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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "unfulfillable promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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What are you tattooing for?
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It depends on age
For example, if you are younger, you may just want to pursue individuality. They either watched a certain movie, or worshiped a certain star, and when they saw them tattooed, they tattooed themselves; Of course, it is not excluded that some little children are a bit ruffian and want to enhance their black charm.
Men and women who are full of youth may be in pursuit of beauty. They have a certain understanding of right and wrong, they have their own understanding of fashion, and they want to pursue the beauty of their own style.
If you are older (thirty or forty years old, not too big), it may be a pursuit of art, and tattoos are an art in themselves!
The older ones (forty or fifty, or even older) may be the younger ones, who participated in some messy organization, and left ...... evidence
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I advocate not getting tattoos.
Because everything in the world has torture and injury, after the tattoo encounters the passing years of torture and injury, when you are young, you can still suppress your vigor, and when you are old, you will suffer when you can't suppress it. In addition, the recognition of tattoos in Chinese folklore is very low, and many people think that there are no good people who tattoo tattoos on their bodies. Nowadays, many professions (symbolic soldiers and civil servants) are not allowed to recruit people with tattoos, which also shows the official attitude of our country.
In your case, there may not be a problem of employment, but there is a problem of torture and harm. One of you likes water and the other likes wood, he is suitable for tattooing tigers and rabbits, but it is against the dragon you are suitable for. A tattooed tiger and a tattooed dragon, if the dragon fights, it is estimated that there will be no peace at home.
What's more, dragons and rabbits harm each other.
Tattoos can indeed show personality and are also an art form, but in our country, at least for now, it is difficult to get into the hall of elegance. This trend is difficult to reverse in a short period of time.
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