How to be a parent who likes a child whose parents like?

It's good to be obedient and study hard.

I believe that in the process of educating children, the starting point of every parent is love, and they are all love-centered to educate their children, and parents will love their children very much. But not every child especially loves their parents, because love is mutual, but it is natural for parents to love their children, but if they want their children to fall in love with their parents, parents have to make a lot of efforts to win their children's love. So what kind of parents do children like?

I'm going to talk to you about it today.

In normal life, everyone likes to be optimistic and cheerful, and children are no exception. In the process of growing up, children especially hope that their parents can be positive, optimistic and cheerful when they get along with their parents. Every life is particularly yearning for sunshine and warmth, do not like to stay in a dark corner, do not like to be negative, so parents must keep their spirits and be positive and optimistic when educating their children, so as to bring their children to an optimistic and cheerful direction, to be a role model for children, and to be able to truly gain the love of children.

Good-looking skins are the same, but some souls are difficult to find, in daily life, when parents educate their children, children also especially hope that parents can become interesting and fun. In daily life, everyone has their own pressure, parents have to face the pressure of work, children have to face the pressure of learning, at this time, if parents can be humorous and interesting, they can easily resolve the pressure of the family and improve the atmosphere of the family. Parents' humor and fun can also be transmitted to children, so that children become positive and optimistic people, so everyone will like interesting people very much.

Any kind of relationship is based on trust, in the relationship between parents and children, parents must trust their children and understand their children in order to be able to like their parents. Parents can give their children the space to develop freely and let them develop freely, so that children can be happy and will not want to get rid of their parents.

1. The family is warm and harmonious, and parents respect and love each other. 2. Parents know how to empathize and understand their children from their perspective. 3. Parents can objectively evaluate their children, look at them comprehensively, and do not take grades as the only criterion for evaluating their children.

4. Parents are emotionally stable, do not accuse and scold their children, do not yell and yell, and do not complain and nag. 5. Parents are consistent with their words and deeds, not saying one thing and doing another. 6. Listen carefully to children's ideas, respect children's wishes, and take children's problems seriously.

7. Allow children to have their own interests and hobbies, and do not force children to learn this and that. 8. Don't compare your children with others. 9. Be trustworthy with your children and do what you say.

10. Encourage and praise your child's strengths and strengths. 11. Expose less shortcomings, do not turn over old accounts, and do not magnify children's shortcomings.

Children should like the kind of parents who can understand them, then play with them, and give them a sense of security. Because all children want to be friends with their parents, and then they also want their parents to understand them more.

Parents who like positive energy will give their children a particularly good solution and method when they encounter any problems in life, and will not often lose their temper with their children.

Hello Kiss: For example, what does a good child look like in the eyes of parents? During the student period, 1 The cost of living expenses should be less, rolling songs, or you can earn living expenses without spending your own part-time work (from another point of view, it is also very good, exercise your independent ability) 2. Academic performance is the first (you can imagine that you are the first in the country this year, after all, the better your academic performance, the better you are exposed to, and your parents have greater expectations) 3. Don't watch TV series, don't play computers, don't play mobile phones, don't read extracurricular books, and still have a lot of knowledge and flexible transformation ability in your head4 Go home and have a job in your eyes, Generally speaking, it is to get up and fold the quilt, cook, wash dishes, wash clothes, clean and mop the floor, and buy a vegetable by the way (remember that it is the whole family, you can't just take care of yourself) 5, take a profession that they feel is stable and more developmental, and enter the society to engage in this industry until the end of life (generally civil servants, teachers, hospitals, this kind of iron rice bowl) into the society1 has a mu of preparation, shouts to make money, and is stable and serious, with a certain amount of savings2, it is best to go home often to see your parents, By the way, they will be very relieved to help them cook a meal3 Help the family when necessary, in general, you don't have to worry about your parents, they hope that you can do what you do.

In a word: face. It's perfectly fine to make them proud and brag to your neighbors.

The communication between Chang and the child is actually a collision of two lives. It should be said that the content produced by the collision is infinitely rich, and the height it reaches is endless. Every parent should not be satisfied with the initial results in communicating with their children, but should learn the art of education, constantly improve the level of communication, and make the parent-child relationship reach a higher level.

1. Be attentive to the child, in the process of getting along with the child, the child can feel whether you treat her with care, so be careful in the process of getting along.

2. Accompany the child to make games, and the person who is willing to accompany the child to play the game can enter the child's heart as quickly as possible.

3. Be strict with your child but make it clear to your child, so that your child can feel your love for her, and let her behave properly.

4. Spend more time with your children, you must be willing to spend money on your children, but you must be willing to spend time on your children, the more time you spend on your children, the closer your children will be to you.

5. Pay attention to the changes of the child during the growth period, so that you can be a good leader on the road of the child, and can help the child grow up more healthily.

6. Don't deceive children, don't deceive children in front of children, children are honest next to the sparrows, once you find that someone is cheating, you will be unhappy.

I think that Hulan can win the championship of the fifth season is a very strong proof and deserved.

This just shows that as long as we work hard, learn more from professional teachers, and strive to improve our comprehensive quality ability and professional knowledge, we will be able to make ourselves excellent talents, learn from teachers, and pay attention to respectful communication methods.

1.Learn to understand others more.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who does not know well, it is best to maintain respect and appropriate communication of daily topics.

2.Be appropriately silent and respectful.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to keep silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express it, we should learn to listen seriously, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about positive topics that the other person is interested in.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Learn to listen humbly and carefully.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Learn to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when with others in the feast, others express opinions if we can properly express praise, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a sense of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the exchange of happiness and smooth.