My classmate borrowed 50 quick money, what should I do if I am embarrassed to look for him?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can indirectly remind him on appropriate occasions with words or actions, if you plan to pay you back, he understands, if he still doesn't understand, then you forget it, just contribute, and pay attention next time, after all, whether it's iron or not, it's for 50 yuan to make a fuss, it shouldn't be!! One more friend, one less enemy, in this society, leave some way back!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've had this happen before, and more than once, the best solution: text him on his mobile phone or ask him for it indirectly. If this doesn't work, you can only find a chance to ask him directly.

    There's no way, now some friends are embarrassed to borrow money, and if you want to wait for him to consciously change money, then you just wait, the longer you wait. Some of them don't even ask him, but he won't pay you back. When you want the money back, try not to lend money to others, unless you are a particularly strong friend.

    There are two sentences, one: brothers, settle accounts. Two:

    To die is to save face and to suffer sin. It's not easy to do, but it's much better if you experience it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You just say directly, when will you have the money to pay me back, my friend is going to have a birthday recently, and I don't dare to take it with my mother. As soon as I got the money, she kept talking about me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, you can talk to him. Nothing. He was too embarrassed not to pay it back. Are you too embarrassed not to?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You are very exaggerated to say, big brother, little brother, I was also deeply affected by the financial crisis, I am about to jump off the building, if you don't give me 50 quick money, it's best to have other classmates next to you, see him reflect, if he doesn't have any reaction, just joke, if there is a reflection, then it's the best.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want it, go to him, and if you don't want it, pull him down.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What are you embarrassed about, he is embarrassed or not, you lend him money to show that you know him, you should know whether he forgot or pretended not to know

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I went to buy something and pulled him along, and then said that I didn't bring enough m to borrow 50 yuan from him, and then it happened that you didn't have to pay me back, so it's o.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can get some more money from him, like 200 500 or something.

    You said there was an emergency!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Side-knock side tap. Roundabout tactics.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's very simple, isn't it OK if you ask him for 50 yuan...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. 1. Praise each other first; When the other party feels embarrassed, and then says that he has been miserable recently, and he can't eat. Then offer to borrow money from the other party.

    2. Don't mention it on the surface, but give a strong hint to the other party. For example, if you express your feelings**3, when you meet someone who is frank and straightforward, explain it directly; You have to be confident.

    1. Praise each other first; When the other party feels embarrassed, and then says that he has been miserable recently, and he can't eat. Then offer to borrow money from the other party. 2. Ming Zhao didn't mention it on the lead face, but he gave the other party a hint of strength and a good feast.

    For example, if you express your feelings**3, when you meet someone who is frank and straightforward, explain it directly; You have to be confident.

    In addition, I attach a very humorous dunning text message:

    Friend with Ranshan, please don't say the deadline for repayment when you ask me to borrow money, unless you are sure that you can pay it back, otherwise I will think every day when you will pay me back when the deadline comes, and why you won't pay me back before. If this matter bothers me for too long, I don't think I will be so happy to borrow money from Duan Zhi next time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I am happy to serve you, and I will make the following solution for you: There is always a certain risk in lending money to classmates, if there is a problem of non-repayment of loans, measures should be taken to solve it as soon as possible, and the following are the steps to solve the problem:1

    Communication: Try to communicate with your classmates first, ask about the situation, and see if you can negotiate a solution with Huiyun, which may cause reasons such as breach of contract and financial constraints. 2.

    Written warning: If communication fails, you can issue a written warning to your classmates indicating that legal action is to be taken, and at the same time give the other party a deadline. 3.

    Transfer lawyer: If the other party fails to repay the loan for a long time, he can transfer to a professional institution for legal help. The above are a few ways to deal with students who do not repay the money, but we should be cautious and careful before borrowing money to avoid this situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm honored to answer for you! <>

    There are many ways to solve this problem if my classmate borrowed me 25 and never repaid the money. For example:1

    Speak to him directly. When asked for money in person, be gentle at first, and if he's vague, take a tougher attitude. has been urging him to repay the money, and it is appropriate to say that he is very short of money and needs money urgently.

    2.Tell the teacher. Tell the teacher about the money your classmates borrowed from you and ask the teacher to intervene.

    Let the teacher talk to him and put pressure on him. The teacher will usually communicate with him carefully to see the effect. 3.

    Tell his parents. When his parents come to pick him up, he can directly explain the reason for this matter to his parents. This method has the most obvious effect, and parents will generally give you money directly for the sake of face.

    What should I do if my classmate borrowed me 25 and never paid it back.

    Hello, dear, I'm honored to answer for you! <>

    There are many ways to solve this problem if my classmate borrowed me 25 and never repaid the money. For example:1

    Speak to him directly. When asked for money in person, be gentle at first, and if he's vague, take a tougher attitude. has been urging him to repay the money, and it is appropriate to say that he is very short of money and needs money urgently.

    2.Tell the teacher. Tell the teacher about the money your classmates borrowed from you and ask the teacher to intervene.

    Let the teacher talk to him and put pressure on him. The teacher will usually communicate with him carefully to see the effect. 3.

    Tell his parents. When his parents come to pick him up, he can directly explain the reason for this matter to his parents. This method has the most obvious effect, and parents will generally give you money directly for the sake of face.

    In general, classmates should maintain a good relationship with each other. After all, classmates are the people we get along with day and night, and a good relationship will help us in our studies. Before you borrow money, you should consider the person's character and choose whether to borrow or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Faced with the request of an old classmate who came to visit suddenly, the problem of borrowing money was really embarrassing. As a person with some self-cultivation, we need to take into account our own situation, plus meticulous thinking and analysis, so as to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and disputes.

