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Too dependent on one person, unless you know that they are very, very, very (I use 3 very) like you. If not, don't rely too much on him, if I'm not mistaken, you're a girl. If you rely too much on him, I'll be annoyed as a boy.
It's okay to do it once or twice, but it's annoying if it's too many times. Take a step back and say that even if he is not annoyed, after he leaves you one day, your heart will seem to be emptied, and you may even beg him to change his mind, and both parties should give each other a little space, which is too greasy and crooked, but it is counterproductive. In fact, as long as everyone has each other in their hearts, the expression of action is not so important, maybe as long as you look at each other, he can feel that you love him.
It's going to be sweet in your heart, and I advise you not to rely on it too much.
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If you are too dependent on one person, you must get used to the fact that when that person leaves, you can live alone, go shopping alone, go grocery shopping alone, otherwise when you are alone, you will get depression, and you will feel that the whole world has abandoned him. So be sure not to rely too much on one person.
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Let's change it. No one will make you dependent on it for a lifetime! If he leaves one day, you will be miserable! Must learn to be independent! Take your time!
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Hello, if you have become aware of the problem of being too dependent on the other person emotionally, then the advice is to get rid of this dependence little by little. Whether it's a loved one, a friend, or a loved one, keeping a little distance will make your love life more harmonious. In real life, most people are like this, one party is too dependent, and the other party may not be able to bear this dependence, and the outcome can be imagined.
At this time, we must find a way to draw a little distance and give each other a space to breathe. For the dependent, you can choose a person to sit down and think about the root of this overdependence, what causes this dependence to occur. Use this to ask yourself:
Can I control myself? Can I get rid of this over-dependent behavior? In many cases, thinking is a kind of communication with the self itself, a question about oneself, and once the answer is found, the problem will be solved!
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You have to remember that relying on one person means not wanting to be separated from him, is it that sure of yourself? In order not to make yourself sad, you must rely on yourself, rely on yourself, you can't easily have such thoughts, people who are married, then naturally have to rely on each other, we can't be emotional about everything!
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Learn to be independent in all aspects of yourself.
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I used to be bai, and I was constantly dependent on others. I have a friend who studies very well, and zhi I often think about in class.
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Learn to get rid of this feeling slowly, after all, life is full of setbacks, you have to learn to be strong!
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Let yourself learn to be independent Time is the best medical treatment
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Dependence on bai is a relatively common mental phenomenon in daily life, and its main characteristic is self-reliance.
DAO, self-confidence, immature version of autonomy, hesitation in case of problems, lack of self-confidence, difficulty in making their own plans or doing their own things alone, often need the help and guidance of others, and even need others to make decisions or point out directions for themselves. The main manifestation of dependency psychology is: for things that can be done or learned through hard work, but do not work hard but ask for help, once you leave the help of others, you often feel at a loss.
People who rely on ideas do not work hard, are unwilling to think independently, and are accustomed to accepting ready-made opinions and opinions. Such people lack the ability to take care of themselves and self-governing in life, and often do not flawless themselves, let alone help others. There are many things that others can do, and they can definitely do it themselves.
The key lies in being able to understand oneself fully, accurately, and objectively. If a person can correctly understand himself and accept himself happily, he will not be dependent on others, and everyone has advantages and disadvantages. Establish the courage to act, self-confidence is the affirmation of one's own previous ability, and it is a good psychological quality in the process of pursuing career success.
In life, you must build up courage, restore self-confidence, and do what you can do by yourself. Learn to do what you haven't done before. Everyone needs help from others.
It is necessary to correct the habits that we usually develop, improve our hands-on ability, learn more from people who are independent, and do not rely on others for everything.
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Whatever the situation may be
You have to give your heart a space to breathe
Be good to you and to him.
Even if he wants you to rely on him, don't rely too much on him if he can't love you one day? How are you going to go down? Looking for another person to rely on? And then a vicious circle?
Kids, we need to be strong
You can be spoiled by him, you can be attached to him.
But don't rely on it too much, in that way, you will all feel tired Of course, it is not excluded that your boyfriend just likes to be relied on, and he wants to have a person who relies on him by his side all his life I don't know the specific situation lz control it yourself
However, to live a lifetime, you have to be worthy of what kind of person you want to become? What kind of life do you live? Sometimes it's time to think about :
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In life, or in contact with friends, or in emotional life, sometimes too dependent on others, or even too dependent on parents in family life, these situations can happen.
First of all, when a person is too dependent on another person, this is the time to examine yourself and find your own value. Because only after finding one's own value and pursuing goals, can one not rely too much on others, and then realize self-worth through one's own efforts.
Second, we must recognize the reality, because a person cannot always rely on another person, and the other party will have their own goals and pursuits, it is very likely that two people will part ways in the near future, if you can be aware of such changes and development, you can also make a more long-term plan.
Third, we must find our own strengths and advantages, and only when we can face others, we can master our own excellence or superiority, so that we can give full play to our maximum energy. Then you can also improve your self-confidence and find your self-worth to survive.
Finally, you should also recognize the other person's personality, as well as the other party's plan for the future, as well as the other party's purpose of taking care of you, or a reason why he is good with you. Only when you recognize the essence of things can you change in him and feel your place in his mind.
A person, especially in a relationship, should not rely too much on others, and must have the ability to be self-reliant and self-reliant, only in this way can he be truly valued by others. It can also maintain the balance of this relationship for a long time, and can bring certain value and benefits to others.
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Now that you are aware of this problem, try to think and do things independently.
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Hello! Please describe the problem in detail!
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In relationships, being overly dependent on one person can make your relationship go wrong. You have to believe that no matter how good your relationship is, once you are overly dependent on someone, it will cause pressure and burden on him, and over time, he will become bored with you.
