Why did Zhao Chengming marry Li Qingzhao? Did Zhao Mingcheng live up to Li Qingzhao?

Talent and appearance, why not marry.

Last night, the rain was sparse and the wind was sudden, and the heavy sleep did not kill the ...... of alcoholSpeaking of Li Qingzhao.

Presumably many people know her, her talent is very admirable, as a rare female lyricist, she has gained countless "fans" in later generations, and at the same time, later generations are also very envious of her and Zhao Mingcheng.

The love between them, the two of them are like fairy couples.

In fact, this is all an appearance, Zhao Mingcheng is not as good as Li Qingzhao in terms of talent and morality. Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng did not make it to the end, I think there are the following reasons.

1. Personality incompatibility. Zhao Mingcheng is a son, but he is very cowardly and lustful, while Li Qingzhao is the kind of pretentious and high-minded, on the surface, the personalities of the two are very different, how can they come together. After the death of Zhao Mingcheng's father, he was attacked by Cai Jing.

Li Qingzhao persuaded him to fight on the basis of reason and return his father's innocence, but he was afraid of Cai Jing's power and did nothing, so he hurriedly moved his family out of the capital and ran to Qingzhou for refuge. It can be seen that the two have a great contradiction in dealing with people, which is a very important reason why they did not come together.

Second, there is a huge disparity in talent. Zhao Mingcheng is a goldsmith and a poet who is very good at poetry and songs.

I don't have much interest, and Li Qingzhao not only learned poetry and poetry since he was a child, but also has a deep knowledge in poetry, imagine that if you are Li Qingzhao and write a good poem, you must want to share it with others for the first time, and the person closest to you is no different from your husband, and his attitude towards you is very cold, then the estrangement will arise from this. Li Qingzhao's love for him was bound by marriage, and the sweetness after marriage had long disappeared in the disparity in talent between the two.

3. Lack of communication. Zhao Mingcheng has been living under the aura of his wife, and he must have some inferiority, especially in that patriarchal era, how many men can tolerate his wife's ability to be so much greater than himself, so Zhao Mingcheng has focused on gold and stone, calligraphy and painting, and the communication between the two sides is becoming less and less. At the same time, a very important reason is that the two have no children, and Zhao Mingcheng blames Li Qingzhao for all the blame, which undoubtedly increases the estrangement.

1, there is a huge disparity in talent, Zhao Mingcheng has a good reputation, and Li Qingzhao is attributed to the kind with a very high self-esteem, which seems to be quite complementary on the surface, but this is not the case in practice. 2, the estrangement arose, at that time, Zhao Mingcheng was serving outside, and he was already raising concubines behind Li Qingzhao's back. But Li Qingzhao is still thinking about and blaming Zhao Mingcheng or has felt that there is a gap in the life of husband and wife, and made this poem.

3, looking detached, Zhao Mingcheng runs around in the wine banquet every day, intoxicated with money, and is these boring idle things all day long. When writing poems, you have to close your door to thank guests, and burn incense in your own residence to meditate on good ideas. In the peace, I got two good friends, one is Mr. Wuyou and the other is Mr. Zixu.

It can be seen that at this time, the two people are in harmony with each other.

At that time, they were experiencing war. Her husband was dismissed for dereliction of duty in the mutiny, and she became very ashamed, and they had a hard time.

The personality is incompatible, and the talent is unmatched.

Born as a masterpiece, it is satirical that Zhao Mingcheng abandoned Nanjing and fled.

The reason why Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng's relationship broke down was because of her husband's cowardice. The reason for ridiculing Zhao Mingcheng was that one of her husband's behaviors was very cowardly, so he spurned Zhao Mingcheng more.

Because two people have different interests and hobbies, their spiritual pursuits are also different, so it will lead to a breakdown of the relationship and sarcasm.

Their family factors, Li Qingzhao doesn't want to be very childlike, Zhao Mingcheng wants to take a concubine, Li Qingzhao can't get used to Zhao Mingcheng's character and attitude towards life.

Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng's love was actually disappointed.

Although Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng can be said to be a couple when they first got together, Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng are about the same age, they are the right people, they are very compatible, and even their interests and hobbies are similar, these two people are a match made in heaven together, so the two of them have lived very happily for a period of time after they got married, but only these ten years can be called happy.

Because the two people who just got married are far away from the officialdom, they also have a lot of time together, they can learn and study calligraphy, painting and poetry together, and occasionally go together. Usually when I have nothing to do, I read books and drink tea, such days are very plain but happy, but such happy days have ended since Zhao Mingcheng was reactivated by the imperial court.

At that time, Zhao Mingcheng was going to Laizhou to take up a post, but Li Qingzhao stayed in Qingzhou, and the two began a long-distance relationship. At that time, long-distance relationships were more difficult than now, there was almost no way to connect, and there was no way to communicate, so there was less communication between couples and no novelty.

