What kind of psychology is it like to sit in the last row of the bus?

People who don't like to be noticed by others, but prefer to sit at the back to observe the car, choose the back is also a position that is convenient for observing others and others don't pay much attention to. In the last row, you can see almost the entire carriage, and you have the feeling of seeing all kinds of life. Spatial distance is also a psychological sense of safety.

externalization. Imagine whether there will be a difference between us and people who are close to us and people who are not familiar with each other, the so-called safe distance is what kind of distance I should keep between you and me, it is often proportional to the sense of security in the heart, that is, the closer the person who trusts the person, the more distant the person who is not familiar with it. Therefore, when the inner sense of security is not very strong, they will deliberately maintain a sense of distance, so that they will feel more comfortable.

You won't feel depressed when you sit in the last row of the bus, you won't feel crowded with people in the first few rows, and you will feel relaxed when you put on headphones and listen to music.

Because I'm lazy, I usually sit in the last row of the bus and don't give up my seat, so I like to sit in the last row.

When taking the bus, I am always accustomed to sitting in the last row, and I can see almost the entire carriage in the last row, and I have a feeling of seeing all kinds of life.

The position chosen at the back is convenient for observing others and others do not pay much attention, and the last row can see almost the entire carriage of people, and there is a feeling of seeing all kinds of life.

Because you can do the last row of the bus, you can see the condition of the whole bus, and you don't have to give up your seat in the last row.

I don't like to sit in the car to do the last row, because motion sickness, as we all know, people with motion sickness, it is best to stay away from the car exhaust port, and the front row is the best choice.

Some people don't like to get on and off the bus, and the passengers come over from them, and this version of the person is generally more independent. People with power don't like to sit in front, and such people are generally more steady, observant and thoughtful.

Normal psychology, turnip greens have their own love.

I like to observe others and don't want to be discovered by others. Don't want to be bothered by anyone. It belongs to the inner spiritual needs of the individual.

A sense of security is a premonition of possible physical or psychological danger or risk, as well as an individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control.

Sitting in the back gives a sense of security.

Because you can see the back of most of the people's heads; There are also DAOs

One reason may be that it is very crowded when there are many people sitting in front of you, and if there are elderly people, you have to give up your seat, which is very troublesome.

A sense of security is a feeling, a psychology; It is the feeling that comes from the performance of one party to the other; It is a kind of speech and behavior that people can rest assured, can be comfortable, can be relied on, and can be trusted.

In terms of the habit of looking at people's personalities, you don't like to be in the limelight, but you can clearly see the rights and wrongs of the situation, and you would rather be a bystander, which is a little out of place with the pattern.

I rarely touch the eyes of others, others will not pay too much attention, the mood is relaxed, the breathing is soothing, there is no one behind me, the sense of security is bursting, and I don't have to get caught in the tangle of whether I want to give up my seat, in fact, I also like the back position (= =).

I like it too, haha, no one goes to see you, I'm alone blowing the wind and wearing headphones, that's called one, shuangbei.

Personal fetishes, such as my preference for the first seat on the bus.

Possible Causes:

1. There is no one else behind it, and there is a sense of security.

2. I like to observe others, but I don't want to be discovered by others.

3. I don't want to be bothered by anyone.

Personal preference, it is best to do it in the front, sitting in the back will be dizzy.

Just like to take the last row of the bus at night to see the scenery, this detail alone is not enough to judge his character. I work overtime for a long time to catch the last train home every day, and I am so tired that I like to sit in the last row and don't want to talk. The course of life will not always be so satisfactory, so I will also feel the true meaning of life by observing the scenes and objects on the side of the road in the middle of the night, so as to make my mood and thoughts more open-minded.

I often sit in the car, the front of the upside down will be dizzy, the middle is pregnant women, the disabled and the elderly special forward position is too small, always have to stand up to let people in, sit in and can't get out, I am big, the back row by the door is very good, those rows of seats are wide, there is a grandparent to give up the seat, and there is no need to move Na.

