In a relationship, do boys have to pay more than girls? What do you think?

That's not true. Love requires equality, mutual care and consideration. It is not a matter of paying for one side alone.

Boys can do a little more when they are in love, it doesn't matter, because love will change a person's temper and emotions, and they are willing to do something for love, so it doesn't matter what they are. But there is no return for long-term efforts, and the resentment will become deeper and deeper after a certain period of time. There is no one who does not want to give without return, and when he cares for others, he also wants to be cared for.

So in a relationship, two people should understand and support each other. You can't rely on the other person to meet your own needs, you must learn to think about others.

In the real society, women are generally more arrogant, and they all feel that they should work less hard and have more peace of mind as women. But you don't know how to think more about each other, you must know that no one should be good to you, and all feelings can't make ends meet. A balance can only be balanced if both sides weigh the same.

The other side, a little heavier or lighter, can be tilted accordingly. It's the same in love, men and women are equal. There is no distinction between high and low, they are all first-time people, and no one is shorter than others.

Therefore, if love is to remain eternal, it must be equal. Since you are already in love, it means that there is a relationship foundation. I think in a relationship, the last thing you should care about is who gives more than whom.

I like her, I want to be with her, it's good to be with her, no matter what the other party is, just be worthy of my feelings. There is a point of view that there are many people who recognize, that is, "the person who is serious first loses at the beginning", on the surface, the person who is serious takes out his heart and lungs but is not cherished, which is miserable, right? Yes, it is indeed hurt, but at least love is true love, which is better than no pain, that is a real waste of feelings and irresponsible to yourself.

I think that the most important thing in love is to have reservations about feelings, always thinking about the way back, and what should be advocated is to be honest with each other. Only when you give sincerely, can you experience the happiness of "the person you love happens to love you too"! Finally, I wish all people in love in the world to love seriously, and all lovers will eventually become married!

Not necessarily, the personal feeling should be equal to pay, so as to ensure the interests of both parties, and at the same time promote the warming of the relationship.

I think that in a relationship, boys don't necessarily give more than girls, because in a relationship, two people are equal.

No, I think it's equal, it doesn't necessarily mean that boys have to pay more than girls, I feel equal in front of feelings.

In the process of our relationship, there is often a problem that is confused, that is, the boy must take the initiative to pursue the girl. Yes, in love, guys always take the initiative. Whether it's the chat at the beginning, the flowers and fruits in the exploration stage, or the sweet words when confessing, it seems that all the boys do this, and the girls are just the ones who choose and accept.

So, is this love a good idea?

I don't think so. First of all, being in love is not an end, not for the sake of falling in love, nor for showing off and increasing the emotional experience. Love should be a natural process.

When the opposite sex interacts, the temperament and aura of the opposite sex will attract each other, and ambiguous feelings between each other will slowly emerge. At the beginning of a love, whether it is a girl pursued by a boy, or a boy pursued by a girl, feelings must guide the brain to act, rather than the brain to act with feelings.

Secondly, love is not an equivalent exchange of interests. Sometimes, love is unreasonable. Meeting the right person at the right time, in the right place, is a kind of fate.

This is an opportunity that cannot be grasped. It's not about how much a guy spends and what kind of high-end hotel he can get. Even if benefits can buy temporary happiness, that happiness will not last long.

In modern society, boys are inherently responsible for more responsibilities than girls, including pursuing girls, which leaves boys carrying heavier punching bags on their already heavy shoulders. In love, the boy has to take care of the girl's every move. If there are unhappy things in life, girls can complain to boys, but boys can't share the pain with them because they feel that this society does not have the right to show weakness to boys, but I don't think that's right.

In love, boys must learn to speak and learn to express. If love does not come out of their hearts, and those pains and joys do not come out of their hearts, then this love is lacking. Especially when there are contradictions in love, girls always wait for boys to admit their mistakes, and boys always apologize in a mess, so the depression in boys' hearts will become deeper and deeper, so I say that girls should also learn to comfort boys and learn to listen to boys' voices.

Yes, because as a boy in a relationship, you still have to have a certain ability to bear, girls are more fragile, and as a boy, you should pay a little more.

