I m not doing well in my first year of high school, I m only 16 years old, and I don t want to study

Actually, I'm a sophomore in high school, I was in my first year of high school, and the school we were admitted to was very good, and I always thought I was very good, and I suddenly found that in this big school, I was a complete little person, and then I didn't get good grades in the exam, and I thought that since you can ask this question here, then you must be a person who cares about learning, and if a person is interested in studying, then why should he worry about poor grades for a while? Really, you can position yourself well, and then think about other things, and studying is not necessarily the way out If you really don't like it, learn to do what you like, so that you can do the most valuable thing with your original career, of course, such a big thing, don't decide for yourself, discuss it with your parents, believe in yourself, as long as you can do something as best you can.

It's still early in the first year of high school, so adjust your mentality. It's understandable that people don't want to study in their third year of high school and think it's too late, so don't think too much. Just feel free to do it.

High school life is indeed a very memorable time in my school career. Whether it is your ordinary time or vigorous struggle, it will make you unforgettable in the end. Personally, I think that the first year of high school can be confused and presumptuous, do what you like, and be happy!

You don't have to care too much about your grades, you can be "arrogant" and don't care, but you can't give up completely, find what you like, pursue bravely, persevere, and maybe gain another ability. School life is very beautiful and rare, I hope to cherish it!

You need time to calm down and think about what you really want??? Ask yourself, don't ask others! You don't want to learn, maybe because you haven't found a sense of fulfillment or accomplishment in it!

These two are two important factors for people to be motivated to do something. It is better to ask for others than for yourself......Hope for your own respect!

Study for exams. In the final exam, it is not your wisdom or your knowledge that depends on it. It's your attitude! As long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed, and even if you fail, you have worked hard yourself. At least with a clear conscience...

We must study hard and make progress every day. Read more extracurricular books!

Study hard, and you will have a good way out in the future.

Maybe you're not interested right now, don't worry, cultivate slowly.

My son, who is 17 years old and a sophomore in high school this year, told me he didn't want to study ......I think as a parent, will encounter these children's learning problems, it is recommended to take a positive and proactive attitude to face, because the most important thing is that he takes the initiative to raise it to you, rather than hiding this problem in your heart, so you should cherish this turning point, and work with him to overcome this problem together.

1) First of all, listen carefully why he decided to stop school in the second year of high school, because there is still more than a year to complete his high school education. Find out why he stopped finishing high school or if he had any learning difficulties or interests in continuing his studies.

2) If you can find out the reasons for his learning difficulties or lack of interest, try to find ways to help him solve these problems, so that he can concentrate on completing his basic secondary education. Finding out the root cause is the best way to deal with it and help him through this difficult time, communicate with him more and give him encouragement and support as much as possible. My son is 17 years old this year, and it is also the adolescence that requires his parents to value and respect his opinions, and reasonable rebellion is also a normal manifestation, and we recall that we have also experienced this period of growth.

3) Tell him that "work hard and pay today, and your future life will be guaranteed", the hard work when you are young is the foundation for your life and work in the future, the competition among modern young people is becoming more and more fierce, everyone must have basic education and knowledge, and completing secondary school education is the most basic condition.

4) Analyze and share with him the impact of modern examinations and future college entrance examinations on the younger generation, and find out whether there is pressure on him, so that he can also understand that an examination cannot determine a young person's future achievements. Young people also need to understand that the examination system is not the only criterion for judging a person's achievement or learning.

5) Work with him** Whether he is tired of the traditional way of teaching and learning, and whether he lacks interest and motivation in his future senior year and university education, if it is true, he should be encouraged to complete the basic education of secondary school first, and then apply to those schools with specialized skills according to his interests, so that his interests can be matched with his future work, so that he can give full play to his interests. Respecting his views and making appropriate suggestions is the right way to agree, and not to rashly oppose his suggestions.

All in all, the above problems will appear in many modern families, and positive and common ** is the best way to solve this type of problem.

