most first loves don't mean it's definitely not suitable, it's just that you're inexperienced. And the change of heart is not as incredible as you think.

The vows are true, but they are only true when they are spoken. When I change my mind, I don't love all kinds of factors, how can those vows still count. ‍‍

When you're in love, I think you must not be cold, especially for boys. The boy's thinking is to be calm, in the eyes of the boy, a fight with a buddy, and a heartless person who doesn't talk every two days and plays together again, this kind of thinking can't be used on girls. It's okay to be noisy if you have a problem, but always remember that she is your lover, don't be too impulsive, and talk still through the brain.

All decisions should be made with the consequences in mind. ‍‍

Don't waste yourself for the sake of falling in love. You want to spend time and energy on the other person, treat the other person as all, or that sentence, there is nothing wrong with the relationship. However, if you want to firmly grasp the other person, it is not by paying, but by being a better self.

Falling in love is not about being moved and grateful, it is about attracting. ‍‍

Many couples sulk at each other because they can't communicate, and they are wronged at night. Real love doesn't last long, and the impulse of love is only emotional for a while. When you get used to it, you will become more and more rational.

So quarrels are inevitable, not so many people are born to mature, and they all learn slowly. ‍‍

I think the most important thing is that boys should understand girls, and girls should be considerate of boys. Two people are equal status, once the status is unequal, it is a matter of time before you break up, don't think that blindly sacrificing for each other is a great thing, in the end it is just a word of gratitude. ‍

My ex and I have been going through 4 to 5 years, from just entering the campus to facing social choices, and then to being in a different place, which is very difficult. I don't mean a specific person here, I just feel that sometimes there are contradictions that are not one person's fault, and that two people are not good at communicating to a certain extent, or there is a gap and there is a conflict, which is the most distressing. The two need to communicate more together, and even talk about their own situations, choices, and troubles at the moment, so that the other party can feel that you are trustworthy.

When you are in love, think more about each other, and don't love each other from your own standpoint. If the other person wants to eat pears, you have to think that you have given the sweetest apple. Romance is not about moving oneself, it is about giving the other person the surprise they want. ‍‍

To be a human being, you have to think about others, you can't just care about your own pleasure, if you can do it all over again, I am willing to accompany him to the place where he wants to play.

Although the previous relationship was not successful, it really taught me what I need to improve.

The twisted melon is not sweet, I want the other party to like me, and then fall in love with her, otherwise the money will run out, the bag will be bought, and my girlfriend will still say goodbye to me!

In the process of falling in love, you can learn about the other party's past emotional experience, but it is not necessary, and there are three reasons why you say so. First of all, I think that if he wants to tell you, he will naturally tell you, and forcing the other person to tell you will make him uncomfortable. Secondly, asking too many details will make you uncomfortable and will mind more.

In addition, what you ask is not necessarily the truth, everything is just his side of the story. <>

In the relationship, some people especially want to know some of the emotional experiences of the other party, in fact, I personally do not recommend that you ask too much about each other's past, because I think the past and the present have nothing to do with each other, and grasping the present is the most important thing. There are three reasons for this.

First of all, I feel like if he wants to tell you, he will. If the other party wants to tell you how many relationships he has had in the past and what kind of past he has, he will often take the initiative to tell you, and if he doesn't say it to prove that he doesn't want to say it, it may be that he doesn't care and thinks it's not worth mentioning. If we ask proactively, it may cause disgust and discomfort to the other person.

Second, asking too many details can make you uncomfortable. In addition to making the other person uncomfortable, if you ask too much and know too much, you may also make yourself uncomfortable. Everyone has a past, the past is in the past, it won't happen again, you may mind if you ask too much, and you may make comparisons in the future to find yourself unhappy.

Therefore, I don't feel the need to ask him.

In addition, what you ask is not necessarily the truth. Now you ask the other person about what happened in the past, and it's just his words, and you don't know what the truth is. He may glorify himself, scandalize the other person, or he may hide something from you.

