In love, is it true that whoever falls in love with someone first loses?

<> remember hearing a saying: In love, whoever is serious first loses. This sentence is said that in love, we should not take it too seriously, because if we take it too seriously, we will hurt ourselves completely.

It's like pulling a rubber band, whoever holds on tightly and doesn't let go, the one who hurts the most in the end is the one who doesn't let go.

I think the person who said this must have been hurt by love, otherwise how could he have such a deep feeling. Ordinary people will gradually understand many truths in love only when they are hurt the most. Otherwise, how could there be that sentence:

I'm from here, you should listen to me, yes.

But in love, when pursuing a person you like, do you have to follow this principle, whoever speaks first will lose?

Some people have also said that love has to be said out loud, how will the other party know if you don't say it? In fact, this is the truth, if you like the other person, the other party also likes you, and both people always feel that if they speak first, they will admit defeat. In this way, the two of them have been hiding and no one has spoken, so this relationship will definitely be killed in the cradle by the stubbornness of the two people before it has even begun.

The one who has the courage to eat the first bite of the crab is a warrior, and the one who eats the second bite can only be regarded as a person with courage. So we should be the first to eat crabs, maybe we will get hurt, maybe we will not be fruitful, we will not be able to taste anything. But you have already taken the first step, you are already a warrior, even if it is not successful, there is no result, but at least in the future, in the future, you will not regret saying how I was, what regrets do you have, etc.

If you really love someone, then you must not count winning or losing. Because there is no winning or losing in love, and there is no fairness at all. Love is inherently unfair, for example, you love her, she loves him, and he loves her, and in the end, they all hurt each other in a relationship.

Sometimes love is like a gamble, as long as you are bold, you may succeed, if you are blindly afraid of winning or losing, and care about winning or losing, then you are likely to lose even worse, and you will send a promising relationship into the bottomless pit. And sometimes, love is like a labyrinth, when you stand outside and look at it, it feels very simple, just enter through the entrance, and you can come out through the exit with a few turns. But when you go in, you realize that this so-called labyrinth is actually specially designed for yourself, and those seemingly simple paths are just obstacles.

No one wins or loses, and if you love someone, you should take the initiative to let the other person know. If you don't say it, just blindly hide it in your heart, then who will know who you love and who you like. Maybe you only find out that the other person loves you after you say it, but if that's the case, it only means that you are a very lucky person.

We must not care about winning or losing, let alone asking for returns. Love is not a business, let alone a conversion of human transactions, it is an essential life experience in our lives. Its taste may be sweet, it may be bitter, it may be mixed, but please believe that what belongs to you is not waiting for it, but what you have worked hard to come over.

Of course not, in love, it's not who opens up first who loses, only who cares who loves a little more, there is no winning or losing, as long as two people can get more happiness in love, then they are winners.

Of course, whoever speaks first in love will lose, if one party is very active, it means that you are humble in love and have bowed your head, there is no such initiative, it is a very sad thing.

I don't think this is necessarily, if the other party also loves you, but he is ashamed to speak, then if you open your mouth first, it doesn't mean that you say it, because the two of you tacitly love each other, so there is no question of winning or losing.

I don't think that's the case, there is actually no winning or losing in love, it can only be said that you are tempted first, but this is not lost.

When you fall in love with someone, it is not that whoever opens your mouth first will lose, but who opens your mouth first and who loves whom more. I'm afraid that if I don't speak, the other party doesn't know my mind, and I'm afraid that if I miss it, I won't be able to come back.

I don't think so, love doesn't matter who speaks first, you have to be brave to confess when you meet someone you like, and it's a pity to miss it.

Love should not be won or lost, since you like this person, you have to be responsible for your liking, no matter what the result is, you have to work hard to love.

No, there is also the person who is being pursued who loves him more deeply, just like Liang Jingru's song, slow and cold.

Actually, I don't think so, but the person who loves the other side more in the relationship loses.

I think so too, because I think that the person who falls in love first has to put in a lot of effort.

I think so, generally speaking, the person who falls in love first will be more humble, and in many ways will not be dominant.

There is no winning or losing in love, it is just the person who loves firstThe feelings of giving are more and deeperis vulnerable

1.Feelings for whomWhoever is emotionally moved first is hurt firstFinish.

Everyone is deeply sincere when they meet a relationship, and this person can't tolerate a little sand emotionally; Of course, I also care about the other party, and I don't want the other party to be at ease with me, and I also hope that the other party can always put themselves first; On the contrary, if the other party only thinks that he is an ordinary friend, it is easy to feel sad, that is, what others say is the first to lose first, and I personally think that there is no such thing as winning or losing in the relationship, but the other party does not love you enough!

2.Anyone in a relationshipIt's fair

In the emotional world, they are all equal, and they don't have to say which one pays more to love each other more, which can only be said to be too demanding, not really loved, on the contrary, only if you really love each other, you will correspondingly try your best to be good to each other, which means that love is mutual; Instead of unilaterally giving, but only unilaterally giving is not love at all, just asking, just using love as an excuse! And the party who pays more is also the most vulnerable party, and what you get is not love, it's just perfunctory by others!

3.Affection is only two peopleOnly by paying sincerely can you reap love

We all know that love is two-way, not a person can love things, only two people are emotional to have love, on the contrary, a person to pay is not love. It may be moved or repaid for the gratitude, of course, it is impossible to become love, we all know that only when we are emotional can we have that heart-pounding feeling! I hope to meet this kind of enviable feelings, which is really rare but not sought!

