How to deal with loving someone? How to love someone properly?

Do your best to love and not be changed by external factors.

But first you have to be sure how much you love.

Because I believe that there will always be a reward.

To love someone is to give him freedom!

The love given by a person who lacks love is inappropriate, sometimes it may be too cold, sometimes it is too much, because he cannot accept the correct way to love others in the original family, and the long-term influence of the family can not be changed overnight, my advice is to learn to love yourself first. If you don't even love yourself, how can you love others correctly? So, how do you learn to love yourself?

First of all, learn to stop blaming yourself, this is the first step, if the person who lacks love can constantly imply that he is already good, no matter what happens, he can easily change his life. If a person feels bad about themselves, it is very difficult to change anything.

It is very necessary for people to give value to themselves, and if people themselves always look down on themselves, they will always be in misfortune. This is why people who lack love are always insecure, and suffer from gains and losses in the relationship, and will also make some wrong ways to give love, which gives the lover a lot of mental pressure. Actually, everyone is just a human being, please don't pretend to be perfect, that will put a lot of pressure on us and make us not see how to adjust ourselves.

Also, avoid imposing fear on yourself. People often like to scare themselves and make their situation worse and worse, thinking about small things very seriously, and always expecting the worst in life. It's a terrible way to live.

Before going to bed, how many people imagine the worst of things? Just like a child imagining a ghost under the bed, it's no wonder you have insomnia. When you are young, you need the comfort of your parents, but you have grown up, and you can comfort yourself.

People who lack love often like to plan for the worst and think of everything as bad. They discarded their powers, believing that they had only some medical data left for their lives. The same is true for love.

If your lover doesn't take the initiative to contact her and find Jane, she thinks you're rejected and abandoned. You create these paralyzing thoughts yourself, which is actually a negative self-suggestion.

Therefore, if you want to love others correctly, you must first learn to love yourself, pay attention to your true inner needs, correctly understand yourself and tolerate some voices that are different from your previous cognition, so that you will gradually have the opportunity to recognize others. If love is something that needs to be learned, then loving yourself is a preview of loving others, you will learn to respect from loving yourself, you will love yourself and understand not to force, and you will learn not to be humble or arrogant from loving yourself, and calmly face every deeper contact between you and him. So, the ** of love is yourself.

The lover first loves the year and hides himself.

Only truly make yourself happy.

Have a good economic foundation.

Happy and happy life.

can love someone enough to collapse the hall.

Both sides have become better.

To love someone, you don't need to be prosperous and rich, just give him a thoughtful greeting To love someone, you don't need expensive gifts, just give him a wordless hug Love someone, always think about him, think about what he is doing, and his figure comes to mind from time to time i---inject l---loyal loyalty o---observant heart v---valiant brave e---enjoyment joy y---yes willing o---obligation u---unison Harmony Everyone wants to be able to find 100% of their partners, love someone, to understand, but also to understand; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; It is to accept, not to endure; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to confide, not to accuse; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything; It is to pray silently for the other person, not to ask for many of them; It can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually. After separation, can I come back? If we can't come back, what should we do?

Don't dare to expect me to be the one who will stay with you all my life, I just hope that I have given you the most poignant feeling

It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.

Girl, remember not to love someone like that.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

There is no right or wrong to love someone, only whether you want to or not. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

To love someone is to give him freedom!

Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Love: to understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence, not a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything:

It is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many from each other, it can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.

Love is a matter of two people, not that you say love and love. If you love her and cherish her, I think she will repay you the same. There is a saying that there is a give-and-take, that is, as long as you are willing to let go, you will get a better one! Think of anything like that.

I don't think love can be said to be a luxury, it's just that you haven't met the right person for you yet. Two people who are not suitable to be together may be a luxury love as you say, but when you meet someone who truly loves you, as long as you love her, love her, cherish her, and treat her well, she will love you like this, even if you are down, she will not leave you.

My boyfriend is a tourist, and when I first got together with him, there was only one tour bus, and there were many difficulties, and now there are five cars. I never said I was going to leave him, and there were even a few days when even eating was a problem, and we didn't say anything, and he knew I wouldn't leave him. It's been six years, and I don't think I'll ever leave him again.

You can also have such a relationship, as long as you are sincere with her!! Your heart... Does it still hurt?

To love someone is to give him freedom!

I can see that you are also a more infatuated man.

You know. A few years.

What can change.

Maybe she will definitely wait for you when she comes back, maybe she may find another girl at that time, and you don't know that women are fickle,。。 I feel sorry after the experience, so now the only thing you can think about is to go and let it take its course.

It's yours after all, it's yours after all, it's not yours and you can't force it, so, let go of your state of mind, don't think too much, as long as you have a clear conscience, after all, how many people in this world take the fake as real, and the real as fake, or hope that you will eventually be together!

1. If a person texts you every day, there is no doubt that he loves you, at least he has you in his heart. If you call him ** every time, then you don't need to ask, he doesn't have you in his heart at all. Don't believe any lies like he doesn't have time and he's busy, a person doesn't even play ** for three or five minutes, how busy does he have to be?

Is he still alive?

2. If a person meets you and takes you to a private place for two people, then he does not love you, on the contrary, if he also takes you to the park or a series of public places, then he likes to be with you.

3. If a person sends you a text message just to say hello, without a little ambiguous taste, then don't be stupid, he has no love for you anymore, and it may be just routine to greet you.

4. If a person loves you, he will take the initiative to tell you that he misses you without you asking.

5. If a person loses his temper with you because of a trivial matter, it means that he cares about you very much, but if after you admit your mistake, he still ignores you, advises you, ignore him, if he loves you, he will take the initiative to ignore you, if he doesn't love you, it is an excuse to let go of you.

6. If a person loves you, he will tolerate all your mistakes, if a person does not love you, no matter how good you do, he will eventually find fault with you and leave you.

7. If a person loves you, he will accept everything from you, instead of asking you to change this and that.

It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.

Face it bravely ... Success or failure. As long as you face it, you won't regret it. Tell him what you want. Don't give up easily. That's it. People are easily moved. As long as you have a heart, it's enough.

There are too many reasons, I don't have the courage to stay away from him, he refuses, I don't want to hurt him, how to face this loneliness and helplessness, give up, there are so many men in the world, think about it, why let yourself suffer so much for a person who doesn't love you.

It depends on whether the person you love loves you or not.

He loves you, so you should use warm love, even if you will be separated in the future, otherwise you will regret not loving.

If he doesn't love you, choose the way to make him feel better, because don't you love him That's love, I think.

Face it directly, if they want to love you, they will accept you.

To love someone is to give him freedom!