A person takes the last position of the bus, first of all, the field of vision is broad, the whole bus situation is within my control, enjoy the night view outside the window, that is because Director Mao does not like to look at the mobile phone on the bus, so only look out the window. If you want to talk about personality, Director Mao likes to be calm and lively, Director Mao can adapt to all kinds of occasions, I can't even figure out what my personality is, sometimes impulsive, sometimes calm, sometimes sad, sometimes happy.

In addition to the fact that it is not very convenient to get on and off the bus, those things basically do not appear anymore. Because it is almost impossible for an elderly person to walk through a crowd of people to the back of a car, and there is no elderly person walking from the front of the car to the back of the car without anyone giving up their seat. In this way, I kicked the ball to someone else and made myself at peace for a while.

Sitting in the last row of seats, watching the car go fast, the scenery outside the window is very beautiful, but it is all flashing, and the scenery along the way, which one is not what I want the most. All I want is to be quiet and undisturbed, watching the lights of thousands of homes in the dark night, watching the cars passing through those brightly lit cities, watching the pedestrians walking hurriedly on the streets, everything is like a dream, and the vague feeling of déjà vu seems to have returned to my heart.

Busy every day, facing all kinds of pressures brought by life, work, etc., and facing all kinds of responsibilities that we need to fulfill, many times, it will make us no longer like to say more, more often, like to be alone. I like to enter my inner world alone, look at the scenery along the way, let my thoughts flutter in the wind, and enjoy the tranquility and beauty of a person's world. At this time, any earthly hustle and bustle has nothing to do with me, and no worldly disturbances can alarm my world and break my inner peace.

Maybe at this time, there is a trace of loneliness and loneliness, but it is nothing, and the heart is still at peace.

Recently, I have seen this phenomenon occasionally on buses, which are crowded, but there are still many empty seats in the back. There are no words to describe the reason for this phenomenon, but let's call it the bus mentality.

There are many reasons for this phenomenon, which can be roughly divided into two categories: that is, they are unwilling to sit and they do not know that there is a vacant seat, and they will definitely sit if there is a vacant seat.

Here we will only discuss the second case.

The crux of this situation is also the lack of information, with the person in the middle of the vehicle obstructing the view and preventing the new passenger from seeing the availability of the rear seat. However, the new passenger defaults to the current state of the bus, that is, he will not squeeze into the inside of the bus, and is unwilling to explore the unknown space behind, after observing so many people in the front of the bus, the default rear is also full, and if he really squeezes into the back of the car, he will be surprised.

Speaking of which, we can extract a lot of success cases. For example, if you don't try, you'll never know what's next. (In most cases, I tried, but it was still crowded) and now I can't succeed, but there is an obstacle in the way forward, and the past is the other side.

The truth is that you can't get over the obstacle at all) and so on.

It is good to have a positive attitude towards life, but it is always a bit of a pyramid scheme to learn successfully.

The above is all nonsense, writing this is actually mainly boring, just one conclusion: get on the bus and squeeze in the back, in case there is a seat to earn.

If I had to choose a favorite spot on the bus, it would be the last row by the window, of course, in the summer it is best to block the sun, and in the winter it is the side that can get the sun, in short, I like to sit in the last row.

Sitting in the last row of the bus, which is also the highest position on the bus, you can see every move of the people on the bus, as if observing a small world, which is very interesting, and the whole mood is also very sunny. I love to draw, I remember once sitting in the last row of the bus, drawing my favorite Totoro in my notebook, it was like I had a special inspiration, and that feeling always flashed inadvertently, and it was most likely to appear when I was at peace in my heart.

Now when I come to a new city, sometimes when I go out and take the car, I still choose the last row of the window, as if sitting in such a position, I can quietly observe the city, experience its taste, and gradually become more familiar with the city, and I love the city more and more.

When it comes to this topic, I like it very much, I usually go out to play, the bus is a very convenient means of transportation, I personally like to take the bus, for the last row, not only do I not hate, but there is an inexplicable like.

