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Generally speaking, the good old man is the popular saying for "good man". A good man is a person who has a gentle personality, is tactful, does not pay attention to principles, does not offend people, and likes and mud. On the surface, the good man is generous and honest, and he is kind to others"Yes sir''.
In fact, the good man is a hypocritical and good person who is good at selfishness.
The meaning of the modern good man is gradually formed through historical evolution, which is different from the meaning of the good man in the original historical allusions, with richer connotations and deeper meanings.
Sima Wei's hermitage in the Eastern Han Dynasty was located in Xiangyang City, Hubei Province.
There are many allusions to good people in history, which are well-documented, more classic, and the earliest is the story of Sima Wei in the Eastern Han Dynasty. Sima Wei in the Eastern Han Dynasty was a hermit, he was proficient in channel studies, Qimen, the art of war, and scriptures, and was known as "Mr. Shui Jing". Sima Wei is elegant, knowledgeable, and knowledgeable, and recommended Zhuge Liang, Pang Tong and others to Liu Bei, and is respected by the world.
Sima Wei has a significant characteristic, that is, he never says the shortcomings and bad things of others, and never asks about other people's likes and dislikes when talking to others, and he always says good things. Sima Wei was very good at identifying talents and was a smart person, but because the social and political struggles at that time were very acute and complicated, he often pretended to be confused, and no matter what others said, he said: "Good".
So, people gave him a nickname, called "Mr. Yes".
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, "Mr. Hao" Sima Wei.
There is an ancient written record that one day, "Mr. Hao" Sima Wei was practicing calligraphy and painting at home. The house slave came to report that a fellow had come to see him, and Sima Wei said happily when he heard it: "Good".
This fellow is Liu Yuanwai, he came in with a sad face, and Sima Wei asked him: "How are you doing lately?" ''This son of Liu Yuanwai, because he killed people outside for doing mischief, was caught by the government and put on death row, so he waited for the autumn queen to ask and beheaded.
Liu Yuanwai heard that Sima Wei was a very good person and had many friends, so he wanted Sima Wei to find a way to help save people. So Liu Yuanwai said to Sima Wei: "My son is not filial and has violated the king's law."
Before Sima Wei could finish listening to him, he said, "Good." Liu Yuanwai was not happy when he heard it, and forced his anger and said:
Now he is on death row, and he will be beheaded after the autumn. Sima Wei said again: "Great".
This Liu Yuanwai was so angry that he turned around and left. At this time, Mrs. Sima stepped forward and persuaded her: "It's okay to say other things, but other people's sons are going to die, how can you say it well?"
Sima Wei slapped his thigh and said, "Oh, madam, you couldn't have said this better."
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There are many examples of good people, and they are very common in your life, just like the two of you just see one thing at the same time, which is very unfair, but you can fight the grievances, but what about this old man? He'd pretend he couldn't see it, and he'd give it a moment.
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1. Help your mother do housework 2, help your grandmother pick up the courier 3, take the initiative to pick up the garbage when you see it 4, and take the initiative to tighten it when the faucet in the toilet is not tightened.
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There are two examples of good people I know of who have become bad, and I will briefly introduce them below!
The first is Kuang Heng. His family was poor, but he was a good learner from an early age. For thousands of years, the story of "chiseling the wall and borrowing light" was widely sung, and at that time, he could not afford to buy books, so he could only get the opportunity to read by working part-time for aristocratic families and borrowing books from others.
When he was a little older and became a laborer in the family, he only had time to read in the evening. But the money from the part-time job can only maintain food and clothing, and I can't even afford to pay for lamp oil. So what should I do when I read a book at night?
One night, Kuang Heng felt that there was light coming in on the east wall, so he was smart, and in the days to come, he studied under this light, studied hard, and later became a prime minister, very knowledgeable. However, in the course of his career, he began to forget his roots, expand his fiefdom, loot the people's fat and ointment, and become a sinner. This also made the people at that time have a different view of Kuang Heng.
But his spirit of diligent study is still affirmed by everyone.
The second is Kong Rong, who was diligent and studious when he was a teenager, and also let his brother eat the big pears, so there is the story of Kong Rong making pears, which is praised by the world. Kong Rong is the twentieth grandson of Confucius. After growing up, the teaser became the ** of the Eastern Han Dynasty and was a rare talent.
He once published an article on "the theory of parental gratitude", which means that parents have no kindness to their children, because education is human instinct, and raising children is a kind of obligation and responsibility of parents themselves. This idea was ahead of its time and landed him in jail. Cao Cao had always been prejudiced against Kong Rong, and when he saw him make such unfilial remarks, he immediately had people put him in prison, and then exterminated the Kong Rong clan.
The ending is really tragic!
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Manifestations and harms of good old people:
The performance of the good old man is that he is only willing to make promises when things happen, and the left and right sides are muddy, and both sides say that they are good.
