I always feel that there are many older leftover women in first tier cities, but there are very few

Why are there more older women in first-tier cities, while more men are older in smaller cities? <>

Netizen 1:Leftover women are holding the mentality of preferring lack to abundance, and will not marry for the sake of marriage, modern people's concepts are changing, marriage is no longer the most important part of life, how to live comfortably. On the contrary, if the education level is not high and the economic conditions are not good, then the girl married herself early.

Netizen 2:No matter how old a woman is, she still has to find a man she likes, she can't get married for the sake of getting married, and she doesn't have to pay attention to the problem of leftover women, but she doesn't have to ask how good the man's economic conditions are, mainly depending on the character, and the man or woman finally disposes of the money they earn at will.

Netizen 3:In fact, there are many older leftover women who are not elites, many of them are not good-looking, older, and have average incomes, but the conditions for demanding men are very high. If the man's conditions are good, and the woman's work is okay, the first choice is still a young and beautiful girl.

Netizen 4:In fact, those so-called leftover women in big cities with good conditions are nothing more than because they don't need to save money to get married and buy a house, so their daily expenses can be one or two levels higher than that of men of the same level, giving them the illusion that men of the same level are not worthy of them. Big cities have more equal opportunities, but like a pyramid, especially the higher you go, the fewer you have, let alone two levels up.

Netizen 5:I think we should really pay attention to peasant families with two or three children, because many people at the bottom are really living in a difficult situation now, and it will be more and more difficult according to this situation. The leftover girls in the city live a very good life, and because they don't need to live together, they don't have to worry about the economy.

Netizen 6:A girl next door to my husband's house, a rural person, a beginner in Chinese, looks very ordinary, she chooses her boyfriend county town can't look at it, she wants to buy a house in Wuhan, I don't know where this girl got her confidence.

It is because many older leftover women in first-tier cities have very stable jobs and relatively high requirements, so there are a lot of older leftover women, and there are basically no older leftover men, because men will settle down for themselves when they reach a certain age.

Because boys are not so demanding, they will do the corresponding things when they reach the corresponding age.

In fact, it is because most boys do not have high requirements for girls, and girls have particularly high requirements for boys, so this situation occurs.

1.First-tier cities have higher barriers to entry for men; 2.political correctness in the age of feminism; 3.There are many scumbags, and women of appropriate age are more "blinded";

There is a distance between the remaining men and women, and they don't understand each other.

Because of the high pressure and fast pace of life, people are working hard and have no leisure time to think about personal problems, so single men and women abound in first-tier cities.

Geographical differences. Now there is a phenomenon of regional two-rush chain level differentiation, with boys in big cities not looking for a partner, and girls in small cities not looking for a partner. Housing prices are too high in big cities, work is stressful, and many boys are busy working and earning money and not looking for a partner.

Life in small cities is stable, parents can buy a house for their children, but after the boys finish college, most of them work in the big cities and do not return to their hometowns, which makes the boys in the small cities less and less, and the girls in the small cities also have high requirements for men, and there are few single boys, and there are even fewer suitable ages, so that they cannot find boys who meet their requirements, resulting in girls getting older and older.

Can't be tempted by a person.

There are several reasons for this:

a. I have been hurt emotionally before, and since then I have closed myself off, and I dare not and will not easily accept the opposite sex.

b. Men want women to be beautiful, women want men to be handsome, and ordinary people can't get into their eyes.

c. I always compare it with my previous lovers, and I always feel that it is not as good as my previous lovers.

d. Closed his own heart, rejected people thousands of miles away, and felt that he no longer believed in love.

In fact, I think that whether it is a man or a woman who meets the right person for him in love, or choose to get married, after all, the person who has fate cannot wait for you all the time, once you miss it, it is really a lifetime, and it will be too late for you to regret it, you must think about your own marital happiness.

The work is stressful and it is difficult to make money.

Now life is stressful, it is difficult to find a job, it is not easy to make money, and the job is unstable. Children in their thirties are basically only children, their parents are more doting, they are unwilling to do things with less money, they can't do things with more money, and they can barely maintain their own expenses, and even their parents pay back part of the money every month. If you don't have responsibility, you don't dare to take responsibility, so you don't want to get married and have children.

There are also a few who have the urge to disturb other people's lives when their brains are hot.

Do a good job, stick to hobbies, and maintain necessary relationships.

That's enough. If you can meet the opposite sex who knows each other in the process of sticking to your hobby, it is of course the best, and it is not a big deal if you don't.