The above is my personal experience and sharing, and I hope to provide you with some reference information.

Hello! There is no need to persuade him to study, take advantage of the opportunity of the summer vacation, let him work on the construction site for a while, endure some hardships, maybe he will miss the school time!

17 years old, about to become an adult, since he doesn't want to read, then there is no need to force him, if his determination is made, then you can't force him to read. Maybe the study pressure is too much, and he can't stand it anymore, so you still need to know a little about the child's situation. You can talk to him and ask him what the reasons are.

If he really doesn't want to learn, then drop out.

Your son is a spinal cord in his second year of high school this year, and he told you that he doesn't want to read, and it's really not good not to read at this time, he is still young, and he doesn't need to study, and he will be very hard-working in the future, so take advantage of the holiday to take him to the construction site to see, and tell him that if he doesn't go to school well, he will have to work hard.

It is indeed a headache for parents to encounter children who don't like to study, but there must be reasons why children don't want to study, so parents need to talk to their children well, and they must understand why he gives up learning, and then they can prescribe the right medicine.

A 17-year-old boy is in a rebellious period, and it is easy to get bored with school when he is stressed, so he should be actively enlightened, at least he must study a junior college, or he can only go to the construction site to move bricks or deliver takeaways, you can talk to him, ask him what kind of life he wants, what plans he has for the future, and gradually shift the topic to the importance of going to school.

Your son is 17 years old and a sophomore in high school this year, and he told you he didn't want to go to school. You have to first understand why he doesn't want to study, and then do his ideological work, tell him the importance of reading, now that he is only 17 years old, if he doesn't want to study, what do you want to do? Try to do his ideological work and make him give up the idea of not studying.

Since they are already in their second year of high school, they must finish high school no matter what, so you can persuade your son to continue his studies and try to get his graduation certificate.

1) Ask the school how to apply for a period of leave, preferably about half a year;

2) Spend time with your child and see if it is because of poor relationship with classmates, addiction to games, or high pressure to study? Find out why.

3) If you don't have a good relationship with your classmates, it's just right to take a leave of absence, indulge in games and take a look at it, and if you are under pressure to study, you can learn something else, a chef or something.

He should still be encouraged to continue reading. You can also let him experience society.

If you don't want to read, you don't want to do anything, if you don't think about it, just go back to reading for me.

Let him go to the construction site to work for a month, and ensure that he will come back to study!

The work on the construction site doesn't tire him to death!

As long as he says that he is tired from work, he will go to read.

Beat him up and let him continue reading.

Find a psychiatrist to enlighten you.

Your son is 17 years old and doesn't want to study, and you ask him what can you do if he doesn't want to study? What will you do?

1. If you can't get into high school, you can choose to repeat: if you can't get into high school, it means that you have realized that your grades are insufficient, and you know your advantages and disadvantages in each subject.

2. Choose to go to 2 + 3 "vocational colleges: in order to take care of students with poor junior high school grades, in order to improve children's education, some provinces have set up 2 + 3 "vocational colleges, you can go to junior high school after graduation, 2 + 3" is that the curriculum is divided into 2 years of high school and 3 years of junior college, a total of 5 years, it can be said that the students who can not be admitted to high school are welfare, and this kind of colleges and universities involve more majors, and the reality is relatively strong, such as preschool education, nursing, e-commerce, design and other disciplines, very practical.

3. Go to a technical school and learn a skill: high school is really not examinable, and you don't want to go to vocational school, if your parents pay enough attention to you, if you have a plan for your future, then find a technical school and learn a skill, the future is the era of talent competition, it is a professional era, without a professional skill, the road of life is really not easy to walk!

4. Go deep into an industry, eat the industry thoroughly, and you can get ahead: people are not afraid of not learning, the most afraid of not knowing how to forge ahead, if you really drop out of school at home, then you don't have to be discouraged, you can get ahead when you go out to work, but the road you take is more difficult.

