Is this a mental illness? 5

Maybe it's unwilling! It may be that you feel that your marriage has not met your psychological expectations. Maybe I don't know this unwillingness in my heart, but I can't help but be dissatisfied with reality and resist.

Of course, this is not a mental illness, but if you keep doing this, you will get depression. Now that this is the case, you can either divorce or live a good life. Love is beautiful, but life is realistic and trivial, and two people always have to tolerate each other in order to make the family harmonious.

Hello this friend;

You're right, this girl has a psychological problem, but he may not know it, or he can't adjust it himself. We don't know exactly what her situation is. You can come down and contact me, and we can communicate further, and I have my information in my space. Best wishes.

Oops, how do you say that there is a psychological problem, two people quarrel must be yes, is it possible that the man's fault, of course can't say 100%, not necessarily you and your object have not quarreled, more than 30, the more things you think about after being too mature, the more unsatisfactory places, who calls him her object, of course, she has to be angry, who told her to love him so much, of course, she has to be psychologically contradictory, is he younger than her, hehe, guess, Say two words nonsense, don't blame me if you're not right,

I can't tell, you have to find a professional counselor to help you, ordinary people, don't believe it, I have a friend too, the little couple is always restless, the two have also divorced, two days ago I accompanied him to Shuya psychological counseling, they made an appointment with the chief, the teacher is really good. There is really a contradiction between the two of them!

The epidemic has affected many people's lives in all aspects, not only in terms of daily food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also in the form of mental illness. Peng Guoqiu said that under the epidemic, there are three main types of common mental illnesses.

First, sleep disorders. Many people have disrupted the rhythm of life due to the epidemic, resulting in poor sleep quality. There are also people who are affected by their neighbors, and their biological clock is changed, and their sleep rhythm is disrupted.

Second, anxiety. In the early days of the pandemic, people didn't know much about the novel coronavirus, and there was a lot of panic. Others are anxious because they are facing unemployment, reduced income, and their children cannot go to school.

The specific manifestations of anxiety in terms of emotions are: the heart is not steady, and the mood is like a "roller coaster"; It's hard to calm down and not be fully engaged in your work; Physically speaking, he has difficulty breathing, sighing, and stiff limbs.

Third, depression. In particular, some patients who have had anxiety or depression in the past, during the epidemic**, experienced symptoms such as low mood, pessimism and despair, decreased appetite, weight loss, irregular menstruation, abnormal urine and bowel movements. If the symptoms persist for more than half a month and do not improve, be sure to seek help in time at the hospital.

This has nothing to do with mental illness, it's just personal preference.

Because guests at home will disturb their lives, lose their freedom, and be inconvenient, many young people would rather entertain guests outside than invite guests to their homes.

High EQ refuses relatives to come to live in the house:

said that Chang Duchun welcomes them to live at home, but I have something to do, I can't help it, I can't keep you, it's a pity. So that patience will not offend them.

For example, you can say that the whole family is traveling outside, or that there is something going on at your father's relative's house and you are asked to come over and be a party. It's that you want to go out, and you really want to stay, but you can't help it, and you seem helpless.

Everyone gets sick.

So don't have stigma.

Positive about psychological problems. Hope.

Yes.

Mental illness is caused by brain dysfunction caused by the action of internal and external phenogens on people, thereby destroying the integrity of human brain function and the unity of the individual and the external environment.

The basic symptom of mental illness is the disorder of mental activities, which leads to abnormalities in cognition, emotion, will, behavior, etc., so that it is unable to maintain a normal mental life, and even acts that are harmful to oneself and the social collective.

The main trigger

1. Overload work pressure.

Many urban white-collar workers are trapped by high-intensity work pressure, and are in a state of high tension for a long time, and often do not get timely adjustment, which will produce symptoms such as anxiety and mental depression over time, and even induce psychological disorders or mental illnesses.

2. Emotional and family changes.

Falling out of love is undoubtedly a very painful emotional experience, the lovelorn party will be painful because of the difficulty of letting go of the relationship, and the sense of loss will aggravate the degree of psychological imbalance, and some people will have psychological disorders or even irrational excesses, causing irreparable damage to the other party and themselves.

In addition, for the injured party after divorce, especially women, they often cannot withstand the blow of family disintegration, causing psychological damage. A relevant survey shows that at present, about 70% of the divorced people in China feel excessive psychological pressure, and this group is in great need of psychological support and help.

Hello this friend;

It's clear that it's a psychological problem. have masochistic tendencies; Obsessive-compulsive tendencies. I analyze it from two aspects;

1. Masochistic tendencies; The reason for masochism is the absence of ego. You can only feel your presence by abusing yourself. The deeper analysis is related to the growth environment and family when I was a child. Generally speaking; Children who lack parental care tend to be self-motivated.

Once a masochistic pattern is formed, it is difficult to change. Because only when you are masochistic, can you feel the value of existence, can you feel comfortable, and you can feel excited. And no other way, except for self-abuse, can make you feel comfortable and feel worthy.

2. You have compulsive tendencies; The main manifestations here are; Force yourself to do it**. Otherwise, there is no rest. Until it's done.

It doesn't matter if you're tired or not. This is also essentially a form of masochism and a manifestation of self-abuse. Push yourself to do this, or it will be very uncomfortable.

Yes, and there is no other choice.

All in all; Both masochism and compulsion are about forcing oneself to do what it takes. It is not acceptable if it is not. This is a kind of selectivity in character.

There is no other way. The reason for this problem is that when you were a child, when you were growing up, you were often very young, very young and had only one choice and no other choice. This has been the case for a long time, with only one option and no other option.

Of course, this sole selectivity involves your family.

The solution is to change mindset; There are many ways to do this. You don't have to stick to one approach or one way. It's hard for you to do.

This requires a detailed analysis of the root cause of your problem, which then helps you establish a new mindset. This is a groundbreaking work that requires a professional counselor to lead you in systematic psychological counseling.