It's what everyone wants to have, after all, it's really hard to get.

In this colorful world, it really makes us want to have sincere feelings, after all, it is not easy to be with each other forever, or need a chance, and we must treat it with sincerity if we can meet! That's hard to find! I hope the public can meet it!

Don't treat love as a game, that life will not treat you sincerely, it will not make you feel hurt, we must be sincere to everyone and everything we meet on the road of life, so that there will be a happy ending!

This sentence makes sense, because after you move your feelings first, you will let yourself devote yourself wholeheartedly, and you will give up your principles because of this relationship, so you will make the other party not cherish it, so it proves that you have lost.

It makes a lot of sense, because in a relationship you love each other very much, then you will give a lot of affection, and you will also put a lot of energy, and once you fail, you will be hurt a lot.

If you love someone first and get along with this person, even if you get the love of this person, the proportion of love may still be higher than that of the other person! Losing is actually losing in the hard work of love and the shortcomings of the other party, maybe it will not change this problem in ten years, once the other party has a view of breaking up, he will lose and can't extricate himself! In fact, this is also a kind of person who lives with the other party as the center, looking at life objectively and correctly in an all-round way, only love is definitely not enough, but losing love can also be repeated, then there is no winning or losing!

Most of the love in the encounter between men and women is based on fate, whether it is a man or a woman who loves first, and express the love to each other in words. Generally, it is better to think twice in your mind and express yourself and the other party before expressing it. And also from the words of acquaintance.

Peek into how the other party sees himself, and the degree of acquiescence to himself, only to send a voice of love to the other party, the reason why the voice speaks, is to grasp this kind of acquiescence of both parties.

Judging from the law of love between men and women, most of them are boys who take the initiative to speak first, and everyone who has come over has experience in this regard. Before falling in love, there must always be a person who makes the first voice of love, and the person who loves first loses, the probability is very small, the fact is almost 100% successful, from their own experience and the experience of the people who have come to prove that the person who loves first loses neither theory nor basis, so this sentence can not stand. Sometimes a little detail of a boy will be infinitely magnified by a girl, so as to come to the conclusion that "he doesn't love me", the result of the calculation is to really lose him, if you can calm down and understand the other person's feelings, when you can present such a comfortable state.

Weaken the sense of need and make your days fuller, even more radiant than before, and know how to enjoy life better, you will never be a loser in love. It is very important to be a door-to-door, the disparity in status cannot last long, people should not be ambitious, daydreaming, poetry and painting are mostly seen in ** stories, and love in today's society is very realistic. Money RV status is not ancient, there are too many conditions attached to love, there is no simple, kind, innocent and romantic love, if you love first, it is not correct, the key experience is not to love each other, unbalanced love is beautiful for money, high power for money.

It's true, the first person to fall in love with is very hard, willing to give willingly for the other party, but may not get a response.

It's true. Only the person who falls in love with the other party first will definitely lose, because such people are very soft-hearted and can easily be hurt by the other party.

It's true that the person who falls in love first often gives the most and ends up hurting the most.

Yes. Tell the other person that he loves him very much, and the other person will not care about him very much, feel that he is inferior to him, and then he will hurt himself unscrupulously, and even break up with him at any time.

Not necessarily, it depends. There are two sides to things, and time will tell you everything.

Whoever loves me I love is a romantic view, but in fact there are some problems with it.

I think that when it comes to love, we need to be more rational and mature, rather than simply blindly following our feelings.

Clause. 1. Whoever loves me and I love whoever I love can easily lead to emotional instability.

Love is a very complex relationship, and it takes time and effort to build. If we blindly pursue the love of others without considering our own feelings and needs, then we can easily fall into emotional fluctuations and instability.

When we meet someone more attractive or face difficulties, we may easily let go of existing relationships and hurt ourselves and others.

Clause. Second, whoever loves me, I will love whose emotional outlook can easily lead to dependence and imbalance between the two parties.

If we are completely dependent on the love of the other person to sustain our emotions and happiness, then we may lose ourselves. This can cause us to become very needy and immature in the relationship, while the other person takes on too much responsibility and pressure.

This unbalanced relationship is not conducive to our emotional well-being and long-term development.

Clause. 3. Whoever loves me and I love whoever I love can easily lead us to ignore our own values and needs.

If we only pursue the love of others without paying attention to our own inner world and values, then we may lose our individuality and independence. We should learn to maintain ourselves, pay attention to our own needs and desires, and establish an equal and healthy pattern of interaction in our relationships.

In short, the emotional view of whoever loves me and I love whoever is in vain sounds romantic, but there are actually a lot of problems. We need to look at love more rationally and maturely, pay attention to our own needs and values, and build a healthy and equal relationship.

In fact, it is also like this, if you love this person earlier and more deeply, then it is easy for you to let yourself get lost in this relationship.

Not necessarily. Because I fell in love with my wife first, and I caught up with it, and after I got married, I lived a very happy life, so I don't think it's necessarily like this.

Yes and no, if you fall in love with someone else first, you will naturally be more willing to pay for that person, but this does not mean that you lose, it is just that you are happy. But after that person is with you, they slowly get to know you, and you become like each other, then it's different, and it doesn't matter if you win or lose, after falling in love, it's a matter of two people, and the relationship is equal.