Why do young girls like uncles nowadays? How can I get my uncle?

Today's young girls like uncles, not only because they are mature and stable, but also because their uncle's financial ability is acceptable.

When young girls choose their boyfriends, they choose more uncles who are older than themselves, mainly because the uncles are mature and stable and know how to love people. After experiencing a lot of things, they are no longer as impulsive as young boys, and they are more stable in doing things.

If the girl has a little temper in getting along, the young boy may not coax the girl at all, and even if he coaxes, he can't read the girl's mind, but the uncles will be happy if they know how to coax the girl after going through a lot of emotions. There are also uncles who have reached this age and have a successful career, and girls can enjoy a high-quality standard of living without having to work hard with them. Like Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, Liu Shishi and Yang Ying, Liu Qiangdong and Zhang Zetian, after marrying these uncles, which of these girls is not spoiled like a princess, and their married life is sweet.

After the vicissitudes of life, the uncles have seen a lot of all kinds of beauties, and I think when they choose the other half, they not only pay attention to their appearance, but also hope that their girlfriends can communicate with him. So how can you get the uncle?

Improve your ability and connotation, so that you are not only beautiful on the outside, but also temperamental. As long as a girl with a temperament stands there without saying a word, her whole body is full of attraction. Not only that, if you want to flirt with your uncle, you have to make yourself as clear as a student, this clarity I mean spiritually, don't approach him for money.

The last point is also the most important, know how to be coquettish appropriately, so that the uncle thinks that you are not only cute, but also have a temperament and character, who would not like such a girl?

If you like the type of uncle, you will pursue it, and of course, don't forget to look at more boys of your age, they are also worthy of girls' liking.

Because boys themselves will be younger in their mental age, and women will be relatively mature in their thinking, they will feel that their peers cannot give them a sense of security. And because of the social experience, the uncle will be more mature in handling things and behavior, which will make young girls feel secure and have a sense of happiness of being protected. In addition, the uncle's face will have a sense of vicissitudes of experience, which will be more attractive and attractive to young girls.

If you want to get an uncle, you must first clarify a few questions: Is the uncle single? Is the uncle divorced? What is the reason why the uncle is still unmarried?

If the uncle is single, but he is now divorced, then he will be extra careful in his relationship and will not get married easily. If you want to approach him at this stage, it's best not to be too reckless and get closer slowly. Because you are too reckless, it will make him feel that your mind is very immature, and you just like him on the spur of the moment, then he will choose not to start the relationship at all, otherwise it will not be good for you and him.

So, for this type of uncle, you should try to stay by his side as a friend first, and wait until the time is right between you before confessing to him.

If the uncle is single and unmarried, it is possible that the uncle has been hurt in the relationship and is unwilling to accept new feelings. Or maybe the uncle is more fun-loving and only likes to fall in love with others, but is not willing to get married.

If the uncle is in the first case, it means that the wound in his heart has not healed now, and he needs someone by his side to help him forget his previous feelings. Then you might as well learn Qu Xiaoxuan in "Ode to Joy", clarify your love for your uncle, and pursue him straightforwardly.

If the uncle is in the second case, then I think you should stay away from him, because if you don't pay attention, you may be hurt. After all, the probability of getting married because you fall in love with someone in idol dramas is still too small.

I think such girls should have a father-lover complex or a brother-lover plot, of course, there is also that kind of love after being hurt, I want to find an uncle to comfort me, mature men are always more secure than young ones.

One of my children is also a very good friend of mine, we went to school together, did homework together, played together, and we were still together until junior high school. It's just that when I was in the second year of junior high school, my parents asked me to transfer schools, so I could only be obedient and come to school in the county, but we had fewer opportunities to be together, but every time I came home from vacation, we always played together.

This girl's background is a bit unsatisfactory. I heard from my parents that she was picked up by her parents, her biological parents should be southerners, and they came to us at the age of a few months, and her adoptive parents were older than my grandparents, but her parents loved her very much, especially her father, who could be said to treat her as a pearl in their palms. I think that's why she has a father-lover complex.

When I was in college, she suddenly called me ** (she went to work in the south before graduating from junior high school) and told me that she was in love, but she didn't dare to tell her family because the man was 39 years old. I didn't feel like it was supposed to happen in reality, we were only 21 years old at the time, and a man of that age could be a dad. She told me about her love experience:

She went to the south alone, helpless, and it was completely this man who helped her, just like her father, she couldn't do without him.

I was a little overwhelmed after listening to it, how is this possible, how can you have a love affair with a man who is nearly 20 years older than you, you can respect him or even admire him, but this kind of feeling can't be. But she had that feeling, and I advised her to calm down, and she promised me. Half a year later, she called ** again, saying that she broke up with the uncle, although she was crying on the ** end, but I was very relieved, more at ease.

This kind of paternal complex of hers can be seen everywhere, but I don't approve of this kind of relationship. As for how to tease the uncle, I don't feel like I need to tease, a girl who is like a flower stands in front of a middle-aged man, and it is estimated that his whole person is crispy.

In many social life now, we can observe that many girls like to be teased by uncles or take the initiative to tease uncles, and they like uncles who are older than themselves.

