What does it take for a person to change himself?

Pay attention to the influence of the environment around you on you, it was not meaningless for Meng's mother to move three times back then. Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. Make friends with people who are capable and self-controlled, and less people who are discouraged by playthings.

Then you have to realize that it is impossible to change completely, you have to set a number of small goals, step by step, set up time management for yourself, record the number of times you are interrupted when you do something, the reason and time, make a summary and feedback every week, and then learn a lesson to start the next week's life. Everything for your big goals. Remember, you can go up every day, and change a little bit every day to make a big leap.

It's a good thing upstairs, change can change, accept that you can't change, you also have good things in you, you say that complete change is not to change everything, good things must be carried forward. We must strive to pursue our goals, never give up for a moment, even if there are great difficulties, we cannot waver, this is the quality of successful people, don't like you said, when you encounter that what you do does not match what you expected, you will blame yourself. I think that when I rode a bicycle all over 7 provinces, I almost died of illness and exhaustion on the road, the bus was next to me, I didn't take the bus home, even if I was sick and died, I had to die on the way to pursue my goal.

First of all, you have a firm belief, and then look at your own shortcomings to change, it's not that I'm perfunctory to you, it's that simple, and if you go back on your word, the main thing is that you don't have perseverance.

It's not much fun if you do it deliberately, as long as you have fun every day. Isn't it important to be content?

Give yourself a little more encouragement every day. Little by little, to accumulate.

Of course, people have to change themselves. Constantly changing oneself in order to adapt to the changing environment. Keep changing yourself in order to adapt to the ever-evolving times. Only by constantly changing yourself can we continue to improve ourselves.

Whether in a broad or narrow sense, people are always in the process of active or passive change. Broadly speaking, nothing is static, and whether you are aware of it or not, you are in the process of changing. In a narrow sense, subjective immutability and change are relative, and when the objective conditions change, the subjective belief that there is no change, and the essence has changed.

If you are poor, you will change, and if you change, you will be successful. In a positive sense, the purpose of change is to achieve better development. If a person is not so prominent in a certain aspect, if he does not seek change, then he will inevitably fall behind more and more, and finally be eliminated.

And if you can face up to your shortcomings and shortcomings, and actively seek change, then you will continue to surpass, and finally achieve your goals and prove your worth.

Changing yourself is not contradictory to maintaining your personality. Change is to make yourself better and more perfect. The premise of pursuing individuality is to respect the collective interests and the individuality of others.

Under this premise, maintaining individuality and publicizing individuality will make society richer. And if you actively change yourself and constantly improve yourself, your life will be more exciting.

The society has developed and the times have advanced, so instead of passively accepting, how can we actively change. Twenty years ago, computers and the Internet were a novelty, and you could ignore it. Now that the Internet is so popular, it has been closely linked to work and life, can you ignore its existence?

If you don't change, if you don't learn, can you adapt?

In short, to change and improve, is to be a better version of yourself.

If you feel you need to change, change it; If you don't think you need to change it, don't change it.

As far as I'm concerned, I think people still have to change themselves, after all, there are no absolute things in this world, and people have to live for decades, if there is no change at all, it will be too boring; In addition, if you don't change, it may be difficult to live a chic and happy life.

In fact, everyone is changing, but some of them are subjectively trying to change, while some of them are naturally changed in the process of life, and they may have changed without realizing it.

For example, when I was young, I felt that I couldn't live without cartoons for the rest of my life, and if I didn't watch cartoons one day, I might not be able to live; But I don't know when animation has been a dispensable thing for me, and even if I don't have it, my life will go on.

When I was a student, I thought that such a simple life was very good, as long as I went to class, ate, played games, and slept every day, I even thought that I would go to work in the future, as long as I could earn enough for my rent and food money a month, I could live a very chic life; But what about after the actual work? I found that no matter how much money I made, it was not enough to spend, so I used to think that it was vulgar to talk about money, but now I admit that I am just a layman, and naturally I talk about mundane things.

In the past, I thought that studying was just to prepare for exams, but after I graduated, I didn't have to study or take exams. But what about after graduation and work? Although exams are not necessary anymore, I realized that I can't let go of studying at any time, so I started to find things to do for myself, and I have to take at least a few exams every year, which was unimaginable before, but now it is very natural.

Change happens all the time, so if you don't want to change, you really have to do something.

In fact, I don't think we can deny all of this problem, I can't say that people have to change, and I can't say that people can't change, I think it's still a score.

In fact, everyone is not born perfect, but in this life, we have to pursue perfection, and gradually drift away on the road of pursuing perfection.

When I was in high school, there was a period when I was very confused, and I envied those who were able to control their temper and be able to study well without delaying their studies.

Those people seem to be born with their own strengths, they are very smart, they may not learn much, but their grades are at the top.

And they were able to control their temper especially they were able to control their temper, which I think is an advantage.

So at that time, I was very envious of these people who could control their temper, I thought they were very powerful, so I felt that there was a time when I decided to change myself, I decided to be a person like them, but in the process of change, I felt that I was very miserable, I was very unhappy in my life, and I had to endure everything.

And at that time, I didn't know what to endure and what not to endure, so that period was probably the hardest time for me.

But then I found out that I am actually the happiest to be myself, if I say that I like the person, he will definitely like the person I don't like me, no matter how good you are, he will not like you, so in this case, I think, if you change yourself and make yourself unhappy, it is your own heart, then why change yourself?

