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My cousin has not been in love since graduating from college, and when he reached the age of marriage, his aunt and uncle were very anxious and urged him, but he just didn't move. In desperation, my aunt began to arrange a blind date for her cousin. In the process of blind date, my cousin was also absent-minded, but my aunt and uncle were very attentive.
They accompanied the whole process and expressed their opinions to my cousin, who secretly told me that he hated blind dates, and that this kind of marriage was unreliable after meeting a few times without an emotional foundation. I thought so at the time. But later, that is, the first blind date, my aunt and uncle liked that girl very much, so they had to say that they were engaged.
My cousin saw that the girl was very good-looking, and after contact, he found that she also had a good personality, so they came together.
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If you don't have feelings, I think you can get married, he is very good to you, he will put you in a very important position in his mind, he will think of you at the first time, he will leave you with delicious food, and take you to play with fun, as long as you have any wishes, he will do his best to help you achieve it. Because in his eyes, he regards you as the only one, and he says that in the eyes of a lover, you are his most beautiful scenery.
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In my father's generation, the two sides met in a hurry and got married with little understanding, and they lived in peace for decades. Speaking of closer, I have a friend who got married just because he thought the other party was suitable, and there was no emotional foundation to speak of, but now he has a pair of children and lives a happy life.
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Marriage must be cautious, it is better to find a soulmate and a sweetheart for a lifetime and Meimei will also be a role model for the next generation Life will only get better and better, and no money is temporary.
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Yes, remember that there is such a sentence "love over time"! When two people are together, you can see each other every day, and after a long time of contact, you are familiar with some of his ways of doing things, eating together, playing together, making noise together, shopping together, watching movies together, etc.! Slowly you will develop a habit, and over time, this feeling will become indispensable in your life.
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No, marriage is almost the same as love. It's a lifetime thing, it's a major event in your life, so you have to be cautious. If there is no love before marriage, it can be cultivated slowly after marriage. But if you have no feelings, you will face the point of divorce, and it will not only be the parents of both parties who will be hurt.
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No, just like my classmate, there is no emotional foundation, two people living together is simply torture, and they divorced not long after, rather than this, it is better to find someone who suits you.
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How can you get along without feelings? What's more, divorces from old couples who have been in a relationship for decades also abound! From the perspective of a single relationship, there is no emotion, I don't understand, there are a lot of stumbles after marriage, quarrels are commonplace, and divorce follows, and finally my parents are suffering!
If one party can tolerate the other, it may last a long time to have feelings! But this kind of odds are pitiful, and no one will want to endure it for a lifetime.
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If you don't have feelings, you should get married, feelings are cultivated slowly, in marriage, many lovers who have been talking for a few years, just got married, and not long after, they divorced. Introduced by the matchmaker, I just met not long ago, and I just |is married, the marriage is very long, and there are many people who are old.
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If you marry someone who has no feelings, you will slowly develop feelings in the future, and you don't have to worry about this at all, people will have feelings when they live together for a long time.
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If you marry someone who has no feelings, the two of you will let the marriage go to ruin in the future. Just because two people have no feelings in this marriage, they will have a lot of conflicts in the future, and even make them more and more strange, so their marriage will not be able to maintain in the future.
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It is very likely that you will get divorced, or you are running a widowed marriage, and two people have no feelings, and it is easy to have problems, and it is very easy to divorce.
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In the future, the two of you need to cultivate feelings in your life, maybe it was not appropriate for the two of you to be together at first, and the two of you were unhappy for so long, and over time there will be love.
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Life will be very bland, not arouse a trace of enthusiasm, and every day life is the same as when you are not married.
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Maybe in the process of getting along, you will slowly discover the goodness of another person, have feelings for him, and then live happily together.
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As we all know, marriage is a very important event for many people, and it is also a major event in life. And it is a very happy thing to find someone who likes each other to marry, and a good marriage relationship can also make people grow. And there is a lot to learn from marriage.
But there are also many people who get married without an emotional foundation, so do you think it's really okay to get married first and then fall in love?
For many people, it is very difficult to find a person to love, and it is also very difficult to find a suitable person for themselves in the vast sea of people. So many people will find someone they like completely to be Jian Meng's other half. And such a chance is actually very small, and it is not easy to encounter.
Many people choose to get married when they are emotionally mature, because this can make the relationship between two people go further. At the same time, getting married will also make the two of them happier. Therefore, a very important measure of whether they can get married is whether there is an emotional foundation between two people, and if there is no emotional foundation, the marriage of two people is meaningless.
Therefore, I think that if you get married without an emotional foundation, it is unlikely that you will fall in love after getting married.
If two people want to get married, the foundation of the relationship is a very important thing. Because the emotional foundation is the foundation of marriage, if a marriage is not supported by the emotional foundation, it is easy to break down, and it will also easily cause estrangement when there are conflicts. Therefore, a marriage without an emotional foundation is unreliable, and it is nonsense to get married first and then fall in love.
Because if two people are not in love with each other at all, then there is no point in getting married, and there is not much possibility of falling in love after marriage. So it's not feasible to fall in love after getting married.
So to sum up, it is very unreliable for two people to get married without an emotional foundation. And it is also very undesirable to get married first and then fall in love, because there is no guarantee for such a marriage. It's easy to create estrangement and friction, so what do you think about this?
Marriage is a lifelong thing, and instead of living with someone who has no feelings, it is better to choose again or live alone. As some people say, feelings can be cultivated, but if the personality is incompatible, and both parties are unwilling to collude, this relationship is cultivated from **, and there are no children after marriage, so divorce is the best choice. This does not harm others or oneself.
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