What's more, Li Qingzhao was in his thirties at that time, and his appearance was not as good as before. And men like young and beautiful women, no matter how talented Li Qingzhao is, but what men value is foreign trade, and Zhao Mingcheng is also such a person. Therefore, after his career entered the rising period, there were naturally many more girls around him, and Li Qingzhao had not given birth to children for all these years, so he gave Zhao Mingcheng a reason to look for flowers and willows.

In ancient times, having no queen was a very big crime, and a man could even use this reason to divorce his wife. Therefore, Zhao Mingcheng unscrupulously messed with flowers and grass outside, leaving Li Qingzhao alone at home, and the happiness of the past is now only the loneliness of being alone in the empty room.

Of course, he was let down for life, because Zhao Mingcheng was assassinated on the way to fight against the Japanese invaders, and Li Qingzhao was a very infatuated person.

Li Qingzhao had only two men during his lifetime, namely Zhao Mingcheng and Zhang Ruzhou. Li Qingzhao's family was very wealthy when she was a child, and her parents were both literary. Growing up in such a family, Li Qingzhao has had a great interest in literature since she was a child, and the teachings of her parents and her own intelligence have also made Li Qingzhao famous since she was a teenager.

For example, the famous work "Like a Dream Order" was created by Li Qingzhao when he was a carefree teenager. <>

When Li Qingzhao was eighteen years old, she married Zhao Mingcheng, who was three years older than herself. This Zhao Mingcheng also has a good background and is also quite fond of literature, so after he married Li Qingzhao, he got along very harmoniously because of his common interests. The two of them do not have high material requirements, and most of their energy is focused on collecting rare books and cheats.

It's a pity that such a stable and harmonious life lasted only a little more than a year before it was broken by the partisan struggle of the imperial court. Li Qingzhao's father, who was dismissed due to partisan struggle, was forced to leave Bianjing, and Li Qingzhao, who was married, could not avoid being implicated, and finally left Bianjing. <>

Three years later, Li Qingzhao, who finally returned to Zhao Mingcheng's side, caught up with the changes of the Zhao family in the second year. This accident led to the death of Zhao Mingcheng's father, and many relatives of the Zhao family were imprisoned. Although the families of the two sides have suffered accidents one after another, fortunately, Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng have always stayed together since then, and although their lives are hard, they are not depressed.

However, with the invasion of the Jin army, the Song Dynasty began to fall into turmoil and turmoil, and Li Qingzhao began the tragic second half of his life. <>

Zhao Mingcheng accidentally contracted an illness in such a turbulent society, and finally left Li Qingzhao alone. After that, Li Qingzhao traveled alone in the south, during which many of his collection of paintings and calligraphy were lost. After finally arriving in Hangzhou, Li Qingzhao met Zhang Ruzhou here, and later married this person.

And this Ruzhou mistakenly thought that Li Qingzhao would marry him only because he had a lot of precious paintings and calligraphy in his collection, but after marriage, he found that this was not the case, so he began to reveal his true form and often beat and scolded Li Qingzhao. Later, Li Qingzhao was unbearable to be beaten and scolded, and proposed to leave and successfully got the government's consent, so Li Qingzhao changed to tease Xiang back again.

Li Qingzhao Li Qingzhao is a very famous female lyricist in the Song Dynasty and even Chinese history, Li Qingzhao's lyrics are mostly sad and sad, poignant and moving, and many of them are related to the story of her and her husband Zhao Mingcheng.

Before Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng met, Zhao Mingcheng had already read her poems, and admired this talented, transparent and pure woman very much, and always wanted to know and make friends with each other, but he didn't have such an opportunity. Later, he finally got acquainted with one of Li Qingzhao's brothers, which also laid a good foundation for Li Qingzhao's acquaintance with Zhao Mingcheng. Once Zhao Mingcheng and her brother, that is, Li Zhen, went out to play together, and happened to meet Li Qingzhao, she originally wanted to take advantage of the lanterns, but she didn't expect that her life would change because of this day.

Zhao Mingcheng finally saw what he admired, only met once, but his heart gave birth to a heart of admiration, and can no longer control it, so he returned home and wrote a lantern riddle to his father, his father read it and then vaguely understood the meaning of his son, after which he immediately proposed to Li Qingzhao's family, and the two soon became husband and wife. Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng were originally a very close couple, but because of Zhao Mingcheng's thoughts, they did something to abandon the city and flee alone, which led to the gradual cold breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, Li Qingzhao is a very high person, she has never been able to tolerate that her favorite husband is a cowardly and selfish person, and Zhao Mingcheng passed away due to illness when the relationship between the two fell to the freezing point. Since Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng met, the two have a very affectionate and tacit understanding because of their like-mindedness, but no one expected that such an ending would occur in the end.