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Anonymous users2024-02-06I'm a mom and understand how you feel!
Sometimes, we will have a bad mood, at this time the child's frolic has become an annoyance in our eyes, originally usually very happy to joke with the child, but at this time will stop the child loudly, the child will feel very innocent, will be very scared, he will be very strange that the mother's behavior is so changeable!
People have seven emotions and six desires, we can't ensure that we will always be quiet, this is unrealistic, we can have troubles, but when all this comes, we must learn to refrain! I will give you a way to take three deep breaths whenever we are about to criticize your child or when we are about to get angry at him. Then you will find that your mood is much better and you won't get angry anymore!
In addition, you have to think that fickle mothers can confuse their children about the rules, and this is okay for a while, and this is not okay for a while! So mom must be at peace! Moreover, this behavior of the mother will imperceptibly infect the child, and he will think that he can solve the problem by throwing a tantrum.
In the future, when the child grows up, you will find that some of his faults are actually learned from adults when he was a child!
Everyone needs friends, in fact, the purpose of needing friends is to confide, there are some things we can't say to our parents, we can't talk to our husbands, and we can't talk to acquaintances, so let's go to some parent-child forums, such as Sina.
Everyone needs space, you are a stay-at-home mom, you sacrificed your career for the sake of your children, now you need new circles, to meet some mothers, it will be much better to have a common language with each other! New friends are nice! Be confident!
Go to show off your baby's **, you will find that you are a very happy and proud mother!
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Many women know that they are not a good mother, but they still do not correct their mistakes, too many, children are born, are brought by the elderly, and do not respect the elderly, you think you know that you are not a qualified mother, which from now on to make up for the past, so that the child feels that the mother is good, and the husband also feels that the old man can understand more and more the family will definitely be happier.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04This is a serious question: our people have not yet taken the profession of parenthood seriously!
Most of them are parents for the first time, and even the relationship between husband and wife has not yet been harmonious, so many parents are unqualified! This is the reality in China, and it does affect the growth of children, especially in terms of children's mental health.
The questioner has this awareness, which means that starting to pay attention to this issue is beneficial to future people, but for the past, it has little meaning, and even the psychological damage of the child may never be repaired!
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Anonymous users2024-02-03In fact, it is not easy to be a mother, and whoever can be perfect comes slowly.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02I think if you feel that you are not qualified, then try to be qualified, there is no need to say everything.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01In fact, from your above statement, it can be seen that in the process of being a mother, you have discovered your own shortcomings, which is actually the standard of being a qualified mother, always able to self-adjust, and find your own shortcomings, and can seek effective changes and help.
In fact, mothers sometimes in front of their children, don't always make an aggressive attitude, and don't deliberately or verbally wipe out some of the child's independent thoughts, it is best to implement according to the child's will, and correct mistakes in time, so that children have more autonomy.
How to be a qualified mother, in fact, is a step-by-step process, as long as you can find your own shortcomings, and grow together with your children, improve together, this is actually the greatest success of motherhood, and will make yourself a better mother.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31As a first-time mother, I understand your life, but I can't take care of your psychology.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30Summary. Hello dear said that she is a very ordinary mother, and she said that there are 1, the mother is a serious and silent when she leaves, and she is not fully concerned about her children; The mother is the day and night prayer after separation, the infinite blessing to the child; The mother is the longing for the return, the endless attachment to the child. 2. Mother's love is an idyll, distant and pure, elegant and light, full of green space, fragrant and pleasant.
She freshens the air, flowers and butterflies fly. She is the only pure land that has not been polluted by fame and fortune. 3. She can be as tender as jade, she can be tolerant as the sea, and she can be as strong as a mountain, just because she is a "mother".
Her love is the simplest, yet greatest power in the world. 4. Mother's love is like an idyll, remote and pure, elegant and light; Mother's love is like an affectionate song, tactful and melodious, with endless aftertaste; Mother's love is like a landscape painting, quiet and beautiful, tranquil and elegant. 5. Mother's love is like a fan, fanning a cool breeze for her children under the scorching sun.
Good. Hello dear said that she is a very ordinary mother, talk about 1, the mother is on the verge of leaving, and she is not full of concern for the child to be pelle; The mother is the day and night prayer after separation, the infinite blessing to the child; The mother is the longing for the return, the endless attachment to the child. 2. Mother's love is an idyll, distant and pure, elegant and light, full of green space, fragrant and pleasant.
She freshens the air, flowers and butterflies fly. She is the only pure land that has not been polluted by fame and profit. 3. She can be as tender as jade, she can be tolerant as the sea, and she can be as strong as a mountain, just because she is a "mother".
Her love is the simplest, yet greatest power in the world. 4. Mother's love is like an idyll, remote and pure, elegant and light; Mother's love is like an affectionate song, tactful and melodious, with endless aftertaste; Mother's love is like a candid landscape painting, quiet and beautiful, tranquil and elegant. 5. Mother's love is like a fan, fanning a cool breeze for her children under the scorching sun.
If you encounter a vague problem, you should ask in time, get a lot of effective information, I hope it can help you!
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