How to make up for the missing love, how to make up for the missing mother s love?

Carefree is the best gift for children, love surging, doting, pampering, that is the best side of life, the neighbor's children parents divorced, I saw the most bitter life look, how many scars are there on the young heart, only when you meet the best love in your growth, can you give him some compensation!

How can you bear it, is it that at some moments, people can really have no scruples, and even love can be ignored!

I feel sorry for your child, what can I do?

How to make up for the lack of love, just treat everyone around you well, only if you are good to others, others will be good to you.

Lack of love may lead to a person's low self-esteem and low sense of security, those children who have been loved more since childhood are happier, people who lack love are always looking for external recognition, immersed in emptiness, affecting their lives and interpersonal relationships, so how to make up for the lack of love in childhood?

Method steps.

Take the initiative to jump out of the feeling of lack of love: you must take the initiative to jump out and learn to give love first, so as to reap love and make up for the lack of childhood.

Find a good partner: Two people who love and support each other will have a positive impact on each other, and the complementary personalities of two people are also a change for those who have lacked love since childhood.

Learn psychological knowledge: take the initiative to learn psychological knowledge, give a reasonable explanation to your mentality, strive to overcome a bad mentality, and tolerate and accept yourself.

Learn self-love: accept yourself, love yourself, be kind to yourself, and let those who are missing love give to yourself.

See a counselor: Through communication with a counselor, you can gradually rebuild your self-confidence and change yourself.

The missing mother's love can be made up for in the following ways:

1.Look for alternatives: For example, find a close relative or friend to play the role of mother, or join social groups and activities to get love and support by socializing with peers.

In addition, you can also express your inner emotions and find spiritual sustenance through reading, writing, painting, etc.

2.Reconnect with your mother: If you can reconnect with your mother, try to communicate with her and express your emotional needs to bring her closer together.

3.Seek psychological help: If you are unable to face this problem directly, you can seek the help of a psychological counselor and use professional psychological support to find the cause and solution of the lack of maternal love.

In short, the lack of maternal love is a very complex and profound problem that needs to be solved in a timely manner. Hopefully, the above advice will be helpful to you.

In fact, I think that if you lack maternal love in childhood, it will be difficult to make up for this lack of fierce spine love in the future growth process. Coincidentally, some people are likely to get such love from the partner or the partner's family after marriage.

Welcome to the class of Mr. Zhu, the 108th lecturer of Pershing Education, here is the 1037th good morning greeting of Mr. Zhu.

Lack of love is a big word, and we don't even want to admit that we lack love.

But it is undeniable that we all have these manifestations to a greater or lesser extent in our relationships:

It is easy to be moved by Suizhou, but at the same time he doubts whether others are good to him out of sincerity;

insecure, always trying to confirm the other person's love for him by "doing";

can't help but please your partner, thinking that you can get the other person's love by constantly giving, but the result is the other party's unscrupulous acceptance or escape.

If you think carefully about those unfortunate feelings, you will find that no matter who you are with, no matter how much love you get, the hole in your heart will never be filled.

This is because people who lack love are actually missing their own love, not the love of the outside world, and we cannot hope that others will satisfy our love needs.

If you want to fill the lack of love in your heart, you can only save yourself. First of all, we must understand, what is lacking in love?

Popular psychological research has found that a person's degree of self-affirmation and relationship affirmation together determine his experience of love in intimate relationships.

Facing up to the trauma and trying to heal ourselves is something we can do.

May you mend the lack of love in your heart and regain the ability to love and be loved.

1.Learn to give yourself love: learn to accept yourself, learn to comfort yourself, learn to give yourself warmth, learn to give self-Zen and self-tolerance, learn to give yourself support, learn to give yourself comfort, learn to give yourself gentleness, learn to give yourself gentleness, learn to give yourself comfort.

2.Find a substitute for love: Find someone you can rely on, be it family, friends, teachers, volunteers, etc., who can give you support and comfort and make you feel the warmth of love.

3.Learn to accept the love of others: learn to accept the care and love of others, learn to accept the help of others, learn to accept the comfort of others, learn to accept the support of others, learn to accept the encouragement of others, learn to accept the blessings of others, and learn to accept the love of others.

4.Learn to give love to others: learn to care for others, learn to help others, learn to comfort others, learn to give others support, learn to give encouragement to others, learn to bless others, learn to give love to others.

You can make up for it, and you can live a noisy and stupid world.

1.When I was a child, I lacked love, and it was easy not to accept myself, or to give up on myself and break the jar, or to work hard to be perfect and excellent, thinking that in this way I could get attention and love. If you always have a lot of doubts and rejections about yourself, it is recommended to read Debbie's "Accept the Imperfect Self" and do the exercises in the book carefully.

Practice is far more important than understanding reason, and the difficult thing is practice, but we must adjust our emotional and behavioral reactions due to lack of love through practice. On this point, you can watch "The Brain and Emotional Life". 2 Accept our resentment, resentment is because we want the love of our parents, they are the closest people in our lives, and there is nothing wrong with wanting their love.

Be wary of your own guilt, some very good and kind children will have a strong sense of guilt because of their resentment and misbebehavior towards their parents, and this guilt will hurt yourself. Find someone who is reliable and express your guilt; Or write it down alone, don't hold it in your heart. 3 The original intention of love is not the same as the act of love, try to think about it, is the love we have lacked really not contain a little love?

Or is it loving but hurtful in behavior? If you can find love, accept it, and face up to the hurts, then your heart can be truly softened. 4.

The lack of love when I was a child has the most profound impact on intimate relationships. If you find that your adult relationship experience is always problematic, it's important to stop and adjust yourself. Otherwise, all kinds of things in the relationship will bring new harm.

If you want to invest in a new relationship, check out "New Rules: How to Make Your Sweetheart Fall in Love with You", this book may not really help you find a sweetheart, but following most of the advice in this book will at least help you avoid a bad relationship.

The love we are missing requires us to become strong within ourselves and to give ourselves enough security and love.

Some people's childhood is a lifetime, may be affected in the choice of mate, employment, friendship and other aspects, the most important thing is the strength of the heart, only when the heart is strong will face up to their own life.

First of all, take the initiative to jump out of the feeling of lack of love: you must take the initiative to jump out and learn to give love before you can reap love. Second, find a good partner:

Two people who care for and support each other will have a positive impact on each other, and it is also a change for those who have lacked love since childhood. Thirdly, take the initiative to learn psychological knowledge, give a rational explanation to your mentality, strive to overcome a bad mentality, and tolerate and accept yourself.

If you want to make up for the lack of love, in fact, this can only be said to make up for it, and it can't be completely unreturned, if you are missing mother's love or father's love, even if you make up for it, this kind of mother's love and father's love is impossible to completely make up, it can only be said that in other feelings, such as between friends, between relatives, between brothers and sisters, try to make up for it, so that your heart is not so lonely, so that you can rely on when you encounter difficulties, When you're happy, you can have someone to share it with. At the same time, if you want to make up for the missing love, you must have love for others, because love is mutual, then you can love each other, and you can make up for the original, alas!

First of all, you should go to find someone who really loves you, and then you love him very much, as long as he is good to you and loves you all the time, then you may not come back.

I don't think it can be, the missing love is the lack of the previous love, and it will be particularly abrupt to use the current love to forcibly make up for the previous love. It's like a piece of gradient color cloth, there is a hole that has not been woven, and you suddenly use a piece of fabric with a mismatched color to make up for it, which is very twisted.