Yes, in the opposite sex, boys pay a little more than girls, because boys' responsibilities are very important and responsible.

Boys don't have to pay a little more, I think two people can get the happiest life in the end, so they shouldn't pay more.

No, when two people are in love, boys and girls are equal, and going both ways can make this relationship sweeter.

Really do. Because a boy is an active creature. Paying a little more can make women feel more secure.

You should pay a little more so that you can make a deep impression on the other person and can promote the relationship between the two people.

Yes. In this way, he may cherish this relationship more, and the relationship between the two people will be a little better.

In a relationship, boys don't necessarily pay more than girls, sometimes it may be that boys pay a little more than girls, but most of the gains, the feelings paid by two people, in fact, there is no difference between more and less, as long as two people can truly love each other, both people will pay the feelings, in fact, this can not be compared, but there can be a number of divisions from the specific actual object, but emotionally it is impossible to distinguish between more and less.

In the relationship, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as they like it, two people will give to each other, not to discuss who pays more than whom, the feelings of two people are mutual.

Not necessarily, because in the relationship, what the boy pays and what the girl pays is determined according to the proportion of how much the other party loves, if the girl loves more, she may pay more, if the boy loves more, then, he may pay more, and it is not necessarily that the boy pays more, or the girl pays more.

There is a reward for what you give, this is the truth. It's the same in love life. It seems that the party who actively pursues has paid a lot, but as long as the other party agrees to the relationship, you are all giving. There is no such thing as more or less. It's too careful, can the relationship last long?

No, in a relationship, no one pays more and who pays less, and two people who love each other should not care about these things.

No, generally speaking, feelings are equal, so many times boys and girls give the same amount, and no one has more or less.

Boys do give more than girls. Because most guys dominate the relationship. There are a lot of things to consider.

In fact, comparing who pays more is a normal psychology. When we are in a relationship, we inevitably have to make choices.

If you want to have a long-term relationship or friendship, you need to have a rough balance of efforts. Unilateral efforts will always be tired, and two-way running will give the other party the motivation to move forward. In the face of choice, people will have a balance of interests in mind, and the criteria include:

How much the other party has paid for me, how much am I willing to pay for the other person, what can I gain by making this choice, and what I am willing to lose......

The most common choice in life after weighing benefits is to give gifts. When we choose a gift, we will choose based on the gift that the other person has given us**.

If there are other factors, such as you love your girlfriend very much and want to buy her a more expensive necklace, even though she has not given you such a valuable gift, you are still willing to eat instant noodles for a week to save money.

This is also the result of the balance of interests, if a necklace can be exchanged for the happiness of your girlfriend, this kind of spiritual satisfaction is worth it for you.

True love is not measured by material things, but by whether both parties are willing to change for each other and make progress together.

In fact, whether to love or not to love, quantitative giving is just a yardstick. You can feel whether he really loves you or not. When you doubt this question again and again, you may already have the answer in your heart.

I think it's mutual! But it depends on who loves the other person more, if the guy loves her more than the girl, he is willing to give more, if the girl has more, the girl pays more. Anli is that the boy pays his money, and the girl pays her blessing.

To put it simply, that's it, boys themselves should be like this, but there are also girls who pay more, which varies according to each person's situation.

In love, both boys and girls are giving. Some are more, some are less, and we should be rational about even the things that have been paid.

No, I don't think there should be anyone who pays absolutely, they all pay together.

Summary. I think the feelings of two people should be built on an equal footing.

When two people fall in love, should the girl pay more or the boy pay more, should the boy take the initiative to pay the girl?

I think the feelings of two people should be built on an equal footing.

If the love between the two of you is not equal, then your giving is also unequal.

For example, if girls want to pay more than boys, girls may pay more.

On the contrary, if a boy loves a girl a little more, then the boy will give more than the girl.

But in a normal relationship, boys have to pay more than girls, because they are men.

As for whether boys should take the initiative to pay girls? I think under normal circumstances you should take the initiative to pay. But if the girl loves the boy a little more, maybe the girl will take the initiative to pay.

The more you love, the more you give.