Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, Shi Xiangyun and Jia Baoyu are emotionally entangled

Bao Dai is a real soul love, the agreement of the wood and stone alliance and the soul fit each other, and although Bao Chai is Baoyu's wife, she should really like Bao Yu, but there should also be interests related to this, family arrangements, and maybe her slight helplessness, after all, Bao Yu should be his best choice at that time, and Bao Yu is not completely indifferent to Bao Chai, and Bao Yu from a long-term feudal education is not completely without influence on Bao Yu, so he also admires Bao Chai, Baochai's beauty, he didn't see it at all, but he just admired it, but Baochai was by no means the person in Baoyu's heart; As for Shi Xiangyun, she is the little sister next door, and they only have feelings similar to brother and sister

Shi Xiangyun was very pitiful when he was a child, and he was like a bird out of a cage in Jiafu, so he developed a bold temperament that dared to do and speak. She is very grateful to Baochai, and she is only a dispute over Daiyu, and she definitely doesn't care very much in her heart, for Jia Baoyu, she is a little in love, but she is definitely not as serious as Daiyu and Baochai.

Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are emotionally bosom friends and are more compatible. She was jealous of Shi Xiangyun and Xue Baochai because she was "in love" and dissatisfied with Jia Baoyu's "reluctance". But it is also very friendly to these two, which is similar to Xiangyun's situation.

Xue Baochai had a purpose for Jia Baoyu in the later period, she was a more urban and scheming person, but this can't be said to be bad, just a means. Xue Baochai has brotherhood for Daiyu and Xiangyun, and she has also done her sister's part, but when it comes to her own interests, she may not be so polite.

The entanglement between the two jades originated from the "Wood and Stone Alliance", that is, the Shenying waiter (Baoyu) watered the Zhuzhu fairy grass (Daiyu), and then Daiyu "returned tears", the two are truly pure love, and it is the most poignant lamentation in "Dream of Red Mansions"; The subtle feelings between Baoyu and Xue Baochai should be said to stem from an appreciation of traditional feudal female beauty, while Baochai's feelings for Baoyu are somewhat complicated; As for Shi Xiangyun and Baoyu, it is more of a brother and sister relationship, and there is no love theory, and readers will see it if they look closely.

Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu have the same temperament and thoughts in the entire Jia Mansion, and Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu also expressed their love for each other after testing each other. And Xue Baochai and Shi Xiangyun can only be regarded as partners.

I feel that the relationship between Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu is relatively good, although Baochai is good at scheming and deliberately destroys the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu, but Baochai treats Daiyu with sincerity.

I think the relationship between two people must be very good, that's why there is such communication and affection, and the relationship is very deep.

I think the relationship between the two of them is relatively good, they both have a common language, they both write poetry, they are both very talented, they are still attracted to each other, and then they become good friends.

This question is a bit of a surprise. Before we get into the question, let's sort out the relationship between them.

Let's first look at the relationship between relatives and relatives, what is the relationship between Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, Shi Xiangyun and Jia Lian? Xue Baochai is only a cousin of Wang Xifeng, and has no blood relationship with Jia Lian; Shi Xiangyun should be Jia's mother's maiden niece and granddaughter, and her kinship with Jia Lian is relatively distant; Only Lin Daiyu is Jia Lian's aunt and cousin, and Daiyu's mother is Jia Lian's aunt, and she is relatively close in blood. Secondly, from the perspective of age, Lin Daiyu was still young when she entered Jiafu, and she was still a child like Jia Baoyu and Shi Xiangyun, and was not yet an adult; And Jia Lian is an adult and has a wife and daughter, which is called "orderly and harmonious coexistence between the young and the old".

If Jia Lian has a soft spot for Lin Daiyu, then this love is also brother and sister affection rather than other affection.

In this case, why would anyone raise the question that Jia Lian has a soft spot for Lin Daiyu? I think it must be because of Jia Lian's escort of Lin Daiyu back to his hometown to bury his father. Lin Daiyu lost her mother first and then her father, with no relatives and siblings to rely on, lonely, although the Lin family has its own family, they are all distant relatives.

In contrast, my grandmother's uncle's family is closer, so my mother's uncle is bigger. What's more, Jia's mother pities her granddaughter, among her cousins, Jia Baoyu is not an adult, Jia Zhen's father and son are super unreliable, and only her cousin Jia Lian is more stable and can be relied on, so Jia's mother assigned Jia Lian to personally send it back to deal with the aftermath, and then pick it up together to put her mind at ease. This is tantamount to saying that Jia Lian is acting as the responsibility of the elders, which is understandable.

