Is it worth giving up your family for love?

It's not worth it! You can give up anything in this world, you just can't give up your family. If you give up your family for love, it only shows that you are too selfish.

Your parents raised you so hard that your parents would never have imagined that one day you would give up them for a woman. Especially your mother, in this world you can bear no one can bear your mother. Your mother conceived in October and gave birth to you.

That is now that medicine is developed, mothers and children will be safe, in the past, it was a mother who gambled with her life to have children, good mother and child are safe, if it is not good, no one can live.

I don't think I will say much about the other reasons and reasons, you can feel and experience it yourself. I think that's enough for you to make the right and informed decision!

Think about it for yourself!

If you have enough ability, you can have both at the same time. Emotional matters are not qualified to intervene, think carefully and then decide for yourself, I have a headache when I see you. Because I have examples like this around me.

It's not worth it, the family is for life, and if you give up now, what you lose will be repeated someday in the future!

Love needs the blessing of parents. You should work hard to win their approval, otherwise you will regret it in the end.

It's not worth it, the closest ones are still relatives. You'll regret it later.

It's not worth it! Your family will always love you unconditionally.

You can do all of that. It's simply not human. It's so selfish.

It's not worth it.

In fact, love is indispensable in our daily life, we should often hear such a sentence: ask what the world loves, teach life and death, but what is true love, no one may be able to say clearly, when you meet in real life, true love is not by your side, or in your heart, but when you have a family, have children, if you meet true love, will you tell yourself that you already have a family, you can no longer love each other, you must forget that person, But every time I say forget, I can't do it.

Worth it or not, only you know! No one else can make judgment for you.

It's just that there is no regret medicine in life, there is no moonlight treasure box, and there is no right or wrong. Make any choice, be mentally prepared, your life will be on a different track, whether it is the road to happiness or the beginning of unhappiness, you can only accept!

After a long time, there will always be feelings, and now your wife and children are your family, just like your parents. If you can give up your parents for the people you love, then choose love. In addition, the damage to children caused by divorce is lifelong.

This really needs to be thought through. If you can't make up your mind for a while, you can wait

Personally, I don't think it's worth it. Love is hard to last. Can a woman really abandon her children and family for love? I really can't imagine such a ruthless woman. Although I am also a woman.

It's not worth it, I got married for love at the beginning, and I had children, even if I have children, you have to be responsible, if you manage this thing well, you will be happy, manage your family well, educate your children well, children are our hope, a lifetime of happiness.

For this question, only I know best whether it is worth it, but I think it is not worth it, as a parent of a child, you are not just yourself, you must be responsible for your child in everything, you can't just rely on your own subjective initiative to do things, or you should be rational.

Love is an illusory feeling, there is a period of freshness and oldness, and eventually it either disappears with time and environmental changes, or it is transformed into affection in marriage. Family affection is a stable state, and if you turn to pursue love, it is equivalent to giving up the stable state and taking risks.

Whether it's worth it or not only you know. Isn't there a good saying, such as people drinking water, they know their own warmth and coldness.

If it were me, I would feel very unworthy. Alone, I gave up my family and my children for him. What can that person bring me?

Does he really love me that much? I've had this experience around me for him. The boyfriend gave up his family.

And then he had a very bad time.

It's not worth it! When you are hovering between the child and love, if I were you, I would not hesitate to choose the child, because the child is the biological flesh and blood of every mother, and love, when the period of intense love has passed, who can guarantee that he will always guard you without changing his heart?

Is it worth it! Only you know it in your heart! In fact, others do not have the right to express their attitudes, and it is not advisable to hurt children and families!

But marriage really can't be maintained and there is no need to be together, that is harmful to each other, if you think it is true love, stick to it, and hope that you are true love, but also believe that there is true love! Otherwise, for your so-called true love, it will be wrong love in the end, it will be too unworthy, and it can also be said that life will be a failure!

Personally, I can give up everything for love, first of all, I have to understand whether the other party is the same as you, love him, anyway, I think I can't be stopped by anyone My love, even if I end up lonely and old, I won't just settle down,

Whether it's worth it is only known to you, what others say is not to experience your own feelings, children are the hearts of parents, for love and children to choose one, I can't make a choice, since you choose love, but the child is the pain of your life, you try to make up for it, don't owe the child too much, the child grows up sensible to understand your pain of abandonment.

