At what moment did you suddenly feel like you had matured?

When my son called me daddy for the first time, I felt mature. In the past, when I was alone, I earned and spent as much as I wanted, and the whole family was not hungry when I fed each other, and I went to work for three days to fish and two days to dry the nets, and I never thought too much about it. Later, after getting married, although it was a little negative, it didn't cause much trouble to me, and I still went my own way, thinking about one out and one out of one.

Slowly my wife became pregnant with a child, and when I made money alone, I felt that life was not easy, and I no longer went to spend time drinking, and I went to the supermarket to buy things and began to look at **, not as naïve as before, and then after the child was born, I suddenly felt that I had grown up, and I had to earn money to afford the family's wealth, rice, oil and salt, and became no longer smiling, no longer going out to fool around with fox friends and dogs, going home on time every day, life became monotonous, two points and one line every day, and it was common for my wife and children to get up early and be greedy for darkness every dayI have to admit that I have matured, learning how to be a good husband, but also learning how to be a good father, the burden on my shoulders is heavier, and I am no longer as frivolous as before.

Regarding the change in personality, now when I think back to myself in college and the self I just graduated, it's so naïve that it's like a joke. After breaking free from the high-pressure study of high school to the university campus, everything is fresh, and he is like a calf without a rope, scurrying around. Actively participate in the activities of the student union, actively apply for various exams, actively intern, and even eat and drink liquor with friends.

In the past four years, I have won a lot of awards, outstanding graduates, first-class scholarships, etc., and I have also taken a lot of certificates, such as English level 4 or 6, tour guide certificate, Mandarin, etc., and even I can't play the C language programming, I have enrolled in the class to study, and finally joined the postgraduate entrance examination army, and was admitted to Yunnan University of Finance and Economics majoring in tourism management.

I feel that I am mature in my forties, when I was in my twenties, no one was convinced, and my parents' words were not taken to heart, I always felt that what they said was wrong, and slowly I got older and older year by year, and I felt that what the older generation said was quite right, and my restless heart gradually calmed down, and I was not in a hurry to make a decision, and I found that my temper was also calm, so people only gradually matured in their forties.

I think everyone has a different experience of this problem, and there is no age limit, some people mature early, some people mature late, and some people have not matured all their lives. For myself, as long as I have learned lessons, enriched my social knowledge, and understood the true meaning of life, I feel that I have a sense of maturity. But for a person to truly reach very maturity, I am afraid there are very few in the world!

It's no longer the person who will carry the knife if he doesn't agree with him! Never put brotherly righteousness first again! No more 20 dollar cigarettes because you don't need to save face!

I'll never contradict my parents again, because I've grown up! Don't believe in the lies of love anymore! Never go out every night again!

I will never stop drinking liquor again, thinking that the reception needs it! Never again believe I'm young and spending a lot of money! No more people come to me!

In the face of the people and things you care about, you are no longer willful, not emotional, not selfish, when everyone has emotions, learn to transform your mentality, face it calmly, know how to cherish it with your heart, no longer recall the past, and only hope to be happy forever.

In the third year of junior high school, the moment I wanted to pay for the tuition by myself, I owed the teacher hundreds of dollars in tuition and miscellaneous fees, I found that I was about to graduate, and I had not paid the tuition yet, the teacher called ** to my parents, I listened to it on the side, my mother said that the family was financially tight, there was no extra money, and my health was not good....Then I didn't spend the New Year in the house during that winter vacation, I went to the county to do things, earned 900 yuan, paid off the tuition, and never asked my family for money again, and sometimes I gave some money to my family.

When I was a child, I always lied to my parents that I had no money, and now I always lie to my parents that I still have money. When I was a child, I bought something outside and went home, and I always reported the price to my parents higher, and now I bought something and went home, and I always gave the price to my parents very low, and when I was a child, I was wronged outside and went home, and I always cried in front of my parents and said, now I have been wronged and go home to think of ways to keep smiling in front of my parents.

At the moment when you can have enough food and clothing, everything else is in vain, and you are still in love, what do your parents discuss with you, add a younger brother or sister to you? It's pure bullshit, it's mature that you can live well.

Another semester has passed, I don't know what I want to pursue is success, but I have been working hard, I am not afraid of failure, I am afraid of failure, I am not afraid of losing and I am afraid of losing, I know that I want to get something and am destined to lose something, I feel that I have overcome the fear of loneliness and loneliness, and I no longer value emotions, but this is not the case, I am always hurt because I care or don't care, today I am sitting on the playground, I find that the saddest thing is that I sit there with my head down, there are no tears, It's just silence and silence, I recalled the past these days, 2019 is finally gone, this year has been too much, from the previous big noise to the silence I hope 2020 will be good, I wrote an essay when I was a child, I wrote about 2020, when I am looking back, I may just miss it, miss that kind of innocence. I plan for the future, I have decided in my heart how I should live next, but I will be a little bit away from the goal after all, I don't want to disappoint my family, I don't want to disappoint myself, maybe my parents' good self-righteousness is not my fall, I want to prove, I want to prove that I can, I want to prove that I am not mediocre next, I can choose the way to make myself excellent, let everyone envy the life, has been working hard. I don't know if my thoughts are mature, I don't understand what the meaning of maturity is, I only know that now the process of my pursuit will make me speak more decently, do things more neatly, and encounter things more calmly, now I am writing in the quilt in the dormitory that these are more to pay tribute to the growth of this year, but also lost the previous happiness, innocent happiness, remembered the previous classmates, everyone can be unscrupulous, innocent and happy to describe me finally disappeared, in the growth, in the running, in the struggle, in the pursuit, In silence Now I prefer to sit alone quietly in a corner where no one is meditating, I prefer to be alone quietly with a quilt to cover my head and hide in the deepest part of the listening**, I have no words, maybe in the future I and some people said that it has become polite, but also know how to measure, but also know how to think, okay, not much to say, New Year's Day is coming, the new year is coming, I hope I treat people sincerely, others treat me sincerely Good night