After 12 years, I saw my first boyfriend again, how did I feel?

Updated on society 2024-03-02
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Friend, it's my first love after 12 years.

    Boyfriend, the mood should be very excited, you must control your emotions and feelings, and don't have deviant thoughts.

    1.After many years, when you meet your first love again, what will you say in the first sentence.

    2. At a class reunion many years later, I met my first love again, he was married, and the bride had the same surname as me, with a single name.

    4. Many years later, when I met my first love by chance, what was the hurry? I trembled.

    5. One day more than ten years later, I accidentally met your first love at a certain intersection [surprised], will you greet each other?

    6. If you meet your first love after many years. What you would say to him or her is limited to four words.

    7. Many years later, what kind of experience is it to meet your first love on a strange street.

    8, the beginning of the first love is like **, but the end is inexplicable, and it meets by coincidence many years later, and it is like the plot of the movie, which is so beautiful.

    9. There is no process of big ups and downs, there is no unforgettable life, Xiangzi many years later.

    When I think back to my first love, I just say, "It's a very ordinary person." But it's nice to meet you in my youth, and it's nice to know you.

    10. The trivial matter of first love.

    Beauty is beauty in the world, regardless of the future. Years later, when I met the former him, she, a smart person, will forever retain this spiritual utopia.

    Go to the place, let the fantasy of love continue to the earth.

    11. I met your first love after many years! He rushes up and hugs you. What will happen to you?

    12. Many years later, when you meet the first love that you once wanted to live for a lifetime, you find that everything is just a beautiful phantom, and we can't go back, even if the smiling face has become unrecognizable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that if I see my first boyfriend again after 12 years, then the mood will be calmer, because after so many years, the two of them have their own lives, so the mood is relatively calm.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After 12 years, I saw my first boyfriend again, and the feeling was very exciting, very indescribable, very excited, very happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I met your first boyfriend again after 12 years. I think the key depends on whether you are still thinking about your first love, if you have let go and started your new life, your mood will be very calm, on the contrary, you will be excited and uneasy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Shocked, I can't believe it, I wonder if I have seen it wrong, I miss the previous years, and my psychology is ready to move.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on how you are feeling at the time, but in general, first love is always memorable and even unforgettable. When we meet after many years, the mood must be mixed!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's been 12 years apart, and both of them have experienced a lot for such a long time, maybe the mood is very calm when they meet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I miss the time when we were with each other I should have been very happy at that time First love is the first heartbeat, the heart of a person of the opposite sex, and the love that is as pure as a blank piece of paper.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't have a lot of ability, don't have too much temper, otherwise you will be very troublesome; If you don't have much ability, don't have too much desire, otherwise you will be miserable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People always pursue love and eternity, but they always forget how to maintain and manage their marriage. How many people still stick to the vow they made at the wedding, "no matter what the situation is, always love him as one" When in love, the wind and snow can be expected, and each other is showing all their love to each other all the time, and the occasional small surprise will always move the other party. Once you enter marriage, only firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea remain, and you will no longer talk about romantic surprises.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. It shows that he is very happy to see you, and he has never forgotten you!

    2. Maybe he still has feelings for you, but if you each already have a family, then it's best to keep a little distance between you!

    He's been having a hard time lately (emotionally) Probably! Need to be comforted, and at this point he thought of you。。 After that, I couldn't suppress the loneliness and sorrow in my heart...

    He will hold you and kiss you! The above is the first scenario! The second one might be that there is something wrong with him, and you won't see each other again (to another world!).

    Don't be surprised! The third possibility is that he has made a fortune, and he feels ashamed of you before, and now he wants to make up for you!

    After a long time, people's life circles will change, the world you have I have my scenery, keep the youngest and best memories in your heart, take care.

    What are you asking?

    It feels like you still can't forget it.

    Then don't go and see each other again.

    lest the old feelings rekindle and get out of control.

    Haven't seen you in more than 20 years? I hope you are both divorced and single now, otherwise what about love, it's just an extramarital affair. Loving you will buy you a lot of things, taking into account your every feeling.

    Hai, don't you still mind our previous relationship, it's been 20 years, and a lot of things should have changed.

    See us. What if there's still a chance?

    Even if he got married.

    You can still be close friends.

