My boyfriend was tired and wanted to break up, I begged him, and he accepted it for the time being,

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As a woman, of course, marry someone who loves herself more than she loves him. There is no grass at the end of the world, and your relationship has turned sour, just like a glass of spoiled milk, and the result of forcing yourself to drink it will only make you vomit and diarrhea. You can't hang yourself from a tree, maybe you feel like you love him to death now, but after a year or two, you will feel stupid.

    Before, I had a classmate whose boyfriend was going to break up with her, and she took sleeping pills again, and cut her pulse to keep him, although the man was with her again, but it didn't take long for him to run away from her. When my classmate told me about this, I said, "That man really doesn't want to be with you anymore, he just doesn't want you to hurt himself for him, and now you see the injury on your wrist, how do you feel" She said: "At that time, I just wanted him to stay with me and do everything, but the result was the same, I just felt stupid and hurt myself like this for him."

    Life goes on, and if you put some things down, you will be better off yourself, and others will be better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although I don't want to be very negative and say that it is fate, go with the flow

    But I think sometimes there is such a thing as feelings

    It really depends on fate

    Sometimes, fate is over

    Inexplicably, they broke up

    Still around、

    I can still cherish it

    Just try to cherish it

    When fate is leaving、

    No one can catch it

    You should try to communicate with him as much as possible

    Ask him what he thinks and plans for your future

    If he is willing to work with you

    Then put aside all your worries and work together

    If he's really tired, tired,

    That's better to let it be, don't force it too much

    Feelings are never a one-person thing

    Hope you're happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not love that gets back, I used to be like you now, thinking that the world would change color without him, and now I regret it, because you have to live in the shadow of him not loving you very much for the rest of your life, and besides, you are not married, he treats you like this, is it worth it? You must believe that something better is waiting for you, raise your head proudly, and give up on him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you still love him, go for it, don't give up, because it's not easy to love someone, don't do anything that you regret, I'm in a similar situation now, I'll fight for it, of course, the most important thing is your own decision.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He loves you, but he's tired, I don't think he will marry you anymore, because he's tired, if I were him, I should have left the city a long time ago, he didn't leave the means that he still cares about you and loves you, but he won't marry you anymore, because he's tired.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's like us.

    I've been in pain for the past few days.

    When I quarreled before, I always talked about breaking up or something.

    However, he said to me this time: I don't seem to love you as much as I used to, and I don't care about you as much as I used to.

    I really don't want to be separated.

    This relationship is really all I have.

    All of them. Even if I quarreled with him, I never changed my mind.

    And what about him, why can he become so blocky.

    I can still see the text messages he sent, and the feelings he had for me at the time.

    Now, it's only been 1 week.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If he sees that you are more sensible than before, he will love and cherish you more than before.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better to marry someone who loves you than to marry someone you love but who doesn't love you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't understand feelings at all, landlord, I can't help you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. So you should take a step back, he has already taken a step back. I still say the same thing, it's not easy to fall in love, do it and cherish it, I wish you happiness!

    My boyfriend was going to break up with me, and I was in a hurry and kept him.

    Hello, you can communicate more with him first, and ask what the reason is.

    Many times, many couples can share hardships and hardships in big things, but they have no patience to tolerate the small things in life. It's not easy to fall in love, maybe you should communicate better.

    He did something wrong, and I have been in a mood for two days, and today he got impatient and said that he had decided to break up. Then delete me, I was in a hurry, so I went to keep him, added him WeChat, and then he passed, coaxed me again, and told me not to be angry, and he said good things after he passed. Tell me not to be angry anymore, and let the wrong thing turn the page and talk about being together.

    Tell me to stop getting emotional.

    Hello, you guys should communicate more. It's normal to do something wrong, only he can recognize it.

    Prove that he still cares about you.

    So you should take a step back, he has already taken a step back. I still say the same thing, it's not easy to fall in love, do it and cherish it, I wish you happiness!

    Where did he take a step back?

    Didn't he coax you to tell you not to be emotional? What you want is a clear result, however, guys want face. But.

    After he asked through me, he said that he knew that he was doing something wrong, and he would try his best to do a good job, so that I would trust him and be together. So I want to be together, why did he do it wrong, I had been in the mood for two days, and he asked me how to coax me, delete me, and said that he would never bother again. After deleting me, I went to add him to WeChat after I got up, and I regretted it after he passed.

    But sometimes what is needed between intimate people is love rather than reason. He knows what's wrong, you're his lover, you know, what he needs is your understanding.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are unwilling after breaking up with your boyfriend, you can actually have a good chat with each other, and girls must have a warm attitude.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be empathetic, think from the other person's point of view, tell the other person what you think, and rebuild trust between two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    We must learn to respect and love ourselves, have our own independent life, strive to improve our charm, and learn to think from the other person's perspective and attract each other's attention.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you copy this, break up, and don't contact again.

    I believe that he is also thoughtful, since there is nothing to recover, even if he has something unspeakable and is forced to break up with you, it is not recommended that you ask, because in this kind of situation, you can not help solve it, and your parents are more opposed.

    All in all, I don't think you can be together in the end, and the possibility of getting married in the end is very low, I hope you study hard (after all, he is already in society and his thinking is not the same as your student).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is the love that comes to reality.

    Love. You are still in school, but Bai can not understand the hardships of his work in the society. I can't understand that he has suffered more than his peers because of his low education.

