Why people are becoming more and more indifferent now

The rapid development of the Internet, mobile phones and various high-tech devices has made people more immersed in the unreal world, and people can be very talkative on the Internet, but they can not say a word when they are face-to-face. A group of people can sit together without saying a word, everyone holds a mobile phone and keeps scrolling Weibo or all kinds of things, people care too much about fiction, and ignore the reality in front of them, choose to touch the glowing machine, and can't see the people around them, and say a few words to the people around them.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard. Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because, life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

I sincerely wish you happiness and joy every day! ~

Because life is good, people's greed is getting more and more, so for their own greed, there are many things that deceive people, and in order not to cause trouble, they feel that they sit back and ignore it.

Because now is a cannibalistic society.

I also thought that maybe it was the environment that changed everything.

That's the reality. In fact, it is enough to have two or three dead friends alive.

Here are some of the reasons that can cause you to become more and more apathetic

1.Stress of a busy life: If you have a busy life, it can cause you to become apathetic due to not having the time and energy to pay attention to other people's feelings.

2.Bad emotions: If you suppress your emotions, it can cause you to become indifferent to the people around you because you can't connect emotionally with them.

3.Relationship problems: If you've ever been hurt, it can cause you to distrust others and become apathetic.

4.Social and cultural influences: Certain social and cultural factors can cause a person to become apathetic, such as in some cultures, where the manifestation of emotions is seen as a weakness.

5.Lack of self-awareness: If you don't know why you've become apathetic, you may need to gain a deeper understanding of your emotions and motivations.

The above are some of the reasons that may cause you to become more and more apathetic, if you feel that you are becoming more and more apathetic, it is advisable to communicate and consult with relatives, friends or professionals.

Becoming more and more apathetic can be caused by a variety of factors, and here are some common ones:

Chronic stress and anxiety: When faced with long-term work, study or life pressure, people may tend to close themselves off to protect themselves from external distractions.

Disappointment and frustration: When an individual encounters disappointment and frustration, they may feel frustrated and helpless, leading to feelings of apathy and detachment.

Social Disorders: Due to personality, experience, environment, etc., some people may have social disorders, that is, they are not good at communicating and interacting with others, manifesting as apathy and loneliness.

Negative emotions and mental health issues: Some negative emotions, such as depression, anxiety, anger, etc., as well as certain mental health issues, such as personality disorders, psychological trauma, etc., can cause individuals to become apathetic and detached.

People become apathetic because they are affected by various external and internal factors, and here are some of the reasons that can cause people to become apathetic:

1.Frequent frustration and injury: When a person suffers from frequent blows, delays, hunger, and injuries, they may become apathetic and numb to prevent themselves from being hurt again.

2.Social isolation and loneliness: Not having enough social support and interpersonal interaction can cause a person to become apathetic. Prolonged loneliness can make people feel lonely mentally, which makes it more difficult for a person to communicate and express emotions with others.

3.Life stress: Stress** Stress** due to work, school, or family problems can cause a person's emotions to become nervous and anxious, in which case they may become apathetic and distant to avoid emotional stress.

4.Information Overload: In modern society, we are constantly confronted with a large amount of information, especially negative news and events. These messages can create feelings of disappointment, hopelessness, and helplessness, which can lead people to become apathetic and indifferent.

5.Socio-cultural factors: Certain socio-cultural factors may have an impact on a person's behavior, such as the atmosphere in modern society that values competition and success, may prompt a person to become independent and self-protective, leading to apathy.

In the process of growing up, I will gradually become separated from some friends, which is too common around us, because of many factors, and there are many last resorts.

1) Time and experience lead to the difference between things and people.

The good memories of the past are created by both friends, and you and I at that time will always have things that we did not experience together. These experiences bring different kinds of growth, just like a big tree gives birth to branches and shoots in different directions. After that, you are estranged because the accumulation of different experiences over time has led to different or even contradictory views on the same issue.

2) Reality – the economic base determines the superstructure.

The expenses at school may not be frequent except for books or entertainment, and the family will pay for it at that time, and I don't feel much difference. As the age increases, the demand increases, and the heart also has requirements for the quality of consumption, and in the process of independence, I have to accommodate the growing differences in consumption views between friends and friends. Therefore, talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money

3) The cost of communication becomes higher.

Everyone around me knows my current situation, so there's no need to post on Moments. When friends live in different circumstances, it takes a lot of time and energy to communicate with each other, and when one party is unwilling to do so, or feels that it is not worth it, it means estrangement.

Finally, we must also understand that life is destined to be a constant separation and encounter, and when we step into a forest that is becoming more and more sparsely populated, our lives are destined to be alienated from our former friends. But there will be the next friend of yours, who will walk in the same pace as you on the other side of the world when you step into the forest. The new friend who is destined to meet you will come to you.

Nowadays, people are becoming more and more indifferent, because those who have done good deeds have not received due honor, but have been pitted very depressed, so more and more people have chosen to be silent, and when someone needs to see unevenness on the road, everyone has become a silent lamb. One day, I finally encountered such a thing, of course, not because I was brave, but because I did good deeds that made people unhappy, and let me see what Mr. Dongguo and the wolf, and what the farmer and the snake are.

Here's the thing, I'm a car family, I usually drive when I go to work, because there is a colleague is on the way, so he takes my car home every day, at the beginning he was always very embarrassed, and especially thanked me, but over time it became a habit, and the car was particularly casual, and then there was no need to say thank you, I even became his full-time driver, one day I had other things and didn't wait for him to go directly, and when I got home, I received his ** , expressed very dissatisfaction, even asked me why I didn't drive him when I went home, I said I had something to do and left first, he complained that I didn't tell him in advance, is my own car I want to go and ask you for leave? It's really hilarious.

It can be seen that it is indeed difficult to be a good person, you are a good person 10,000 times, as long as one day you are not as good as his mind, you will become a bad person, if you are a bad person every day, one day you are a good person, that person will be grateful to Dade for remembering your goodness.

Because as people get older, people live more and more transparently, and they like to be quiet more and more, and it is actually normal to like to be alone.

One of the main reasons is first of all to look down on the sophistication of human feelings, and the exchanges between people are important in heart-to-heart, but after experiencing the warmth and coldness of human feelings, I found that sincerity is the most rare. Too many people are just superficial friends, and it seems that they have a very good relationship with you, but once interests are involved, the relationship will immediately fall apart, and people's hearts are far from being as pure as we see. When you were young, you felt that "many friends rushed to accompany the first friend in many ways", in fact, at this time, each other was just a kind of chaotic spring friendship, and it was not until middle age that you found that you could really help you in trouble, not as much as you thought.

The second is to think deeply and be more philosophical. The development of intelligence to the best state is one of the main characteristics of psychological maturity in middle-aged people. Intelligence is a kind of ability of people to understand and use the surrounding environment, which includes meticulous logical thinking and all-round ability to do things.

A person's intellectual maturity is usually reflected in the three aspects of observation, understanding, and thinking. When people reach middle age, they are generally able to observe and understand the nature of objective things and their mutual relationships more carefully, so that they can see the various connections in the previous thousands of links better than young people, so as to find out the fundamental way to solve problems.