I m embarrassed to show my love for him in front of outsiders! What to do?

This is your idea, not a dream, do you have what it takes to be with an American goddess.

Dreams are reversed, so it's impossible for you to fall in love with an American girl, but you can't rule out Russian girls or Japanese girls or Kenyan girls. Some emotional things are settled with encounters, take one step at a time, don't think too much.

It's just a dream, don't take it seriously. But this dream is quite happy.

My boyfriend is also American.

We've been together for more than two years, and we've broken up for many reasons.

In my opinion, Americans will not pursue a girl like Chinese men, they believe more in a feeling, maybe he has feelings for you, and then take the initiative to express his position, waiting for the future to get along slowly. However, I advise you from the experience of the previous car: no matter what kind of love will have faded traces, two people together have a lot of cultural differences, unless you are just playing with the mentality, I was the same at the time, but as long as it is a person, after getting along for a long time, the relationship will be deep, and you will definitely consider the future at this time.

So imagine if you have a future? How feasible is the future? Suppose you are now at the point where you are talking about marriage, what should you plan for your future life?

Of course, I also said that if it's just a playful mentality, two people with completely different cultures will learn a lot together, and you will find that the quality of Americans is really higher than that of our countrymen, if you can meet a good person. But if you have a mysterious, high expectation (maybe he'll stay in China for me) or something, then I advise you not to dream, basically no American wants to let go of his country, I've lived in the United States for a while, and it would be nice if you could immigrate with him. But you have to look at his financial conditions.

If he just teaches and finds a job in China, then it won't be a big deal.

I think you can ask him directly why.

He was surprised because it is very open in the United States, and sex life generally has a concept of love or something very early, which varies from person to person, you can ask it tentatively, and it is not too much to ask this kind of question between friends, and it can also solve your confusion.

The most important thing is your own feelings, if you like him, chase him. It's a competitive society. Otherwise, it may be too late by the time you figure it out!

We see in film and television works that Americans' attitude towards love is very direct and frank, but how many people can do it very freely in real life? I'm afraid that the parties have the most right to speak. People have very different personalities, different living environments and experiences, and different natural values and views of love.

Love knows no borders, and Americans are also ordinary people, and the performance of love is not much different from us, but the way and mind will be more novel.

You can't stand it,,, ... Let's think about Asians... They are all like donkeys ... You can't stand it.

People are different Not necessarily foreigners are joking about their feelings, maybe they also like you.

Americans are like that, there is nothing to like or dislike.

It should be said that both parties are very honest in their relationship and do not think about money too seriously. Therefore, feelings are naturally expressed.

Not impulsive, it's just that we Chinese are too conservative.

Most foreigners are like this, and they don't want to miss it.

Then pay more attention to the way the Americans are.

Also, it is possible to talk to each other and ask to get to know each other.

A person does not represent all people of this nationality, it's not that they don't pay attention to it, it's just that they are very open to feelings, they see more than China, they know more, as for the age of boys, ideological problems,

Why don't you pay attention to it, Americans are also people, it's just that some foreigners are a little more open...

Have you ever heard of a 13 year old boy being a dad? And he also said that he should study hard to raise children.

Hehe. Actually, there are many reasons for this.

In two broad ways.

1.The United States opened up earlier than China.

2.China opened up later than the United States.

It seems to be the same reason.

In the process of opening up to the outside world, we have not only led the progress of economy, science, and politics, but more importantly, the progress of ideology.

Perhaps Americans' progress in love is not necessarily progress. It may be called freedom, but it's because of a change in thinking.

But China.

So people will feel disgusted when they look at this.

And they feel that it is normal for them to have an extramarital relationship.

This is a matter of his personality. People who grew up in the U.S. are more like Americans. But even Americans have different personalities.

I don't know what language he uses to confess to you. There may also be some differences between you because of the language understanding. But it's about making friends with you.

But Westerners don't mean they have to get married if they're in love. Love is love. At a certain point, they will get married.

It's not the kind of one-two-three love that Chinese are moving towards marriage. You can get along as good friends first. Falling in love is a natural progression.

If you feel it slowly, you will fall in love. You don't need to be in a hurry about this. If you want to know what he really thinks.

You can ask him directly. I want to associate with you or be friends. He feels more Asian, more shy.

You're pretty straightforward. In fact, it is not impossible to ask directly.