    But I don't mean that you're not reasonable enough, I mean, it's the generation gap between professionals and students.

    And what you have to do now is not to do anything to redeem her, but to find a way to give him enough security. And this so-called sense of security is not only for boys to give to girls, but also for girls.

    He is extremely insecure right now, because he doesn't have much time to fall in love now, and you, as a girl, need more emotional comfort, which is the biggest problem between the two of you right now.

    My advice is to listen to him, do your studies well, and do the best you can. Let him see that the two of you can work together in the future. Rather than needing him to go it alone.

    During this time, also give each other a period of calm and calm, I believe that if he really loves you, he will never let go.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He still doesn't love you enough, and if he really likes someone, he doesn't want to give up no matter how much pressure he has.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your boyfriend must love you, but he has something unspeakable and doesn't want you to suffer with him, so he lets you go. If you really love him, wait a few days before reaching out to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I suggest that it should be divided. Are you still reluctant?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In love, it is also necessary to be accepted by the other party, and if it is not accepted, who will do it?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How long have you been talking and how did you meet.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You love him so much, but what about him? Does he love you too? You yourself said that it was tiring to be with him. Isn't falling in love just about making yourself happy, and if falling in love is more difficult than being single, is there still a need to fall in love?

    Girls want to find someone to spoil themselves, not to quarrel with themselves every day and lose their temper。If the person you meet is not the right person, give up as soon as possible, there will be better waiting for you later, don't hang yourself from a tree. Maybe he doesn't cherish you, but there are more people than him who cherish you.

    The final result still depends on yourself, you say that you love him very much, so would you be willing to break up with him? If you really love him, then you can try to communicate with him, if he has any habits or something that you are more unacceptable, you can talk to him and ask him if he can try to change it for you. A lot of times, it's because you don't talk about some small things, you think you can get used to it, but in fact, little by little accumulation will only explode in the end.

    Boys can always quickly withdraw from a relationship and devote themselves to the next relationship, but girls are different, girls will be immersed in the previous relationship, immersed in the lovelorn and unable to extricate themselves. So whether you break up or not, you have to think about it, if you really feel very tired, it's good to let go appropriately, and you can't always let yourself be wronged. If you are still reluctant to have this relationship, you should communicate with the boy to see if there is room for redemption.

    But no matter what the result is, girls still have to be kind to themselves, love well, let go of a little free, and girls who dare to love and hate are the coolest.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello. Since you love him so much, you can choose not to break up. But he has already brought it up, and there is no way to do it, even if you don't break up this time, it won't necessarily be a matter of time next time.

    If he really wants to break up, it's useless to stop him. He will also use all kinds of means.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It depends on the kind of tiredness you are, whether you are tired or tired of not getting what you want or the kind of tiredness that never agrees with you, if you are so tired that you don't want to continue, then give up. Prove that your mental thoughts are greater than your love for Him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Two people should be considerate of each other when they are in love, and they can't blindly accommodate each other, you also feel very tired to be with him, and now that he proposes to break up, you don't need to keep it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The progress of love should be that the longer two people are together, the better the relationship foundation. In communication, we should trust, understand and respect each other, and think about problems from the other person's point of view.

    Now you not only do not feel happy and happy, but feel very tired, physically and mentally exhausted, it can only show that this relationship is not suitable for you, and now the other party proposes to break up, you should calmly accept the reality, don't force themselves together, the relationship is forced to get charity, not worth having.

    So now you don't have to keep it. Go with the flow!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I feel tired when I fall in love, let alone in the future, so let's break up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    A tiring love affair is destined to come to fruition; Retaining can only increase their suffering, but it will not help.

    Since the love you said is based on the premise and price of being very tired, it means that your love has long been full of holes and is overwhelmed.

    Now, he proposes to break up, isn't it just a verification of why you have been so tired all along?

    Love is pleasant and intoxicating, not very tiring and bitter.

    It's like a lien, if the love is too heavy, it will break, and it won't be a liaison—the liena branch will be crushed and broken if it is overwhelmed.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not necessarily, you have to see if he is a scumbag.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Play games with him. King. Eat chicken or something.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't have fate, it's better to give up early.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Since he was tired, there was no need to keep him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is no need, you will come across a more suitable one.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Why are you tired? Is it because of you? Or is it his own reason? If you want to redeem it, communicate sincerely with your boyfriend.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Even if it is reversed, it will not be able to go back to the past.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you don't have the ability to say this, and if you have a hot head, you will say something like that.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's not good if you're passive.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    People have to go through many stages in their lives, constantly encountering setbacks and constantly growing.

    When encountering problems, most of them need time to precipitate, but time is precious, and we must cherish every moment of happiness.

    People will have feelings when they get along, not to mention that you have been together for 5 years. But there is one point, long-distance relationships are still the first thing to solve.

    So the first thing to reflect on yourself is whether you really do something badly; second, if you really love someone, don't care too much about material things, so that the previous strong relationship will come back (I feel that he is really the person who may never be found again in this life, and you can go for it again); Thirdly, no matter what kind of interpersonal relationship you have in the future, think more about each other, understand and tolerate each other, and your life will be happier!

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It shows that you let go, which is good, for an irreparable relationship, letting go is both forgiveness for yourself and forgiveness for the other party.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Hey, that's how you women beg when you find a rich one Find a poor ghost Fuck break up without even looking at it Are you women cheap or too realistic.

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