We know that the portrayal of the characters in "Dream of Red Mansions" is very realistic, and the understanding of the character of Jia Lian must also be divided into two. In the context of that era, it was customary and commonplace for men, especially men from rich and noble families, to have three wives and four concubines, and it was not wrong for men to abuse their feelings, and no one made a fuss, so although Jia Lian was abusive, he was not confused, and he understood things, so of course he would respect Xue Baochai, Shi Xiangyun and other ladies in the society at that time, and he was also a big brother-like escort to Lin Daiyu without too many other positive intersections.

Because among these people, only Lin Daiyu has the closest relationship with herself. Naturally, he was closer to Lin Daiyu.

Because Daiyu is very kind, and she is also very smart, and her family conditions are also good, so she has a soft spot.

It is true that Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, and Shi Xiangyun are all Jia Lian's cousins, but there is a world of difference in blood relationship. First of all, Lin Daiyu's mother Jia Min is the daughter of Jia's mother and the aunt of Jia Lian and Jia Baoyu, and the two have a natural blood relationship with Lin Daiyu; And Shi Xiangyun is different, Shi Xiangyun is only the granddaughter of Jia's mother's younger brother, so she is naturally a layer farther than Lin Daiyu; Not to mention Xue Baochai, Xue Baochai is the daughter of Aunt Xue, Mrs. Wang's sister, and Jia Baoyu is an aunt and brother, and she can't fight Jia Lian.

Therefore, Jia Lian follows the obvious relationship between intimacy and alienation in handling the relationship with Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai, and Shi Xiangyun, which is naturally different from the affectionate and tactful Jia Baoyu.

Baochai, Xiangyun and Jia Lian are all distant relatives, only Daiyu is the daughter of his aunt, and the relationship must be different.

Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai and Shi Xiangyun are three important female characters in the Chinese classic "Dream of Red Mansions". They have several things in common:

Status: They are all from aristocratic families, and they are members of Rongfu (Xue Baochai), Jiafu (Lin Daiyu) and Shijia (Shi Xiangyun), and their status is similar.

Outstanding talents: They are both known for their ingenuity, poetry and song, and have demonstrated their literary talents many times in the book.

Emotional world: They have a deep emotional connection with Jia Baoyu. Lin Daiyu is Jia Baoyu's favorite person; Xue Baochai later became Jia Baoyu's wife; Shi Xiangyun is Jia Baoyu's confidant and friend.

Ill-fated: Although they all have a high starting point, none of them have a good fortune as the story progresses. Lin Daiyu eventually died of illness; Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu's marriage was not happy; Shi Xiangyun married a Kuansha man who didn't love her.

The symbolism in Dream of Red Mansions: Lin Daiyu, Xue Jianyu and Shi Xiangyun respectively represent different values and attitudes towards life in **. Lin Daiyu represents the image of a literary genius; Xue Bao and Chai Hai are models of virtuous and virtuous virtues; Shi Xiangyun showed a kind of personality that dared to love and hate, and was cautious and open-minded.

These three female characters together constitute the plurality of women's fates in feudal society in "Dream of Red Mansions".

Dream of Red Mansions 22 episodes Listen to the song Wenbao to cover the disadvantages of the jade Wu Zen machine, make the lantern riddle Jia Zheng's sad words. It can be seen:

Xue Baochai: Thoughtful, thoughtful, and delicate.

Lin Daiyu: Smart and intelligent, clear-minded, sensitive and suspicious.

Shi Xiangyun: Straightforward and fast-talking, straightforward personality.

Wang Xifeng: Sharp teeth, cast his favor to the macro family.

Jia Baoyu's elbow: Infatuated with others, unstable personality.

Categories: Humanities >> Chinese Literature.

Problem description: The first person Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai or Shi Xiangyun will be selected for the voting candidate answer, and then voted.

Analysis: Lin Daiyu.

Reason: The only daughter of Lin Ruhai and Jia Min. Due to the death of his parents, his grandmother took pity on his loneliness and took over Rongguo Mansion to raise him.

Although she is an orphan under the fence, she is arrogant by nature, naïve and straightforward, and Baoyu is a feudal rebel, and never persuades Baoyu to take the feudal road of eunuchs. She despised fame and power, and when Jia Baoyu gave her a string of precious prayer beads given by the saint given by the king of Beijing, she said, "What stinky man has taken, I don't want this thing!" She and Baoyu have the same ideals and interests, and they really love each other, but this love was cruelly strangled by Jia Mu and others, and Lin Daiyu died in tears.

Verdict: Regrettable and depressing, pitiful and talented. The jade belt hangs in the forest, and the golden hairpin is buried in the snow.