A junior high school classmate who hasn t been in touch for six years suddenly notified of his marri

Junior high school classmates, I'm afraid I only have three years of dating, I haven't been in touch in high school and college, and now I'm getting married, I sent you an invitation, what is the psychology? First, if he doesn't notify you of his marriage, I'm afraid that if you notify him when you get married, he will lose money, and I'm afraid that you will have to sell cheaply. Second, if you are married and you don't inform him, he can take this opportunity to make you a fortune, and he can also sell cheaply.

Third, if you want to make the wedding more lively, maybe you are a rich second generation and don't care about your money. Fourth, maybe I want to relive my classmates' friendships, maybe I will use you in the future. Fifth, maybe people are better than you now and want to show off.

Whatever the reason, you'd better go to the cheers, after all, after three years of classmates, people can still remember you, which is the greatest respect for you. When you get married, won't you be able to earn it back? You tell me.

If someone is a notification, you can also treat it as if you didn't receive it. This kind of student who has never chatted before, there is no need to go. Although communication is developed now, there is one thing that can be notified by mobile phone.

The current atmosphere is like this, sometimes you can't save face and go with a part, and you may not even be able to exchange a thank you for the money. If you don't go, you'll have a reputation for being stingy, and this reputation will stay with you for the rest of your life. This kind of thing is very tangled!

Let's go after all, after all, this is a courtesy, and you can take it back when you get married. If you go, you can still get in touch with your classmates who have lost contact, and when you get married, you will have a few more followers. What a wonderful thing!

Classmates can think of you, generally when they read the classmates in elementary school, I believe that you will come, and I hope that you can cheer for him, and he will also cheer for you in the future, which is also the beginning of your future comings and goings. I believe that after you attend the wedding this time, you will see many of your childhood friends and classmates, and since then you have kicked off the prelude to the class reunion, and you will also have contact.

I don't really understand what kind of mentality he is using to inform you. I don't think he even knows how to write the word "face"! In the news that has broken out in recent years, there are many people who block each other after giving money.

Some people say cool things and feel that they don't see a lot of excitement that has happened to them, but in fact, there are so many scumbags around everyone in this kind of person. If you want me to say that the landlord can not take it seriously at all, unless you are soft-hearted and miss the old friendship, but do you want to think about how much your relationship is worth that little money?

Chinese are very face-conscious, especially in the wedding scene, the more people from both parties' respective families, the more people come, the banquet scene is lively and grand, that is, there is face. Sometimes both families are comparing, and it is also witnessing the interpersonal relationships of a family, and even the comparison of forces. Just imagine, it's a modern interpersonal relationship, if you don't come, I don't go, you close the door to your own house, so how big will your marriage scene be?

How many people will come?

Go to a classmate's wedding, and you may be pleasantly surprised to find that it is also good for your personal development. If you believe it, there is only good and no harm. The love of classmates is also sincere, think about the friendship when you were a child, it is still nostalgic, please cherish it.

I don't usually waste my energy thinking about why he informed me! I'm a result-hungry person, and I don't waste my energy on things that have nothing to do with my current plans and goals! I only look at my own time, and my elementary school classmates are going to participate anyway, but if I really don't have time in a city, I won't go!

This classmate of yours didn't take you seriously at all. There were good things that left you behind in the past, and I haven't been in touch for so many years, and when I get married, I think of it, and you don't want to be wronged, don't contact him in the future, it's not worth it.

Since it has been determined that they are friends who cannot be friends and have not been in touch for six years, it can be determined that they are not true friends, and they can find an excuse to refuse. Or pretend not to be notified.

If you feel unhappy, you can't imitate it.

If you don't want to go, don't go, why force yourself.

Then don't go. Pretend to forget.

Can this go? Do you have a lot of money, brother? I don't go to this directly, just don't see it.

I think this kind of person who hasn't been in touch for six years doesn't have much affection anymore, so I can only go away at all.

The wedding gift is a blessing to a good friend or relative, if you have not been in touch with this classmate for so long, and you can't think of a good thing to say that you are not a friend, you can not go, but if you have a good face, you can send a letter to go.

If you don't go, I found you when there is something, why doesn't he usually contact you, my opinion is that I resolutely don't go.

It's okay to say an auspicious word verbally, he didn't give you an invitation, if there is an invitation to go and then wrap a red envelope, don't go to it, one of my classmates was like this before, three days before the wine told me to get married and put the wine, asked me if I went, and didn't go directly.

The red envelope is basically a meat bun and a dog beating, and there is no return. If it is I, I will only bless.

To be honest, your classmates are using people to face forward, not people to face backwards, do you understand what I mean, so it's better to congratulate you verbally.

Do what you want, do what you don't want to do, it's yourself who is embarrassed, don't suffer from gains and losses.

You should give a red envelope for a dime, don't laugh at him