Nowadays, girls like older uncles, the main reason is that many girls find that their boyfriends are very immature after being in love many times. Girls are more mature than boys, and girls also hope that their boyfriends can give them some care in the process of falling in love, but boys of the same age are often more naïve. Therefore, many girls like older uncles who can take care of people and girls' emotions.

The uncle is a little more mature.

In love, girls want to be able to rely on each other more, and girls hope that they can have something to rely on. Therefore, when encountering problems in the process of falling in love, girls usually hope that their boyfriends can solve the problems for themselves, but now many boys of the same age often like to have fun, so it is difficult to take care of their girlfriends' moods. The uncle's words may be more thoughtful, and he can take care of the girl's thoughts and emotions better.

If a girl is in love and looking for an uncle, she may have social work experience and when she encounters some problems, the uncle can give some suggestions and experience, so that the girl will avoid detours. At the same time, when dealing with some problems, the uncle can put forward some more reasonable methods from the perspective of an adult, so that the girl has no worries.

Uncle is more able to coax girls to be happy.

Since the uncle has more social experience and works longer hours, the uncle may have more funds and time to surprise his girlfriend. At the same time, the uncle will definitely have experienced a few relationships, and the uncle may learn more during some relationships, so when girls fall in love with their uncles, they don't need to deliberately ask their boyfriends to do this and that, so the uncle will naturally know how to make girls happy.

Because they think that the uncle is very powerful, attractive, has a lot of money, status, influence, and is very good at hurting people, so they like the uncle.

The reason why young girls like to be teased by their uncles is because they feel that their uncles are very mature, and they are particularly spoiled by them, and they have a sense of security.

Because today's girls think that the uncle is very good, and they think that the uncle is very mature and can bring happiness to themselves.

The first reason is that the most primitive needs of men and women coincide.

Just like there are many TV dramas now, there are plots of uncles with successful careers and young beauties falling in love, it can be said that such plots will more or less affect the current young people's view of love, especially some young women will associate Pianpian with some more mature and stable uncles with successful careers, and such a demand is also very easy for these young women to become an uncle.

The second reason is the age of the only child.

Now the only children are the babys of their parents, and they have been pampered since they were young, so in couples of the same age, because of the similarity in temper, there will be some embarrassing scenes of intolerant situations, and it is like this that many young women will feel insecure in love with these peers, so these young women will shift some visual attention to these uncles who will hurt people.

The third reason is the concept of marriage and love in the material age.

Although everyone is talking about money hurts feelings now, it is not uncommon for feelings to lose to material things. Just like in this current society, many men have been saying that women are a very realistic species, and women say that men have no interest, so that women have the concept that it is better to marry well than to do well. So I want to find an uncle to enjoy life.

Young girls will like uncles mainly because the uncle's maturity and thoughtfulness and gentleness are the nirvana to harvest young girls, he has a mature way of doing things and a mature appearance.

Because the uncle is very mature and can take care of himself comprehensively, he can also love himself, and he can also make himself happy, so many young girls like the uncle.

Falling in love is actually a very important course, and finding the right person to accompany you will have a great positive impact on yourself. Nowadays, many people start to fall in love in junior high school and high school, and get married after work, which is also the envy of most people, but there are also people who put their focus on their studies during the study period, and when they find that it is becoming more and more difficult to find a girlfriend after entering the social work, they regret why they did not find a girlfriend in the first place. In fact, it's not that it's hard to find a girlfriend, it's that the environment and mentality in which I live have changed, which leads to such thoughts.

In fact, when we were studying, we were very likely to feel affection for our peers, firstly, because we didn't have anything else to do at that time except studying; Second, during the study period, most of the time is spent in school, and it is easier to cultivate feelings when they get along with each other for a long time. But when it comes to work, the environment of my work state will cause a situation where there are not so many resources around us, and when I grow up, the problems I consider are more complicated, which leads to a lot of opportunities to miss out on us. In fact, it is not more difficult to find a girlfriend after work, on the contrary, the probability of finding a girlfriend after work will be higher in the future.

The first thing to do is to adjust your mentality and take the initiative to reach out to girls, even if there are not too many resources in the surrounding work environment, but resources can be created by yourself. In addition to work, we can cultivate our own hobbies, such as travel and fitness. While cultivating your own interests and hobbies, you are expanding your circle of friends, you will find like-minded friends, and you will make yourself more attractive.

The second is to grasp the opportunity to be confident and bold to pursue their love, many people see that the good girl is always hesitant, unable to make up their minds, and when the opportunity slips away, they suddenly wake up, and then regret why they did not cherish it. Fear of rejection is not only emotionally but also not well done at work. You might as well ask yourself questions from time to time:

Since I like this person and care about her, will I feel comfortable giving her to others, can others really do better than I do to her? If you feel unwilling, put pressure on yourself, and when you can feel your blush and heartbeat, that's when you take the first step.

In fact, everyone's personality cannot be changed, only our habits can be changed. When two people are together, they are the process of running in with each other and adapting to each other, and when they can both accept each other's shortcomings and the shortcomings of each other's character, that is to be together in the true sense.