He tells you what he wants you to know, and there are many things he may not have told you, and there are things he doesn't want you to know. From this point of view, I don't think you can ask him the truth at all.

That's why I don't feel the need to ask about what happened in the past.

If she takes the initiative to say something, you can understand, and if she doesn't say it, there is no need to force it. After all, everyone has a past. We just have to look at the present. Cherish each other well and don't break up easily.

I don't think I need to know because the other person's previous emotional experience has passed, and there is no need to know anymore.

I don't think it's time to know about the other person's past emotional experiences, because the past is gone, just grasp the present.

1.After many times of falling in love, I realized that not all relationships will have a result, and after many times of falling in love, I learned that some people will take your sincerity as a joke. After all these things, I realized that it is important to meet the right people.

2.Falling in love is a beautiful thing. When we were young, we were full of longing for affection. Later, when we reached the age where we could talk about marriage, we also talked about falling in love and experienced different relationships. These relationships have also taught us some truths.

3.After being in love many times, I realized that not all people take their relationships so seriously. Sometimes we fall in love with someone at first sight, like a demon, like a demon, be good to him, and give to him wholeheartedly.

But he may not like you that much, but he doesn't reject you either. After you were with him, you gave a lot, but he didn't take you very seriously. One day, when he learns that he meets someone he likes more, he will abandon you.

4.After many relationships, I learned that some people are not worthy of your kindness to him. When we are in love, we may be single-minded towards someone, but that person is not the same towards us.

He may show his charm by bragging to his brothers about how good a girl is to him, and it also shows that some people are not worthy of our love. 1.After talking about love many times, I realized that not all relationships will have a result, and after talking about many relationships, I learned that some people will take your sincerity as a joke.

After all these things, I realized that it is important to meet the right people.

2.Falling in love is a beautiful thing. When we were young, we were full of longing for affection. Later, when we reached the age where we could talk about marriage, we also talked about falling in love and experienced different relationships. These relationships have also taught us some truths.

3.After being in love many times, I realized that not all people take their relationships so seriously. Sometimes we fall in love with someone at first sight, like a demon, like a demon, be good to him, and give to him wholeheartedly.

But he may not like you that much, but he doesn't reject you either. After you were with him, you gave a lot, but he didn't take you very seriously. Wait until one day when he meets someone he likes more, he will abandon you.

I believe that the sprouts of love for many people come from their student days, and the love in our student days is very innocent, at that time we are all eager to be with the person we like, but most people will choose to have a crush, because they are afraid that this relationship will hurt the friendship between two people, or the relationship between classmates, so many people have had a crush on someone else when they were students. So now let's look at such a question, what do you have a deep understanding of the love experience? In fact, I think the more times we fall in love, the better, when we really fall in love with someone, we will find that the whole world becomes warm and beautiful, love is so magical.

One. Being in love will make our lives better.

I believe that many people will find that there is no lack of beauty in life after falling in love, but there is a lack of a pair of eyes to find beauty. For example, when brushing your teeth, there is still some toothpaste at the corner of your mouth, and the other party will wipe off this part of the toothpaste for yourself, which is such a small action, which is unforgettable, and you will inadvertently think of it and secretly raise the corners of your mouth. Love is so beautiful many times, unconsciously, it makes us feel its existence and makes our lives sweet.

Two. Be sane when you're in love.

Many people may become irrational when they are obsessed with love, especially when two people quarrel and always make some irrational decisions. It's best not to have a love brain when we are in love, love is just a part of our life, don't take love as the whole of your life, otherwise it will become particularly painful when you are separated, and it will take a long time to ** yourself, loving someone will make each other excellent together, not make each other decadent. <>

The above is just a personal opinion, love is not about experiencing as much as possible, and it is the luckiest person to meet the one who really loves you.

That is, no matter how good he is to you, you have to work hard with him, so that you will have results. If he is just paying alone, after a long time, he will also feel tired, and he will choose to give up on you at that time. Therefore, everything requires two people to work together to have a bright future.

