Why is it that when two people s hearts feel very close, they are far away!

This is a very normal reaction in everyone's heart

I often think that the words I write will be liked by others, and I often feel that people in this world will not really understand them. We gathered together, like ants, like fish in the water......Who cares about a little ant? Yes, even if you are a star on the screen, you will just watch it, and nothing will be left, including your tearful dust screams.

Cold, it's always the way the world is, you just want more people to know about you, but what if you know? Even the food and clothing, the father, the world, and the mother will be farther and farther away, not to mention those irrelevant outsiders! People are very close to each other, but hearts are far away from each other, far away ......

Sometimes I feel that this person's life is like a mobile phone screen, when it is turned on, there are all kinds of excitement, all kinds of life and death. But once you close it, it's nothing, it's gone, it's like nothing happened, it's like you don't see anything. It's like you've never been here in this world, it's like you've never been ...... in this world

People are really lonely in this empty world, everything, even the smallest and most insignificant, you can't replace others a little, and others can't replace you a little. It's all up to you to bear it all by yourself, and it's up to you to experience it yourself. In the face of a complicated life, no one can help you, because everyone has their own life, and no one can replace others.

I joined the Sanqi Club for less than a year, and I participated in various training camps, although for a while, I couldn't see my progress. But from the comparison with the people around you, you can still find different clues.

Since August 20 last year, I have participated in three online fat loss training camps intermittently, and I have lost a total of 28 pounds.

Some people are very close, but their hearts are getting farther and farther away. He always looks at you strangely, thinks that your thinness comes from hunger, always thinks that you are yellow and thin, and the most common sentence he hears is: "How many meals do you eat a day?" ”

There are also people who yearn for and fear the new life. Afraid of being deceived by the round scum type, he is full of vigilance in his heart about the field he is unfamiliar with.

Some people are far away, but their hearts are getting closer and closer. She used to be a colleague across from me, now retired, and had plans to find another job, but now she has changed her mind and immersed herself in various platforms to improve herself.

Before studying, I was very content with the status quo; After studying, I feel that I don't understand anything, I am full of curiosity about the affairs of the new students, and my heart is full of desire to change.

For people with a fixed mindset, my rule is: what you try to give, not necessarily what the other person wants, don't try to wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.

For a person with a growth mindset, as long as he wants to grow and change, I am confident that I can use my light and my meager strength to influence his life.

At first, because of the separation of the two, there was a feeling of longing, but now because they are often together with each other, the longing turns into getting along, and the feelings of longing will inevitably decrease or neglect because they are often together and will not greet physical health and other words Because everyone has come over like this Cherish your own fate.

Man is a higher animal with feelings, and sentimentality is destined to be changeable!