I usually like to take the bus when I go out to play, because the biggest difference between the bus and other means of transportation is that it has a fixed route, instead of going wherever you want like other bicycle taxis, because of this, there is a different feeling in the process of taking the bus.

And I stayed in the last row a lot, from disliking it at the beginning, to being reluctant to leave later, the last row is really a pretty magical place, haha. So everyone feels different, different mentalities have different feelings, the last row, there is also a sense of surprise in the last row, you think.

Bus, a very common means of transportation in daily life, I think taking the bus is a very healthy and environmentally friendly way to travel, taking the bus is not only money-saving, convenient, but also environmentally friendly. It is a very good and very good way, if you are not in a hurry, you can often take the bus.

My university is in the suburbs, so every time I go to the city is a very distressing thing, once when I go to the city, I sat in the last row, I felt that there should be nothing to do, but who would have thought, sitting in less than five minutes, I was dizzy, the world was spinning, I quickly ran off the bus after arriving at the station, and I found a corner and vomited, I vomited out of control, and then the whole day was not very good. This is the last row, and it would have been much better if you had sat on either side.

However, some people just have a soft spot for the last row, and they sit in the last row by the window, put on headphones and listen to a few songs, thinking that they will enjoy it very much. But be sure to pay attention to the time, it's too big to sit on the station.

Sitting in the last row of the bus, everyone has different feelings and thoughts.

Maybe the conditions in Xinjiang are not very good, although those buses are air-conditioned, but the air conditioning has never been opened. The stations over there are far away, and if you can't think of standing on the bus, maybe half an hour will pass, and I have to sit in the last row. Maybe everyone and I feel the same, so the last row is reserved for those who are not afraid of the heat, after all, the temperature on the bus in Xinjiang can reach more than 40 degrees, for the last row is a sauna, do a car down, sweating all over.

The tires of the bus are just in front of the last row, and there are many speed bumps in Xinjiang.

However, taking the bus here in Guangdong, it may not be as hot as the Xinjiang side, but sitting in the last row is still very bumpy, if you don't like to bump and bump, I think you should not sit in the last row. Although there are seats, you can see the front, and the view is relatively wide, but the price to pay is quite large.

I think many people are like me, sitting in the last row to drive out is like this, but since I have chosen the last row and experienced it, I can only say that next time I have a long memory, I can find a seat and sit down quickly, don't choose the last row to be tortured in the end.

When I go out, I usually sit at the front, because I feel like I'm going to sit at the back, and I feel like it's more troublesome to get off at the end, so I don't want to sit at the back.

Once I sat at the back, and then I had nothing to do, I just looked at the people in the car, looked at everyone's clothes, and occasionally saw handsome guys and beautiful women, so if you want to sit in a hidden place, you can choose to sit at the back, but if it is more convenient to get off the car, it is better for you to sit in the front of the place, in fact, it is better to sit in the corner.

But sometimes I take a lot of things with me on the bus, so you will feel very embarrassed to walk in the car like a monkey, and you will feel very embarrassed to walk in the car like a monkey, so it seems that I am a little bit bad, maybe I think too much, because there are not so many people to pay attention to me, and sit at the front, others can see you as soon as they look up, if you happen to be looking at each other, you can imagine the picture, you can only shake your head awkwardly or smile politely.

You can be a little more casual when you sit in the back row, because no one will see you, except for the people around you, in fact, most of the time we spend our time in the car playing on our phones, so we don't feel anything for some people.

In fact, people will have an inertia is to enter the door and sit in the seat closest to themselves, only the people in front of me are full, I will sit at the end, so that I walk around in the car, and then do the last, enjoy the passing scenery, at this time listen to **, simply, this picture.

As long as you are not afraid of sitting and standing, you can listen to **, in fact, it is good to sit at the end, at this time every person you can look at his words and deeds and the clothes he wears, and then judge his character, of course, these are all nonsense I said, just to pass the time.