But I think there may be things that have obvious shortcomings in yourself, and they have seriously affected the lives of others, and I think this situation needs to be corrected.

I think that with the change of age and the progress of society, a person should also have corresponding changes, only in this way can he integrate into this society and become a part of the collective. I think it is natural for people to change, if a person can never learn to change, and just live in their own world, then it will bring a lot of trouble to many people.

For example, when we start living in a dormitory for the first time in our lives, we should change our minds, thinking that the dormitory is not your home, and you can't be as free as you are at home, because there are always people who clean up your mess for you, and your roommates are not your parents, they will not indulge you like your parents, tolerate your little temper and little willfulness, they will tell you what you are not good about, and urge you to correct it, until you smooth out your edges and corners and adapt to the life of accommodation. That's what it means you're part of the dormitory.

When you grow up, you should also learn to change, learn to bear the consequences of your own actions, learn to accomplish things on your own, and not rely on others. If a person has never learned to change, then he will never be accepted by the people around him, because a person who is unwilling to change himself is a person who will never think about others, they will always be self-centered in doing things, except for their own home, it is difficult to accommodate another person in their hearts, so this makes it difficult for them to integrate into the crowd, because it is difficult for people to accept such a selfish person, so each of us must adapt to the surrounding environment and society to make some changes, It's not a shameful thing, changing ourselves and making ourselves better should be something we should be proud of.

Whether you want to change yourself or not depends on whether you want to change yourself or not, and whether you think you should change yourself. The world is complex, and the reality is cruel. If this society often makes you feel infinitely stressed or even suffocated, then perhaps you should change yourself to adapt to the reality and the cruelty of society.

Because this society will not stop moving forward because of any one person, nor will it change the world itself because of any one person. Therefore, if you want to live happily every day and get rid of the unnecessary pressure and distress brought to you by society, then you should not hesitate to change yourself. It can be to change one's personality, make one's personality more cheerful, make one's character more gentle, have less complaints and dissatisfaction with society, and have less inferiority and self-blame; Of course, it can also make yourself better, let yourself have more capital and bargaining chips to compete in society, and when you start to change yourself to become better, the good fortune of this society will also come to you, so that you can change yourself and become more meaningful.

If you want to change yourself because of a person or a relationship, then you should reflect on whether you are really not good enough or really inferior to others. At this time, you should not easily let yourself make changes, because everyone has a time of loss and frustration, but not every frustration is due to their own reasons, if you can have a clear conscience, then there is no need to change yourself to cater to others, because having your own character and personality is also a charm of yours.

So in short, whether you want to change yourself or not depends on your own actual situation, combined with the reality of this society, and then make your own decision whether you should change or not, because this is a matter related to the direction of your future life, so you must think deeply.

In fact, it is also up to you, everyone has every opinion, if you feel that you are doing well now, and you are very happy, you have no need to change yourself.

Because you're very happy, it means that your personality and other aspects are very good, so now you're doing well, just keep it up.

But if you feel that you are not doing well now, your life is particularly bad, and your world is very gloomy, then you can also make some changes for yourself.

Many times, many things are not static, and change also begins with the change of one's own heart, from the inside out.

Therefore, a person's change is definitely not an overnight thing, it takes a lot of time to accumulate, so when you think you are not good enough, then you work hard to make yourself good enough.

Try hard, although you don't know the result at all, don't deny yourself at the beginning, because many things are unknown, the world is also unsolvable, and we don't know what we will become in the future.

So whatever? Go for it, win or fail!

If a person is so immutable from birth to death, I think this person will be very boring, and then there is no great significance in being born into this world, so if you can make some changes, try to make some changes, because only after trying can you know if you are more suitable for other things.

Are there any things we haven't tried? But it can bring us a lot of joy! We don't know either.

A person's life must be tortuous, and in the face of such a life, we have to change ourselves. Therefore, it is necessary and inevitable to change yourself, not whether you want to or not, and can be controlled by yourself.

Life is long, but life is also short. We will go through many, many things in our lives, so we will have many different opinions after going through so many things, and then, our minds will change. When we change our minds, we act on them.

So as to change oneself, the life that has not been changed is like a pool of stagnant water without movement. If there is no movement, the lake will stink. Therefore, we must make appropriate changes, and only by making changes in life can we live more and more exciting.

The more fun you get. The same self will eventually bore itself, which will lead to some symptoms of depression. Change yourself to make yourself fresher and happier.

We need to change ourselves for the better, and change is inevitable and artificial. We have to use our strong willpower to make us move forward in a better direction, when you change yourself, you will find a lot of new things before you make changes, you will learn to try hard, you will become more excited, so that you have more yearning for life. If you are surrounded by the factor of happiness, you will live a happy life.

Therefore, changing ourselves can also make a huge difference in our own lives, and at the same time improve the quality of our lives. Therefore, change is inevitable, change is beautiful and reliable, and change is one thing that each of us needs to do. In this life, it is precisely because of these countless changes that a complete life is formed, and it is precisely because of these changes that we are more beautiful.

Therefore, people must change themselves, but the direction of change must be chosen well. Change is bright and encouraging for our future, we must actively accept change, and at the same time learn to change ourselves and move in a beautiful direction.