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The most obvious characteristic of adolescence is rebellion.
It is advisable to be sparse and not blocked, children at this age already have their own thoughts and personalities. Scolding and corporal punishment will only make children farther and farther away, and a good guide is the best education.
You don't need Chunyan to tell him how to do it every step of the way, too much restraint and care starting point effect is reversed, you just need to give him a direction, and then quietly watch and shout pure to encourage him, if he goes astray and pull it back, adolescence is a link that grows up slowly, if you really care about your child, he will definitely feel it.
I just got into university this year, and I really love my mom and dad and hope they are always healthy and safe
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Adolescence is also a rebellious and dry period, and you can't be too coercive on your children, and you can't be too indulgent. Communicate more, take him or her out more, let them talk about things they encounter when they go out, and talk about opinions. and vaguely mentioned that it was wrong to have a jujube mess with him (her) about puberty.
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Understand your child's heart, be friends with him, and don't reject him. Communicate and guide more ideologically, and don't blindly look at problems from your own point of view.
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To understand their children's hearts, parents should have a set of methods.
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1. Avoid being irritable and open-minded, and slowly inquire about the reasons for the loss of the office in a calm and caring tone. Your daughter feels your care and love, and she will let go of her resistance and speak her heart to you.
2. Show your understanding to your daughter, express your understanding of your daughter's early love and pretending to be a Huai God, and recall to your daughter as a friend when you were as old as her. It is also full of longing and longing for love, and how to do it.
3. Knock on the side, deliberately say what happened to other children when chatting, who was in early love, who caused something because of the negative impact of early love, and gradually moved the topic closer to her daughter.
4. Observe secretly, guide reasonably, give more guidance and suggestions, and scold less.
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With the rapid development of self-consciousness in adolescence, there will be some typical psychological characteristics, such as self-centeredness, increased troubles, rebellious psychology, etc., parents should carry out correct education and guidance for their children through the following ways:
Adolescent children are often less willing to communicate with their parents, so parents need to make adjustments and try to communicate with their children actively.
Adolescent children have more of their own ideas and practices, and parents should not limit their children according to their own standards, so that children can feel respected and enhance their children's sense of self-identity.
Adolescent children are very sensitive and prone to lack of self-confidence, parents should see more of the child's strengths, encourage the child every day, and improve the child's self-confidence.
Parents can arrange time, such as taking their children out for travel and relaxation on weekends or holidays, which can not only improve the parent-child relationship, but also help the child reduce stress.
Adolescence is a relatively big test for children, both psychologically and physically have a greater development, will bring more troubles, parents should be patient to pay attention to and accompany children, in order to be conducive to the mental health development of adolescent children.
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