Your dependence will cause one of them to lose his freedom, and he will become like a servant circling around you all day long. Think about it from another perspective, if there is someone who depends on you all day long, and you need to worry about everything, will you feel tired?
In short, no matter how good a relationship is, you must learn to stop in moderation and not rely too much on one person. Only when you are independent can you become the best version of yourself, don't hope that someone can always tolerate your dependence and take care of your willfulness.
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When you are overly dependent on a person, this consequence is really bad, because people still have to be independent in life, if you are really over-dependent on a person, this time will largely limit your own independent ability, will make you slowly become a giant baby, for your own growth is very bad.
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In fact, over-reliance on a person is really a very bad behavior habit, because then you really don't have some independent judgment ability, and you can't solve some difficulties on your own, and no matter what you encounter, you will think about whether others will help you, rather than thinking about how you want to solve it alone.
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Because when you are overly dependent on a person, you will become a situation where you have some self-loss, and when you talk about over-dependence on a person, that person may also feel tired of himself, so at this time it is easy to say that the relationship between the two of you has changed, as long as there is a change, he will leave you, so if you are overly dependent on a person, you should always be ready for him to leave, it will bring yourself sadness, painful blows.
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Then you will gradually lose yourself and become very thoughtless. Especially for people in a relationship, if one of them is particularly dependent on the other, it may become more humble and will become a source of gain and loss. I'm very afraid that the other party will leave me, so I keep accommodating the other party.
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Over-reliance on people can have all sorts of consequences, the most important of which is that you will not be able to do things on your own well in the future. Every time you are alone, you will always unconsciously think of the person you want to trust. This practice is actually not particularly good for your personal future life, and it is recommended that you try to correct it.
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If you are overly dependent on a person, this is a very bad habit, over-dependence on a person usually does not have some ability to make independent choices, and will not exercise your self-reliant character, so when you encounter some difficulties, a person will become very cowardly, then these are the results you should have after over-dependence on a person.
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Being overly dependent on someone will create your dependence on him, and if he is not there, you may not be able to do something, or you will feel particularly lonely. So try to be independent and don't rely on other people, because once other people do something on your own, you will be very inexperienced.
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Being overly dependent on one person will make you lose the ability to live, and when you depend on others for everything, you will find that you don't have the ability to deal with whatever you are facing. After a long time, when that person leaves you, you will be very miserable, and you will not be able to take care of yourself at all.
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Over-reliance on one person will. Very bad, because if he. If you're not there, you won't be able to do anything.
It will be very difficult for you to do things, and we must exercise our ability to think independently and do things independently in our daily life, so that we can survive in this society.
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It will make you particularly insecure, because when you are overly dependent on a person, you are easy to build your whole and security on others, if that person is bored with your dependence, then everything you pay will be nothing, and the so-called sense of security is also.
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Life has taught us not to rely too much on one person! I don't know when, that person leaves, you will lose your support, you will be unbearable, it will disrupt your life, it will break your rhythm, and it will hurt you greatly.
People are greedy and greedy, no one can guarantee the growth of selfish desires, and suddenly leave, lose dependence, you suddenly, you will not find the courage to start again, and there is no way to make yourself strong and independent soon.
If you rely too much on a person, after a long time, you will become his dependence, without his existence, you will have no sense of security, and without his company, you will lose your backer, whether it is economic or spiritual. Dependence will make people vulnerable, have no assertiveness in doing things, and have no joy in life. So don't be a pulp-free boat yourself, just go with the flow.
People must have an independent character and the ability to stand on their own feet. Don't choose comfort, don't lose the opportunity to work hard, you need to be hard to strike iron, and you need to buy your own clothes for life.
If you like one person, you need seven points, and leave three points for self-improvement. Rely on one person, should be three points, leaving seven points to break the wind and waves. To like is not to possess, and to rely is not to give in. How comfortable it is when you are dependent, and how sad it is when you lose it!
The people now, the things now, and the love that are now are games. Don't rely on anyone, the more you depend, the more disappointed you are, and the longer you rely on you, the longer you suffer. In reality, many people are unreliable, and even their own shadows will leave in the dark.
The best dependence is self-reliance, which is the best sense of security in a person's life!
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Too dependent, you will be inseparable from him, you will make yourself like a child, many times, because you are too dependent on him, so your temper will also become bad, in short, too dependent on the bad Oh, if you don't do it, you will be hurt in the future, but dependence is also a kind of happiness.
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Dependence doesn't necessarily turn into love, but it is likely to turn into love! Because too much dependence can make you feel like he has become a part of your life! If the time comes when you can't leave! And he had to leave, only to find out that he was in love with him, and I don't know if it was too late.
Love is dependent on a higher level, falling in love with someone is often very dependent on him, but relying on a person does not necessarily fall in love with him. Falling in love with someone you will hope that he will be happy, and relying on someone you will hope that you will be happy Falling in love with someone you will find that you can't do without him, and relying on someone you will find that you can do without him Falling in love with someone you will want to give a little more, and relying on someone you will want him to give a little more When you fall in love with someone you will not take the initiative to message him because you are afraid of disturbing him, and relying on someone you will take the initiative to message him because you don't consider his thoughts When you fall in love with someone you will look at him silently, Dependence on someone, you will often harass him, maybe these are the differences between love and dependence, it's just my personal opinion.
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In love, there is no fairness, it is impossible to pay as much as you gain, true love for a person may not have results, but if you don't really love, there will definitely be no good results, it cares how you measure whether it is worth it or not, and it is not necessary to look at the world too gloomy for a setback, there must be gains, you have lost a woman who once deceived you, but you have learned a lesson in your life, and there are many good girls, who are not necessarily smart in general. Wish.