What kind of person is a person who laughs at his own mother s funeral?

Not to mention a seven-year-old child, the old man knew that a boy of fifteen or sixteen who was in the first grade of high school, and he didn't know how to cry when his mother died. For children, they are not sensible, their feelings are not very rich, and they don't know the consequences of losing their mothers, so don't be harsh on him, let alone think that the child is "cold-blooded".

Human feelings are abundant, people don't have to use sadness to tell others how painful they are, maybe she is not yet conscious or can't believe her dearest mother, who was with her yesterday and left this world today, so she would rather be stupid and pretend to be crazy?

7 years old is not young......In the future, this child will either be extremely successful or degenerate to the extreme.

That's because he doesn't know what's going on, just the nature of an innocent child

He couldn't bear the fact that his mother died, probably in disguise, didn't want to cry, and remembered that the joy with his mother was.

Time smiled...

How did his mom die?

Maybe he felt that his mother's death was a relief, and he was happy for his mother.

This kid is very stable and will definitely grow up in the future.

7-year-old children still don't understand life and death, and crying doesn't mean sincerity, and not crying doesn't mean cold-blooded.

1. There is no problem.

2. Mother is abused.

Does he understand what's going on?

He didn't know what it meant to die, he didn't know that he would never have his mother, so he didn't know how to be sad.

It's just a 7-year-old kid, how can you ask so much of him.

Son, when you leave like this, I am a white-haired person who sends a red-orange-yellow-green, blue-blue-haired person.

I'm fucking killing Matt, killing Matt is dead today, I'm fucking sad.

Funerals are just a formality. A process. There's no need to dwell over the performance of the people attending the funeral.

The only people who are in pain and really sad are the people who are closest to the deceased, such as his children. All the people who attend the funeral do not mean that they must be sad and weeping from beginning to end. Only the close relatives of the deceased may actually cry to death, but only at a specific part of the funeral.

Other people attending the funeral just came to comfort the family of the deceased out of friendship and courtesy, and to celebrate the funeral. No matter who it is, even if there is talk and laughter, it is understandable.

Hehe, this is the world, the world is full of states, just look at it and laugh. Don't dig deeper, it's boring to be serious.

This is all very normal, especially in the countryside where such a situation is called crying and mourning, just like you described.

It's normal, I've been to a few funerals and I'm used to it. People cannot be resurrected from the dead, and those who are alive must continue. It is impossible to offend all the guests for the sake of the dead, and it is good to receive them well, and it is good for the guests to cry a few times.

Life is like a play, everyone is working hard to play their own role, or cooperate with others to play a good role.

Therefore, as long as you understand, fellow relatives actually do their best to do their own role-playing, and they also do it for the sake of living a better life for themselves.

Maybe you also need to learn this face-changing way of behaving in the world, even if you don't get used to it now, you need to get used to it slowly.

This is a reality, and you need to understand and adapt to it. That's the way the world is.

Life is like a play, it all depends on acting skills! Everyone plays a different role on different occasions, which is a social necessity because people are social. The more mature a person is, the more mellow his acting skills will be, in other words, this is called high emotional intelligence, which is a social rule, and there is nothing to blame.

Therefore, don't be entangled, otherwise, you will not be able to integrate into society normally, and it will not be good for you.

Most of these crying are just for others to see, and most of them don't have tears, but the tradition is like this, and people have to follow it.

In the eyes of some people, it's just a walk-around formality!

That's definitely not sincere, if it's sincere, it is impossible to talk and laugh, and that sadness is written on the face.

Normally, I don't think about it. The ancients said that relatives or remnants of sorrow, others have also sung. This is quite normal.

After all, he has nothing to do with your family. I don't care, it's just that I rarely communicate with you in the future, because you are very disrespectful to our family. But specifically, I won't do anything about it either.

After all, it's also your right.

Such behavior is impolite and unacceptable in Chinese culture! No matter where the person stands, it's best not to bother with such an occasion!

He's not funny, he has a holiday, or something to see his colleague die, happy, anyway, don't be sad and laugh, you're too careful.

People are gone, no matter what they had to do with before, they have become a thing of the past, regardless of past suspicions, and live in the present.

The person has passed away, there is nothing that cannot be let go, don't care about these, if he is a villain, it will be good to pay attention to it in the future.

When you attend the funeral of a relative, you see a former colleague of his, who sees the body of your relative, and smiles happily, what do you think? Maybe he'll think of something else, and this kind of laugh doesn't mean he's going to well, gloating.

Don't think about anything, how can you know about other people's grievances?

Respect the deceased, if there are old accounts, turn them over later!

