How much of a success factor can be from birth? How important is the origin

Resources are limited, so classes are inevitable.

But will the resources always be the same? The productive forces are constantly developing, and the resources for survival are accumulating, so the classes will be constantly renewed, expanded, and even collapsed, and the resources will be redivided.

The relationship between resources and class is two variables that affect each other.

Better background means access to better resources, and when the poor are spending more time trying to catch up with them a little bit away, those people have gone higher and farther, and 90 percent of the elite people have a good family environment, which includes the family's wealth, the parents' education, and the degree of family harmony. When I think of a friend's friend, he is very good, like the pride of the sky. I asked a friend:

So what is her family situation? Both parents are teachers, and my father is currently the director of the Education Bureau, and he has been cultivated since he was a child, reading countless extracurricular books and countless good teachers around him. Naturally, you want to learn what you want to learn, and you never have to worry about financial problems, as your friend upstairs said, those who are not from a good background can't even afford to buy an extracurricular book, how can they be intentionally cultivated since childhood?

For the remaining ten percent, they put in great hardship, unimaginable effort, and talent and luck (note that talent and luck are extremely important for the poor to fight back. In order to barely make life less difficult for himself and his next generation. And the poor hardly live for themselves, they don't have time to enjoy life, everything is done to survive in society.

And those who come from good backgrounds, they don't have to worry about falling into the abyss if they take a wrong step, and their thinking has risen to how to improve their happiness and quality of life. <>

Are princes and generals born noble? At the time, I naively thought that hard work could change everything. But when I grew up, read a lot of books, read the ups and downs of empires, and saw the human suffering hundreds of years ago, I realized that the original answer was:

In the vast majority of cases, princely generals are born nobles. "I had a high school tablemate, and my father was an executive at a state-owned enterprise. I played with my mobile phone in class, and handed in my homework after copying it so-so.

Later, he was demoted because of his poor academic performance, and then dropped out of school. His family found her an intermediary, and now he is studying international finance at a decent university in Europe. If his parents were ordinary people, then after dropping out of school, it would be no accident that he would enter the society to work, and then become the bottom of the society.

However, the resources and connections in the hands of parents can change the trajectory of their children's lives. <>

Some people are born with a golden spoon in their mouths, and some are born to beg on the side of the road to survive. Is God really fair?

Maybe watching "Young You" recently touched me too much, so it was very heart-wrenching, and my mood was inexplicably low. It is said that Chen Nian's family background is very bad, he is collected for debts every day, his mother sells **, not only he is pitted, but also many people, so he has been hiding in such an environment and does not dare to go home, in such an environment Chen Nian studied hard, she was an honor student, but she became the target of Wei Lai and others' bullying of Mengsen. Xiaobei, who has been on the streets since he was a child, lives in the mud at the bottom of society, has no hope and no future in his world, saw the sentence in Chen Nian's book:

We all live in the gutter, but there are still people looking up at the stars. It's really heart-wrenching, he also wants to break free from his own life! It's just too helpless.

And Wei Lai, a child from a privileged family, looks good, but how can he grow such a heart, and sure enough, he responded to that sentence, good-looking girls are femme fatales (what I am expressing is that the characters in the TV series are like this, don't misunderstand), but also, the family conditions are superior, the personal conditions are good, if the study is still very good, it is simply unfair.

Some people work hard just to escape from their miserable origins and desperately earn a better future;

Some people play with their lives for fun, just to consume other people's pain and stifle other people's strength to their heart's content;

They are all too young, so they bully others without a bottom line;

1. I like someone and want to give her a good ending;

2. Only if you win, I won't lose;

3, Chen Nian, you are the first person to ask me if it hurts;

4. You protect the world, I protect you;

5. If you go forward, I must be behind you;

6. There has never been a lesson that teaches us how to become adults;

7. There is always a shadow on the road, but there is always sunshine when you look up.

8. In this world, as long as there is one person who understands you, you can survive and will not perish.

This is a movie that I will want to watch again, it really pierces my heart, and the picture of two people laughing until they cry is still fresh in my memory.

Different people have different proportions.

Generally speaking, the level of birth status is still very important, because the family situation determines the economic situation, the economic situation determines the degree of effort you have to work, and even related to personal rebellion, personal health, social experience, in summary, birth should account for a large factor in success.

But the ultimate success also has to pursue the impact on people's hearts, so-called"The children of the poor are in charge of the family early"，"People are not poor, so where there is a will, there is a way"。

In short, family background affects a person's worldview, and the factors that affect a person's worldview also include temperament.

A stable family life will create a happy atmosphere and reduce the chance of quarrels. The impact on the child's heart is crucial.

And being born into a poor family is not the same as being born into a family of artists, and being born into a family of science. Therefore, the formation of this person's values has a certain impact, interest reflects a kind of belief, and interest is the ** of ambition. It is an important part of the proportion of people who work in their daily lives.

It has a direct impact on the future economic situation, as well as the chances of survival. It has an important impact on the future family, society and the world.

All in all, differences in birth background should be a big factor in success.

It's like two children running a race, at first the poor child wears a broken shoe, and the rich child wears special sneakers, and in order for the poor child to win, he has to work harder to improve his skills, or even then he can run a tie with the other person.

Origin determines how likely you are to use the resources around you.

Origin determines your steps, but there is no guarantee of who will make it to the end. In other words, given you good equipment, you also need to be able to eat chickens.

No matter what you do, you pay attention to the right time and place, and some people are born with the golden key. It's a matter of personal fate! So the factor of origin must be very large.

But in the end, the decisive factor is yourself, that is, a good hand depends on how you play it, whether you play it badly or better.

In a broad sense, birth is a big factor, born in a place with very good family conditions, first of all, it has a good education, a good quality of life. This shows that children from superior families are ahead of children from poor backgrounds from the beginning, and poor people still need to think about their own lives, but what about people born with superior conditions? But they don't have to think about anything, they just need to take care of themselves, not the family.

Moreover, a child with superior family conditions means that the people he usually contacts are also high-quality people (rich people), so it will have a profound impact on his future conversations with people and the handling of incidents. For example, my father, when he was a child, his family lived in a thatched hut and was very poor, but he studied hard, and his class grades ranked in the top three in the class when he was in primary school, but because of his poor family, he dropped out of primary school and started fishing and lobster fishing to supplement the family. But as for the other people from well-off families, they have either been admitted to university or started a business.

So family background actually accounts for a large part of the factor.

But in fact, it is rare to have a particularly low background now, so our birth conditions are similar to most people, remember Mr. Zhou Guoping said: don't pursue success, there are too many uncontrollable factors, but to pursue excellence, which is largely up to yourself. Continuous efforts + wisdom + opportunities of the times + personal luck --- success in the eyes of the world.

So we shouldn't complain about why our parents don't work hard and give ourselves a good condition, but we should also think about how we really tried our best.