    If you are married or have a lover, it is recommended that you do not do this, you have to think about the person who really loves you, think about your original intention to be together, and the responsible and principled person is the man.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is normal, it shows that he still loves you very much! You don't have to think too much about this! If there is nothing between you, then there is nothing!

    You just don't have to think about it! I believe there is affection between you, but you don't want to admit it! Don't think about it, let it be, no matter what, you have to face reality, don't run away!

    Alright, I'm done, I hope it helps you!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It can be difficult to determine what exactly your first boyfriend is contacting you psychologically, as this can vary from person to person. However, here are some possible reasons:

    1.Nostalgia for the past: He may be nostalgic for your past feelings and thinks your days together are good, so he wants to contact you again.

    2.Loneliness: He may feel lonely and need someone to talk to or company. You used to have a relationship base, so he may feel safer contacting you.

    4.Hope to rekindle the relationship: He may think that your relationship was good, and it is possible that you broke up not because of relationship problems, but for other reasons. He may want to reconnect with you to see if there is a chance to start your relationship again.

    5.Bad motives: He may have bad motives, such as wanting to take advantage of you or renew relationships, which requires careful consideration.

    Whatever his motives, it is advisable to handle the situation with caution. Before reaching out to him, think about your feelings and goals, and what you hope to get out of the connection. If you feel uncertain or uncomfortable, you can keep your distance for a while and observe his behavior and attitude more before deciding whether to continue contact.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Relive the old love, go back to the past, and re-experience the feeling of first love, most likely it is emotional emptiness, that is, the first love boyfriend is a restless man, and he wants the red flag to not fall and the colorful flag fluttering, don't pay attention to it, he is just because of the temporary inner emptiness that needs to be filled, and you are the substitute he thinks is the easiest to get started.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe he suddenly remembered at some moment, he wanted to contact you, maybe he didn't find the right person, maybe his marriage was unhappy, and he wanted to eat back grass.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    met my first boyfriend who had been absent for more than ten years, and it was a long time since I had been absent, which means that the relationship has been let go. And when I met my first boyfriend who had been absent for more than ten years, it was a long time since I had been absent, which means that this relationship has been let go. And more than ten years have passed, and everyone has their own lives.

    met my first boyfriend who had been absent for more than ten years, and it was a long time since I had been absent, which means that this relationship has been put down, and more than ten years have passed, everyone has their own lives, smile, say hello when it is convenient, and pass by with a smile if it is inconvenient. It's inconvenient to laugh it off. Don't dwell on it, and don't worry too much about it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, I am Qianxun, a consultant of Yidianling Psychological Counseling Service Platform, I have seen your question, and I am preparing to give you a reply here, please wait for a while.

    In this case, we will indeed have mixed feelings in our hearts.

    So did you talk about anything when you met, or just nodded, or left without even saying hello?

    Questions. At the New Year's Eve party, he bit my hand hard and what it represented.

    I still have public opinion for you, so I'm a little resentful.

    Are you all still single?

    If you're still single, the teacher will find this cute. But if not, I think something might be wrong.

    Questions. All have families, he didn't ask me before, he kissed me yesterday.

    Hahahahaha Relationships too.

    Some romance can also be with the right person.

    Questions. Is it that funny?

    Of course, we also respect our own feelings, no matter how you choose, the teacher will respect you.

    Questions. [tears] [tears] [tears] [tears].

    If it is a teacher, the teacher will choose to respect the true feelings of his heart, choose what he wants most in his heart, and then do his best to minimize the damage.

    Questions. I have nothing but pity for her, we both have families, but we are eager to get in touch with him.

    To him, I am a woman.

    Hug you, the teacher's deep desire is not only emotional but also principled, what do you want most. Maybe it's time to think about it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I haven't seen my first love since I graduated from junior high school, but I have never forgotten it, one day after thirteen years, on my way from work, I suddenly thought about what it would be like if my first love also worked in our unit, and what kind of atmosphere would it be like for us to meet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you are still the original good, it is good to talk about the past, talk about the present and the future, if it is already a matter of things and people, and your mentality has changed, then you will live your own life, do not disturb each other, and be well-......