I think this person is really very bad in his heart, and he may be very jealous of others.

Neglect. People are dead, all grievances and hatreds will be scattered with the wind, and gods and horses are floating clouds.

He probably didn't quite believe the facts in front of him.

The director crawled out of the coffin and said, "Young man, the joke is good, I'm cold down there alone, go down there and tell me the joke, I love to listen to cold jokes."

I hadn't heard of the joke, but I made it up. One day, in physical education class, a classmate started crying, and a big brother came up to him, and he said to me, "Kid, try to make someone happy when they're crying."

I thought it made sense, so I tried to do it: "Classmate, let me tell you a joke." One day the nephew said to his uncle

I want to be an inventor when I grow up. Uncle said: Why?

The nephew replied, "I'm going to invent a toy for myself!" This method worked very well, and the classmates laughed.

I take that big brother's truth to heart. At a funeral, the whole audience started crying, and then I remembered what my big brother had said to me - to find a way to amuse others when they were crying. I thought for a moment and read out loud a joke:

The joke made at the funeral There was a family surnamed Pan, and the elders passed away. During the family sacrifice, an old gentleman with a strong local accent was invited to be the master of ceremonies. The obituary is written like this:

Filial piety: Pan Genko Filial piety: Chi Filial granddaughter:

Pan Liangzi Filial Sun: Pan Daoshi But this old gentleman is dizzy and his pronunciation is not standard. When he followed the obituary roll call, everything that literally had three points of water missed and didn't see it.

So I read it to him like this: Filial piety, turn...With....Bucket....When Xiaonan heard it, he felt strange, but he didn't dare to ask, so he turned over a heel fight. Filial piety, also....Yes....Filial piety listened:

I'm going to flip it too? So the filial daughter-in-law also turned over a heel fight. Filial piety granddaughter, turn twice.

When my granddaughter heard this, I thought that my parents had turned it over, and I would too! So I flipped two heels. At this time, Xiaosun thought to himself

Mom and dad turn it once, my sister turns it twice, how many times do I have to turn it? I thought to myself, and I started to get nervous. What to do?

I saw the old gentleman tear open his throat and read out loud: Filial piety....Flip....to....Death The audience laughed like thunder at this time, and the relatives of the deceased old man immediately kicked me out. I went back to school and asked the teacher:

Oh! You said Zhen Jian, he has graduated! "I passed out on the spot.

There are so many jokes that it's too difficult for people to guess the jokes you're telling, but you're also really, what kind of jokes do you tell at funerals!

Actually, she didn't die, at my house, yesterday he was drunk.

"Look! He pointed to the man in the coffin, "He's moving!" ”

You've got time to play with me.

Poof, God back, ahhhhh

I wish you a year and a year.

I personally experienced that when my grandmother died, my uncle and aunt would laugh and fight with others.

There may be many reasons for this.

Let's start with the specific reasonsTo say some simple objective judgments, it may be that each place has different customs and habits. So there may be places where it is, and it is not necessary to have this custom. I remember hearing that when an older person dies, it's called a funeral.

So there will be a performance of big names laughing at the funeral. But in addition to the fact that there may be this custom in some places, there may be many other reasons for playing cards and laughing at funerals. I didn't attend many funerals, so I can't say how much I know, I can only speculate on my own.

First of all, the first possible reason I can think of isThe funeral is originally a very sad thing and very heavy, but it may be said that in order to send off our relatives happily, or to make the relatives who are still alive not so sad, we choose to send our relatives away in a way that seems to be relaxed, or in a way that looks lively.

We can't just say it or judge whether they can feel it or not, but the dead are gone, and the living still have to live well. I also know that his death is not a loss of life, but a step out of time. So, in a sense, as long as we remember someone, then he hasn't left us.

Of course, this is just a guess on my ownIn order not to indulge in grief, I believe that even those who have passed away hope that the people who live in the world can be well, and remember them while trying to live hard. That's the best way to do it.

I don't want to curse, I won't, as for this kind of statement, I think it's still very rare, after all, it's all emotional.

This situation should be rare, but because there are many relatives and friends who are far away from the funeral, it is rare to get together, and it is understandable.

There should still be a minority of such people, after all, the death of a loved one is really a very sad and sad thing.

Think about it, people can't be resurrected after death, what's the use of crying, people are old and sick and die, this is a natural thing, use time to solve everything.

The customs of each place are different, and some are because this funeral is a happy funeral, so it will be like this, otherwise it is disrespectful to the deceased relatives.

Because this type of funeral is a wedding burial, if not, then these people have no respect for the deceased.