How to get back the lost love, how to get back the missing love

I am an officer.

Now you need to figure out two things:

First: Does he really love you in a different place, or is his current situation not very good, and he needs what kind of love he thinks to sustenance, you have to seriously analyze what kind of boy he is, maybe it is not the kind you want in reality, your love is only because of a certain aspect of his own that aroused your favor!

Second: How is your current boyfriend treating you, if it's good, then you will hurt him when you leave! Are you willing to do it?

So, you have to figure out what he's doing, whether it's not a good situation, don't go blindly, wait for a while, see if he really wants to love you, want you to come back, if you go back immediately, what will he think of you, so you don't decide now, stabilize him, see how he reacts, your current boyfriend will also be sad, it's hard for you to get caught in the middle, you know!

So, stabilize yourself, stabilize him, keep your boyfriend, and see what the situation is. Don't make decisions lightly.

Ignore the man. Let's not talk about good horses, don't eat back grass. Of course we have to eat the grass when we look back, the key is whether it is grass or not, don't eat a mouthful of yellow and moldy rotten grass and lose a lot.

Men are cheap, heh, really. He's lonely and boring, what about you? You are happy.

Moreover, long-distance relationships are painful. I've experienced it. Honey, it's only true to hold on to the present.

And, do you still love him? Not necessarily, maybe because I didn't get it. Don't blindly take his word for it.

There is an old saying: I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe in the broken mouth of men. Especially the man you're talking about.

Does your current boyfriend love you?

I don't have much to say, if he can't find a good one in the field, maybe he just wants you to fill his boring time for the time being.

What if he dumps you next?

Let him go to him.

As for you, you should take good care of your current happiness.

He wanted to go back to the way things were. Me too, >

How much does this show that you still have him in your mind?

But can I regret it, can I? >

This shows that you also have the current person in your mind, and you are still afraid of hurting him.

But then we were separated, and he regretted it."

He regretted it because he was separated by two places, such a person is an actual person! What if they are together and separated by two places because of something or a business trip? The bus can have many classes, maybe you and him only have the past one!

Don't think about him anymore and cherish what is in front of you!

Let him pass the past, and what he once had should be regarded as a dream.

Take good care of your happiness.

It's the most important thing. What also matters is whether you are happy now.

Will you be happy again if you go back to the past?

No one can say this.

Only you know.

Don't look it back and pursue the new one, why is it called lost, it is lost...

The younger brother also encountered such trouble, so he can't help you, in addition to cherishing the present, he also knows how to compare.

See who you like now?

Why is this the same as me?

Welcome to the class of Mr. Zhu, the 108th lecturer of Pershing Education, here is the 1037th good morning greeting of Mr. Zhu.

Lack of love is a big word, and we don't even want to admit that we lack love.

But it is undeniable that we all have these manifestations to a greater or lesser extent in our relationships:

It is easy to be moved by Suizhou, but at the same time he doubts whether others are good to him out of sincerity;

insecure, always trying to confirm the other person's love for him by "doing";

can't help but please your partner, thinking that you can get the other person's love by constantly giving, but the result is the other party's unscrupulous acceptance or escape.

If you think carefully about those unfortunate feelings, you will find that no matter who you are with, no matter how much love you get, the hole in your heart will never be filled.

This is because people who lack love are actually missing their own love, not the love of the outside world, and we cannot hope that others will satisfy our love needs.

If you want to fill the lack of love in your heart, you can only save yourself. First of all, we must understand, what is lacking in love?

Popular psychological research has found that a person's degree of self-affirmation and relationship affirmation together determine his experience of love in intimate relationships.

Facing up to the trauma and trying to heal ourselves is something we can do.

May you mend the lack of love in your heart and regain the ability to love and be loved.

When you don't feel the other person's love, it can be because of insufficient communication, weakened feelings, or habitually ignoring each other's needs. In this case, you can try the following methods to improve the relationship:

Communication: Communicate openly with your partner, express your feelings and needs, and understand the other person's feelings and needs. This helps to increase mutual understanding and improve relationships.

Redefining the expression of love: Everyone expresses love differently, understand each other's love language and find the right expression for both parties.

Staying close: Maintaining physical and emotional intimacy, such as hugging, kissing, touching, and sharing each other's joys, worries, and dreams, can help strengthen the relationship.

Cherish the time together: Try to make time for your partner to do fun activities such as watching movies, traveling, exercising, etc., to create memories together.

Maintain independence: Maintain personal independence and space while maintaining intimacy, giving each other enough freedom and trust.

Seek help from a professional: If you still can't feel the other person's love after trying the above methods, you can seek help from professionals such as marriage and family counselors to solve the problem with professional advice.

Relationships need to be maintained by the joint efforts of both parties, and by increasing communication, intimacy and understanding, it is hoped that the love for each other will be restored.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!