You can choose to enter a technical secondary school.

If you can't get into high school or don't want to go to high school after graduating from junior high school, you can choose to go to a technical school, if you can't get into college after graduating from high school, you still have to work, then you will have a skill after graduating from a technical school, and you can be better qualified for the job.

Learn a little technology to get a technical secondary school, technical secondary school academic certificate, you can participate in the work earlier, this graduate is also favored by small and medium-sized enterprises, but engaged in manual work. If you belong to a more comfortable and stable personality, this is also a good choice.

Students who have graduated from junior high school can enter society early.

If you think studying is a waste of time, then you can choose to be an apprentice, but you will have to endure hardships and stand hard work! In this way, you can really learn good things. In the future, you will be able to become a master and a teacher.

If you can't give good treatment for this job, you can't learn anything, and you're tired, then, you can consider changing careers, people can't make money in this life just by eating, the purpose of making money is to save some money, plan for the future, save some money to honor your parents, in addition, the purpose of work is not just for money, people need more or less one or two skills in this life.

There are many paths to choose after graduating from junior high school, those who can continue to study will go to technical schools, and those who can't learn can directly enter the society.

In fact, there are still many schools to choose from, such as vocational schools, technical schools, training schools, etc., now there are many such schools, it is recommended to choose a school with high visibility and strength according to their interests and specialties, learn technology while working as soon as possible, accumulate experience, you can learn the design industry, such as graphic design, web design, UI design, etc., the future development prospects of these industries, employment opportunities are also very rich.

If you can't go to high school, you can choose to go to a vocational and technical school to learn skills that are good for employment, such as chef skills are good for employment, have prospects, learn Western food, Western pastry, Chinese food, kindergarten teacher, nursing, wine management.

You can repeat your studies, or study in technical secondary schools and technical schools.

It is best to learn a skill, and there will be more room for employment development in the future.

Learn a technique to use for yourself.

You can choose to enroll in a technical trade that interests you.

Hello! You can consider studying new automotive technology majors, the prospects are good! For example: new energy vehicles, intelligent networked vehicles and so on.

Now is the era of automobiles, the development of popular life and society needs cars to protect, engaged in the car maintenance and repair industry, learn car beauty maintenance technology, learn to open such a car maintenance shop when the time is ripe is also good. Auto repair is definitely promising, now auto repair, car maintenance and beauty are in great demand, professional car talent is in short supply, but you have to think well.

Second, is it possible to get anything other than money through auto repair? If you can earn from this job, the more problems you can control, so that you will not worry about no development. Of course, the premise is that you give full play to your subjective initiative to learn.

I don't get good grades and want to learn a skill. How to choose a promising major? What is the key to choosing a major? Many parents and children encounter various problems when choosing a major, and they have not chosen the right one.

When many parents and children choose a major, they are often hearsay, and when they hear others say that the major is good, they blindly choose, not only do they not understand the major at all, but they also do not understand their own situation, but only understand the meaning of the name of the major. When choosing a major, you must investigate, experience and think more, and measure the advantages and disadvantages of each major according to your own situation. It is best to be able to visit the school on the spot, so as to understand the comprehensive strength of the school more intuitively.

Tip: Know your interests.

As the saying goes, "interest is a good teacher", only by understanding your true interests and having an in-depth understanding of these professions. You can go to the school to learn about the school environment, teachers, professional training, employment services and student status services.

Suggestion 2: Whether the major is developable in the future.

Although some majors are popular, they do not mean that they are easy to learn and suitable for children to learn; At the same time, some popular majors also have relatively high requirements for education level when applying for jobs, and the employment pressure after graduation will be very great.

It is recommended to choose popular majors that are easy to employ: e-commerce and full operation, e-sports and new operation, 5D animation game design and film and television post-production, VR architectural performance and smart home design, big data analysis and software development, Internet + early childhood education, senior crew and business administration and other majors, as long as the professional skills are excellent, you will not worry about finding a good job.