I don't feel worth it, the baby is the meat that fell from your body, how can you be ruthless??? Have you ever thought about children??? If they don't have a mother, how will they live in the future???

Love without material will die sooner or later, anything is beautiful but firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you plan to talk about a lifetime of love but probably no one will want to accompany you to play the world together, you will have a day of old age and decay, and your love will still be in the twilight of your life for you at that time.

It's not worth it, he can abandon his children and husband for you, and one day he will abandon you for others!

Isn't the crystallization of love a child? Only when you have children can you be a complete family, and if you have a family, you still pursue love?

Everyone is willing to sacrifice for love to a different degree. I have also asked myself this question, how far am I really willing to sacrifice for love? In fact, people are selfish.

The girls in the romance movies I watched before, or a man for love. Able to break with their own family. Give up inheriting your rich family property.

went out with his lover to live a poor life and started from scratch. Actually, I used to have a love affair before. It should be said that at the beginning, the family introduced a blind date.

As for the blind date, there is a stable job and a stable income of Bishen, and he has bought a house. People are also very honest, the kind of brother who doesn't smoke or drink, and the blind date with him doesn't talk much. But he doesn't have any feelings for him.

He was seven years older than me, and there was a lot of generation gap between us, and we didn't have a common language. So I rejected him from the beginning. It's just that the people in the family like him very much.

Because of his conditions, he repented of the loss of the dust. And my mom kept trying to persuade me to marry him. But what about that time?

I have someone I love. But the conditions of the person I love are not so good. Job instability.

The family conditions are also generally no car and no house. It's okay for me. Because I was young at that time, I was very disgusted with blind dates, so I loved my boyfriend very much.

It should be said that many people may really sacrifice their parents for love, break with their parents, and then choose the person they love. I had that idea at the time. I just want to spend nine yuan to register my marriage with this man behind my parents' back.

But then reason triumphed over impulse. Parents are for life. This man may not be able to follow me for the rest of my life.

So I chose to break up later. Of course, I didn't stay with this news after the breakup, because the relationship was really not at all. Later, I chose someone I liked.

Now I have been married for eight years and have my own baby, and my life is slowly getting better.

I would like to say that love and family are both equally important or important things for a person, and losing either of them may make you feel painful or regretful!

Love is full of all kinds of changes, which is worth exploring and verifying by two people.

There are many people who are carried away by love, they usually ignore immediate problems or longer-term practical problems, and even ignore each other's character, character and sense of responsibility because of love and love, etc., resulting in many conflicts and even eventual relationship breakdown in the near future.

So, for how to choose love and family? I think you have to be cautious!

If you're in love, you're sensible enough, skim off the "Romeo and Juliet effect.""(That is, when two people have the same emotional foundation, the more external resistance, the deeper their love for each other.) It's just that the more obstacles, the deeper the feelings), or you really objectively think that each other can be responsible for the future or the relationship, I think it is possible to continue to work hard and use actions to verify your ideas.

The most important thing is that the relationship will one day flatten and the enthusiasm will fade, and at that time, no matter which side you choose, you will regret or regret the "loss of the other".

Therefore, instead of choosing one of the two, it is better to use a harmonious way to transition - give each other some time, use actions to influence the family, or to verify whether the relationship between two people is "hot" and does not objectively recognize some existing problems.

Ultimately, time and action will tell!

If you are sure that the love you left behind by giving up your family can last for a long time or even a lifetime, then you are very lucky, and it is indeed difficult to meet a true love.

But if you're not sure, be cautious. Because if there is nothing wrong with this love, your family should support you, so you don't have to choose one or the other.

Of course, now everyone is indeed more realistic, in addition to love, they will also consider practical issues, after all, they still have to live. And once the chain hunger and love have experienced firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is very likely to be slowly consumed.

It's not to hit you, but I still hope that you can think about it yourself, look at that person more, and then see where your family disagrees, after all, everyone is just making suggestions.