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After more than ten years, they should all have their own families, and they will be calm when they meet again, and don't come to harm. Nature.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    And then what? What do you think.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Liking someone for a long time is a special case of emotional inertia, especially for first lovers. Sometimes, we may keep each other's image in our hearts for a long time, and sometimes it becomes unreal, and even uses emotional inertia as a comfort zone. Therefore, depending on the loss of time, inertial emotions may also become slightly diluted or even disappear.

    On the other hand, we also need to note that people's emotions are complex and are not simply divided into "like" and "dislike". Maybe your feelings for this person are also multifaceted, and you need to seriously consider whether this person is worthy of continued love, and then make a decision on this basis.

    In addition, we also need to note that many feelings that are considered "like" are actually people's lack of certain emotions in their hearts, such as loneliness, loneliness, emptiness, etc. If this is the case, we need to learn to face up to our inner emotions and try to solve them by truly satisfying our own needs, rather than projecting those emotions onto a specific person.

    1.Try to have a simple chat with him first, and verify your feelings for this person by understanding the changes in the other person's recent situation, work, life, etc.

    2.Slowly develop the habit of socializing, you can meet frequently, participate in some activities and gatherings, and try to build a deeper relationship with the other person.

    3.Understand each other's personality traits, such as what kind of sports the other person likes, what kind of food, which **, movies, etc., so as to find some projects that can be participated in together, and establish common interests for the relationship.

    4.If the person is married or already in love, we need to carefully consider whether it is appropriate to remain in a relationship. We must abide by ethics and respect the choices of the other party to prevent unnecessary harm.

    All in all, if you need to face this situation, the most important thing is to stay calm and think rationally. Don't easily entrust your emotions to someone, especially a long-term relationship. According to the actual situation, carry out appropriate communication and interaction, and try to establish common interests, so as to better find emotional resonance.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First love is not just a person, first love represents a person's youth, a good time. First love is simple, so most people miss it. The person you fell in love with for the first time may have taught you how to love, and perhaps helped you grow.

    So many years later,If you see him or her again, ask me how it would feel. That's supposed to be the feeling of being loved.

    In the face of first love, both of them are ignorant periods, and they are slightly immature in terms of feelings. They will imagine what love should look like, look for it according to their imagination, they will learn romantic love, and then apply it to practice, giving each other a sense of ritual. They will be careful in the process.

    Therefore, many people's first love, although the love is unforgettable, will fail. Because they imagine love too beautifully, they want to get the kind of love they fantasize about. But that's not the case in reality.

    Many years later, the person you fell in love with will feel different. Some people laugh and pass by, but their hearts are turbulent. Some people can really be calm.

    Some people see that their first love has a significant other, and although many years have passed, their hearts still hurt when they see it. There are also people who still love their first love, and they are still nostalgic when they see each other. Although they have different attitudes towards their first love, their first love is the first time they are in love, and they teach you how to love.

    is like Fang Wei and Chen Xun in "The Year in a Hurry". For Chen Xun, Fang Wei is his first love. After separating in time, Chen Xun found a girlfriend again, but when he saw Fang Wei being bullied, he still wanted to protect her, and protected her in his own way when Fang Wei was unexpectedly pregnant.

    Chen Xun is not only the first love for Fang Wei, but Chen Xun has also changed Fang Wei. Later, they broke up, but Fang Wei still loved him, and she even used very stupid methods to keep him. Still not reconciled, she even despaired for a while.

    Her deep love for Chen Xun, I think if Fang Wei meets Chen Xun again after 20 yearsI think she would have recognized him at a glance, and in time she would have been calm on the surface, but there would have been a faint pain in her heart.

    I think the best way to meet in 20 years is to wake up in the morning and he or she is right in front of you. This is also the love that many people envy, the first love that many people want to have. Chen Xiaoxi and Jiang Chen in the TV series "Little Beauty" are enviable, the two of them have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and finally put on suits and wedding dresses.

    Although there are misunderstandings and misses in the middle, in the end they are sweet. They have their own love from first love to wedding dress, this love from youth to maturity, and the growth of the two of them, witnessing each other. made many netizens chase the drama several times.

    After 20 years, we are no longer young, and no matter what, our first love has loved each other. Hopefully, it will be natural to meet again, and you can look at each other and smile without embarrassment. I hope that each other can live well, and we can both have a partner who loves themselves and their love.

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