Is love really just a novelty?

Yes, once the expiration date expires, you can't keep anything, do you think you are sad because you love him? Actually, it's because you love yourself. You are sad that your heart has not been reciprocated, you feel sorry that you have been hurt so much in love, and you are unwilling to give for so long in exchange for a true heart, in fact...See that, right?

It's just that you love yourself, so sad. Love is actually just a mood, there is no perfect lover who can let you put your sweet mood, you will be saddened by this, and love will deteriorate from then on. Because love is a necessity of life, there can be no flaws!

Everyone has a longing for love, and the ideal love doesn't need to be vigorous, nor too bland, as long as it can have freshness every day.

I thought that this freshness was a trivial thing in love life, but many so-called dry and rotten loves were defeated by this freshness.

When we first meet a person, it is the time when the freshness is the strongest, and the collision of two people and two different worlds will always make you refreshed. As the two worlds merge together and you have more and more in common, the novelty gradually decreases, and the longer you get along, the less freshness comes in.

It's as if you have a large sum of money that you can squander over a period of time. But when the money runs out, if you don't want to find a way to make money, the end will be starvation. It's the same with freshness, you can squander it over a period of time, but if you want to have a constant sense of freshness, you can't just consume it, you have to make it.

Freshness can be manufactured. It is said that good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand. But our society has to be interesting not only for the skin, but also for the soul.

Looks can help you find your ideal partner, but your partner doesn't want to be in a relationship with just one skin.

It's enough to be pleasing to the eye, but life still has to go on.

The vigor will only be temporary, and what will occupy most of the time between the two of them is definitely dull. Some people say that plain is good, plain is true, but anyone can say this, but not everyone can endure a life like a pool of stagnant water without waves.

No one wants to live with a piece of wood.

Love, in fact, whether before or after marriage, is always in the imperfect tense. With a marriage contract, love does not have a foolproof and reliable guarantee. Freshness does not only refer to love, it is a part of love, and it is specific to every small link that needs to be kept fresh.

Anytime, it is in the present continuous tense. Take care of it, and you can't relax for a moment.

Lu Xun said that love should be updated frequently. The update here does not refer to an update of the object. I understand. It's about improving personal charm.

Freshness is the feeling of heartbeat when two people first meet together, and they will need each other very much, and they can't leave each other for a moment.

Freshness is curiosity about the other person, and because you don't know your partner well, there is an urge to know each other better, which is the so-called freshness.

Novelty is to find that the other person is more and more attracted to you, and you often feel excited by some of the other person's behaviors.

The freshness that love needs can not be understood as the other party can not bring me freshness, there is no affection between us, we should first be clear that freshness is the condiment of love, a dish will be difficult to eat without salt seasoning, the same reason, the freshness of love is like salt, the dish is not equal to salt, love is not the same as freshness, we can't say that there is no love between the two parties because of the lack of freshness between the two parties. Secondly, the freshness of love needs to be actively created and discovered by ourselves, and the freshness of love will not be constantly generated by itself.

The same life will feel boring if it is repeated for a long time, and so is a love, so love needs freshness to spice up, if you don't eat salt for a long time, your body will not be able to stand it, and if there is never freshness in a love, this love will be in danger. The freshness in love is not so noble, although it is important for a love, it is not a diamond, it is just the most common salt in our lives, it is not as important as diamonds, but love needs it.

The freshness in love needs to be created by yourself, so how to create it? In fact, it is very simple, occasionally give each other a little surprise, occasionally tell each other a joke, make each other smile, you can try to cook some different meals for each other, this can create freshness, freshness is actually to give each other a little different, reducing time may bring some boredom between you.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

In real life, love needs to taste freshness, but it is not the kind of empathy and love. There are some girls who often complain: after my boyfriend got me, he lost the enthusiasm of his first love!

There are also some couples who sigh: marriage is the grave of love!

Feelings have a certain time limit, at the time of first acquaintance, two people are always inseparable, eager to be together all day, but slowly the relationship will fade, no longer have the original enthusiasm.

Is there a lasting attraction between people? I think there is, but this kind of attraction requires certain conditions, it may be the appearance at the beginning, but the appearance of this kind of thing cannot be maintained for a lifetime, maybe it will disappear one day, and the more important thing is to rely on the inside, the richer the inside, the more lasting the feelings, why is this?

In fact, this is the so-called freshness, when you can give each other freshness at any time, they will naturally feel that people like you are too rare, and they will be too happy with you, and they will also give you more love.

In some film and television dramas, there are often such clips, when the male or female protagonist sees the other party surprise him, he will always ask him: "How many surprises do you still have that I don't know?" ”

In this case, it must be TA's interesting soul that can continue to attract each other, because seeing the surprise you give to TA at any time, TA will feel fresh all the time, and will naturally love you more.

When two people are together, the key to lasting attraction is three words: freshness.

In love, freshness refers to the individual's emotional experience of a person, or an object, which is between familiar and unfamiliar, and when you know a person too well, there may not be freshness, and only when you don't know each other very well, there will be freshness.

Many people think that the novelty of being in a relationship will bring us pleasure and excitement, and once this feeling is lost, it will feel boring and boring, but in fact, the novelty may not be as important as you think.

How to keep a relationship fresh? The novelty we pursue is only a small part of the feelings in love, specifically the external curiosity In a relationship, curiosity can be divided into two types, they are Y curiosity and inner curiosity.

In order to keep a relationship fresh, it is more important to have an inner curiosity in addition to external curiosity. You can try two people to do the same thing, communicate with each other, and see each other's views on the matter. Also leave some independent time and space for yourself, because everyone is an independent individual, and we can only keep each other fresh by leaving some independent space and time for each other.

Maintain the desire to explore the other person. Research points out that when people have more expectations for something that they have experienced, they are more willing to do it repeatedly, and in the relationship, we should be good at maintaining the desire to explore the other person, digging deep into some unique characteristics of the other party, and maintaining the desire to explore the other person, which is also an important step to improve our freshness.

1. Emotional freshness: When a person first comes into contact with a stranger or a new thing, he has a great curiosity about the object, which is often called freshness. People who are in a period of novelty will pay attention to the object all the time, and will try their best to understand it deeply and even have direct contact.

2. Freshness in things: It mostly refers to the feeling of edible green plants such as vegetables and fruits. For example, freshly picked vegetables are green, and the morning dew on the leaves has not yet faded, giving people a sense of freshness.

When buying fruits and vegetables, people value the freshness of the most important thing to decide whether to buy or not.