The danger is that there is no concept of right and wrong, and they cannot be counted on to move things forward.
Ways to avoid being a good old man
1. Have faith in yourself: I reject him. He would think that my pettiness should be changed to that the reason I have friends is because I have a lot of good qualities. And it's not just because I'm responsive. Good old people always think I'm not good.
2. Revise the life view that you can do - I can't: help the client to get out of the shadow of you can do it and I can't. Good people are always worried about each other's evaluations.
It comes down to what he thinks the other person can do. The other party's evaluation is true and reliable, and one's own evaluation is weak.
In fact, the other person's evaluation is not necessarily accurate, and you can also evaluate others. Everyone is an individual. It is the right to evaluate the other person, and the good man can assess whether the other person really needs help, if he encounters the kind of person who is dependent or strong.
They can also make evaluations in their hearts, such as if this person doesn't really need my help. He's in the strong. Since he has such shortcomings. What if I reject him.
3. Avoid negative psychological expectations: In fact, many good people have never said no to others. He always assumes that if he says no, the other party will have a very bad opinion of him.
This is very typical of negative expectations. In fact, it is very likely that the other party is a reasonable person, not a dependent and strong person.
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A good person is the kind of person who doesn't care about anything, so it is not good for yourself, and it is not good for others, if you are always like this, you will become a loner, no one is friends with you, and no one wants to be friends with you, you will regret it in the future, or be yourself, don't be a good person, that will hurt yourself, and it will hurt the people around you who love you, don't let yourself regret it for a lifetime...
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Since his retirement, with his love for life and his passion for serving the residents, he organized and founded the "Literature and Art Squad" of the Hongxiao community.
After receiving the support of the community and providing the conditions for the event venue, he was confident in organizing and guiding some people with literary and artistic expertise to write and perform some literary and artistic programs and put them on the stage.
Every holiday or major anniversary, we plan and organize a series of cultural and theatrical performances, and through performances, publicize the party's policies and legal knowledge, family planning, census, create a harmonious society, and a series of activities in a polite city.
Residents are encouraged to break bad habits, advocate politeness, patriotism and law-abiding. The literary and artistic team has also participated in large-scale performances held by the city, district and street for many times, and has won awards and rankings and good results, thus enhancing the popularity of the community and the sense of identity of the residents.
Without the happiness and harmony of the family, there will be no prosperity of the cause and no harmony and stability of the society. In this way, Comrade Zhu Junwu has created a harmonious, simple, and good family environment, and has educated and guided his children to establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values, so that they can grow up healthily.
Comrade Zhu Junwu attaches great importance to the improvement of his own quality and to teaching his children by word and deed, and sets an example for his children with good moral cultivation. Establish a family with virtue and prosper with courtesy.
Pragmatic work, sincerely for the people, this is his belief, he often said that "no matter how small the residents' affairs are, they are also big things, and no matter how big their own affairs are, they are also small things".
As long as there are residents in his heart, the residents will trust us, with the feeling of sharing worries for the community, he is willing to unswervingly adhere to the people-oriented thinking, help the community to publicize the party's policies, oppose cults, advocate politeness and cohesion, he will be full of enthusiasm, down-to-earth style, realize the value of his life, and will write a better and more energetic and brilliant page for the life of everyone in life.
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Good people, good people, good things, good things, with the passing of time, people's lives are gradually getting richer, and they don't seem to need to help each other, but there are still many good people and good things around us, and the spirit of Uncle Lei Feng will never be erased.
It's a good thing that happened to our class.
Last Friday's afternoon self-study, suddenly two classmates in our class vomited, at this time everyone talked about it, began to commotion, guessed, many people immediately opened the windows around them, breathed fresh air, some people covered their noses, in an instant there were almost no people in the class, it turned out that they all ran to the corridor, only two people who vomited and a few people who helped mop the floor, the only girl who helped mop the floor was Zhu Juan, and the other girls did not want to go in, and even the boys repeatedly postponed, The teacher asked a few boys to go in and mop the floor, but they all said, "Don't do it, don't pull it."
But how did they resist the teacher's words, so they had to helplessly, cover their noses and go in to mop the floor, and Zhu Juan She has been helping in the classroom, patiently persevering, and she vomited herself, but he still helped his classmates in the class and cleaned the class, I thought: Isn't she disgusting? Staying in it all the time, a few boys came out with sad faces, it's weird!
After a while, the floor was almost clean, and a few classmates went in, and I walked in slowly, and some classmates said to me, "There is no smell anymore, it's all clean."
But I was still not at ease, so I stood on tiptoe and walked carefully to my seat, and the matter was settled, and everyone returned to their original state.
Such a trivial thing, but it reflects the quality of a classmate in our class, Zhu Juan, who loves the class and is helpful, and the spirit of Uncle Lei Feng is carried forward in a generation of newcomers!
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