The deep memory is, of course, the first love, the first love is always the most beautiful and sweetest, the first love is pure, the first love is like a blank paper without any stain, the feeling of the first love is self-evident, I want to say dear, there will always be your imprint in my heart.

I think the experience of being in love, in fact, everyone can go through it. Some people may experience it once, while others may experience it two or three times. But every relationship, I think, will leave a lasting impression on you. It will also make you more mature.

For me, I feel that it is a very profound lesson, because in the last relationship, I gave too much, resulting in being completely used by her to obey him in the end, and I was willing, so I said that giving you a middle finger is to leave a way out for yourself no matter what you do.

In fact, everyone's love experience is apprehensive and bumpy. There will be a lot of twists and turns. That's because two people who don't know each other well are together and have a lot to grind into.

These are quite normal. The whole experience of being in love doesn't need to be too long. But be sure to get to know each other clearly.

The deep understanding of the love experience will change oneself and make one's psychology more and more mature. will make yourself change the responsibility, the deepest understanding of who is the person you like to have.

It will make your next relationship go more smoothly, and it will also improve your emotional intelligence, you don't have to re-run with others, and you will know how to get along with others better, but it may make you more reluctant to enter the next relationship.

If you are in love, you will understand that it is easy for two people to get along, but it is really difficult to get along. Falling in love is a matter of two people, so be tolerant of each other and consider each other's feelings when doing things.

Love also requires experience, and when encountering problems, it is also necessary to choose the right way to solve problems, and it is necessary to accumulate experience points, so that you can better manage your feelings and avoid problems in your relationship.

My deepest understanding of love is not that your other half will always be good to you after falling in love, some things change after falling in love.

What is truly worth cherishing is not what is lost or not gained. Instead, you should cherish what you have now. Work hard to improve yourself, and you will meet a better version of yourself.

Personally, I think the more profound story is not to push the other party too hard, but to give the other party a little personal space.

If someone asks you when you were last in love, how, if you don't want to come back, say forget the past. Three floors. The first one is the first love, I met in high school, but it is very similar to the plot in love**, because the college entrance examination is in a different city, and I finally chose to break up, but I have regrets in my heart.

The second is a boyfriend I met in college, a native of Chengdu. The reason for the separation was that his parents did not approve of him finding a girlfriend from out of town. At this time, there is a little social reality.

The third is a typical representative of a successful career, who is introduced by his parents to a blind date.

However, the two had too little to talk about together, and they later broke up. I believe that everyone will have one or several relationship experiences, some of which will make you unforgettable, but some of which will make you grow. Of the few relationships I've had, the one I'm most memorable about is where I am now.

There are many reasons why it is memorable. The first reason is that he is handsome. Compared to the previous boyfriend.

This boyfriend really fits my requirements. The legs are long, the important thing is that the person is still thin, and he is the god of the future modeling industry.

However, they have learned a profession that requires them to spend all day in a lab coat. When people ask me what he does, all I can say I don't know. The second reason was that he was chased.

I really fell in love with him at first sight. When I saw his **, I told my friends that I liked this boy. Later, I started to add button numbers and started crazy chat mode.

As a result, the boy stayed still until he started directly saying that he already had a girlfriend. That's when I let go of my quest and focused on other places. Later, he suddenly realizes that he doesn't have a girlfriend at all, so he fights a battle to win and catches up with the boy.

The third reason is that the mode of getting along is perfect. I've always been worried that there will be a lot of differences between two people because of age differences or hobbies, but the results are not perfect. He loves football, so I'll accompany him to football matches.

He knew I liked romance movies, so he would take me to see romance movies. Although he told me at the end of the film that he didn't understand it if he narrowed it down a little bit in the middle of the movie, I told him very well, just like he explained to me when he watched a football game. In short, I believe that we can live a long time, and the unforgettable events and experiences are not just a short paragraph, but I hope that we will have the opportunity to tell you about it in the future.