Can you still be friends after a breakup? Why

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, I always thought that I would, and it was because I knew each other too well that it was possible to become friends.

    Sometimes, it's much better to be a friend than a lover.

    Maybe it's better to get along in a different way. After all, I wanted to let the other party in the first place. Happiness.

    In fact, aside from everything in the past, it is zero.

    Besides, breaking up means that two people are not suitable for being together, but it doesn't mean that they can't be friends.

    I think you might want to be friends with him. Then say what you think.,Two people's affairs.,Two people have to solve it.。。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After the breakup, we were still friends, right? In addition to showing their general's demeanor, they are more eager to be able to love the old and the new and get together.

    Lovers who originally loved each other, in the face of a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons and still want to be a pair of friends after the breakup, wouldn't they bring everything in the past back to their lives? Why bother? Of course, I don't approve of breaking up and becoming enemies and enemies, slandering each other, and wanting to kill each other.

    When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover is excited to bring the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart ......

    Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself? If the life of your former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot ......After all, you used to be lovers in love, and you also used to have a good love life, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?

    In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new lover think in his heart, the thread is broken? The new love must be dissatisfied, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and justification, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successes, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.

    I will never forget, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and rejoicing, you will definitely have a ......Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them? If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship?

    It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away, and welcome a new period of life.

    If you break up, why bother to be friends again?

    Otherwise, how to break up?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    They don't become friends after a breakup because they hurt each other; and not to be strangers, because they have loved one another; Therefore, he became the most familiar stranger

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether couples can be friends after a breakup needs to be decided according to the situation at the time of the breakup. 1.The relationship between the two is stiff 2Peaceful separation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, because when he looks at you, you want to have it again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes. If you can handle your relationship after a breakup.

    Don't burden him or her.

    And don't care about and complain about each other's words.

    Adopt a tolerant attitude towards her.

    I can be friends

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, because being friends means that you have attachment to each other...It's going to be awkward for each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Depending on the personal situation, my former girlfriend has been good friends since we broke up, and some of them may be unhappy when they break up, so I don't think it's necessary.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes. Because they knew each other when they were friends.

    How can't you be friends.

    Can be a normal friend relationship.

    Slowly distancing the relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's best not to be friends, so you can avoid a lot of embarrassment and trouble.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course you can, but after a breakup, you don't become enemies.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Breaking up is almost a necessary journey in the long road of love; But breaking up also requires art, from the moment of breaking up to bravely entering another new relationship, it is an irreplaceable experience in life. "Good gathering and good dispersion" is fate, and "good dispersion and good gathering" is learning. When the relationship ends, how to refine the courage to say goodbye, let go of the painful past, no longer wax torch into ashes, tears begin to dry.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, but it's better not to meet in the future

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No. Because everyone has hurt each other.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hard. It's embarrassing, but it varies from person to person!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    OK. But keep your distance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's hard to be friends again after a breakup. The two of them have been together for a long time, and there are too many sedan chairs in the past, and the beauty and unhappiness of the past will affect the happiness and unhappiness of being friends with each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, the two of them used to play friends and have a fate, you don't have a fate, it is impossible to meet, among billions of people in the world, meet each other, even if the time is very short, they have always loved each other together, lived, everyone has also spent a good time, accompanied by a journey, more or less should still be a little affectionate, it is impossible to break up and break up.

    The breakup of two people may also be caused by various reasons, for example, after getting along for a long time, they find that their personalities are incompatible, they have no common ground, there are many twists in language, it is difficult to reach ideologically, and their living habits are also different.

    If you want to say that you have to be friends, you can't be beaten to death with a stick, dialect, why, people are higher animals, they all have feelings, and nothing can be done too ruthlessly, you have to leave some leeway, if the two people have really loved each other, and there is a true relationship, but for some reason to break up, like this case, it is also necessary to be friends with the consent of the two people, not unilateral, if one party does not agree, it is not okay, of course, it is okay to be willing.

    If the two of them are angry with each other because of the contradiction, they are not satisfied with anyone, and they are also indignant in their hearts, and everyone has no feelings, and there is no trace of remembrance, they have long been dead in their hearts, and they are disheartened, and they are unwilling, they feel that it is not necessary, they will not be friends, and they will not have this meaning, so they will break up, and they will be separated, and it is best not to be friends.

    However, in general, there are also friends in the minority, not friends in the majority, if the two are close to home, a city, there is no big contradiction to break up, bow your head and don't look up, you don't say hello when you meet, there is no need for this, you can still see a greeting, there is no need to make it like a life and death enemy, even if you are in front of you, you don't pretend not to see it.

    It's embarrassing, of course, it's not good, but, my personal point of view still depends on the situation, if the boyfriend and girlfriend are far away from each other's homes, and it won't affect each other's families, everyone feels that there is concern in their hearts, and they are afraid of being uncomfortable if they don't be friends, it's still okay, and there are some, and it can't be one-size-fits-all, all of them are sealed, but it's counterproductive, it depends on the individual's wishes.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1) If you break up peacefully, you can still be friends after the breakup, after all, you don't tear your face, it is recommended to be ordinary friends normally and keep a reasonable distance between friends.

    2) Because of the breakup after the stiffness, it is recommended not to be friends after the breakup, after all, it is not pleasant when you break up, and there is no need to continue to contact.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No, two people used to have such a close relationship, and it is impossible to be friends after breaking up, otherwise it will affect the development of the subsequent relationship between the two people.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can't be friends, since two people have broken up, you shouldn't have any connection, it's a sign of respect for each other, and you should be strangers.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't be friends after breaking up, you can't be a real friend, and it's easy to get out of the pain quickly.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After a breakup, many people can't accept being friends, because they have loved each other, and the discomfort in their hearts when they break up is that they can't accept that the identities of two people suddenly become friends, and it may be difficult to get along in the future.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If two people just choose to break up because they don't get along well, and their attitudes are relatively peaceful when they break up, then of course they can choose to be friends, which may be better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's better not to be friends after the breakup, since it's already broken up, it shouldn't matter.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, it's because two people have had emotional entanglements before, and after two people break up, they will have some resentment towards each other.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    After a breakup, most couples can't be friends, because being friends again after a breakup will remind you of the previous things, which is very uncomfortable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Whether you can be friends after a breakup is mainly determined by what kind of attitude you have towards this relationship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Can two people be friends after a breakup? In fact, just ask yourself, do you think you can still be friends? The breakup itself is a hurtful thing and hurtful, the person who was closest to you before, do you think he will still agree to be friends with you?

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