    First of all, we need to see that the old classmate who visited us to borrow money is because he is currently in a situation where he needs help, and people should help each other. However, at such a moment, we must also realize that "borrowing money is not a good thing", and human greed and selfishness can easily arouse and even destroy our emotions in the process.

    When we refuse to borrow money, we have to show respect and kindness to the person, and we need to make it clear to him that we can't borrow money because our personal circumstances don't allow it. We can say something like, "I'm sorry, I don't have the money I can lend right now, and my current financial situation doesn't allow me to lend money to anyone" to show respect and tease my old classmates to understand my situation. In addition, we need to come up with other ways to help, such as personal credit borrowing.

    Last but not least, we still have a normal mind with this former disturbing classmate, after all, the only way to communicate that plays a key role in the continuation of friendship is to borrow money.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello friends.

    In fact, I have also encountered this kind of problem, some friends like to keep delaying the money they lend out, and they don't pay it back.

    But if your friend is embarrassed to ask you to borrow it, then you have to be embarrassed to ask them to pay it back. This is not a question of pettiness, but of sincerity.

    I remember when I was in junior high school, a classmate asked me to borrow some money, and then we also studied in high school all the time, but we were not in the same class, so he kept dragging it. A few days ago, he came to ask me to borrow it, and I asked him to return the money to me first, and then I considered whether to borrow it from him, and after meeting, when he returned the money to me, I said goodbye to him completely.

    This is not a matter of individuality, but of principle!!

    Our money does not fall from the sky, our money is also earned by our parents, and we are the reward of our hard work. Therefore, it is recommended that you settle the accounts clearly.

    This is not only helpful to your circle of friends, but also more beneficial to the future, you have to have your own principles, so that the circle of friends is wide, and the value and integrity of friends are high.

    Some friends have high integrity and can borrow by themselves, and some can not borrow, you have to have your own judgment.

    If you have any questions, please ask me.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm also always met with me to borrow money, but I didn't borrow, if it was sent to me I pretended not to see, if it was a **, I look at what level of friends, first from their own considerations, if you lend out of your own money, then don't borrow, because when you don't have money, I believe you go to borrow money from most people, others say no, when the time comes to suffer yourself, I'm a person from the past, than people ask you to borrow money, you say that your money is all in your parents, especially those relatives are the most annoying, I can't get back even a few thousand dollars now, and the poor people are the most hateful.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just don't borrow it. Your money is earned by yourself, you have the right to control it, and you have your own place to use it. It's okay to say what others are happy to say. And just because of this matter, I am not dating your friends, hehe, then there is no need to continue dating.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is very simple, you just said it is a coincidence, I just lent it to someone two days ago. As for the few hundred you lent, I said that I was sick recently, and I lent you money at that time, and now there is really no way, just when I borrow yours, I will pay it back after a while, and after borrowing it, I will lend him 200 hundred after a while, and don't pay it back all the time, at least 2 years.

    This is called returning oneself in the way of others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    That's right. Don't borrow it. Make a very reasonable excuse to show that you can't make ends meet right now. It's best to say that there is something in the family that needs a lot of money.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It depends on what level of friends it is. I usually don't have any contact, and I don't have too much friendship, but when I need money, I think of you, and if you want me, you just say that you don't borrow. People are warm and cold, you know yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Here are a few easy ways to do this:

    a You can borrow money from him every day.

    b You can borrow money from someone he knows and transfer your debt to your classmate.

    c What is your current relationship with him a) The relationship is not good, and you are not afraid that he will trouble you, you can directly threaten him! b) If the relationship is not good and you are at a disadvantage (depending on your tone in middle and high school), you can go to an authority figure to solve it. For example, the teacher, the class leader, etc.

    c) Mild or friendly relations Please refer to AB

    I've had classmates like this before, I used the ABC three methods (in order) and the last way to solve the problem was CB) I asked the boss of the grade to come forward and beat him up very happily, and he was hospitalized for two weeks. The head of the grade, the head teacher, and the teaching office, came to talk to me, and I said frankly that the money he owed was my medical bills.

    However, from my experience, brother, this classmate of yours is a white-eyed wolf, he has milk, he is a mother, he has a wide network, so I just want to remind you to pay attention to your own catties and do what you can!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I have also had this experience, borrowed many times, but never said that I wanted to pay it back, and I asked him many times, and he said that there was no money, so I directly cut it off, and there was no need to contact him again.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Acquaintances ask you to borrow money, and people with high emotional intelligence do it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I've been in this situation as well. Generally speaking, the relationship is not very good, and classmates who have not been in touch for a long time suddenly open their mouths to borrow money, and you can consider whether QQ has been stolen.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you know him as a person, it's best not to borrow, but to borrow money, such as if you are also looking for money to borrow.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The relationship is average, you don't often contact, you can not borrow, it's up to you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then if you don't borrow it, you will say that you don't have any money.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Generally, if you really want to borrow, and you want to borrow a lot, and the relationship is not very good, you can make an IOU first.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    First of all, you can lend him to prove that you still have a certain financial ability, and secondly, you have to consider how well you know this classmate, that is, how good your character is, if your character is very poor, the possibility of returning is very low, or his current situation, such as some emergencies, which leads to his financial difficulties.

    Third, it is best to collect some evidence for subsequent judicial means to solve the problem.

    Fourth, something has happened, and the worst outcome is that if the money is not returned, life will not become another situation because of this money, and you will treat yourself as if you lost it, so you should take caution to avoid such incidents in the future.

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