My boyfriend said that I was tired of love, is it my fault?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's easy to solve, just don't go out to play, I used to drink all the time, and I quit it completely after I got married. It's not good for girls to drink.

    There will definitely be contradictions between two people together, communication is the last word, of course, they have to accommodate each other a little, and one person takes a step back. You convince him to let you hang out occasionally, and you promise him not to drink when he goes out. That's it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think he doesn't want you to drink. It's the fear that something bad will happen if you drink too much. Also, let's go to KTV.

    If you go with him, he will definitely not object. Because he is in your presence and knows that nothing will happen to you. In general, it's actually him who cares too much about you.

    He doesn't want you to make a mistake. Everyone knows that love is selfish. He thought about it a lot, and that was normal.

    He doesn't think much about it, it just means that he doesn't care about you. Men generally feel tired, that's true. He had tried hard, but he had not achieved his goal.

    Love needs two people to operate, only with each other's volume. Care more. to continue.

    Hold on. It's scary for a man to be tired.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Calm down for a while and manage love with your heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you should respect his feelings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We have each other, we should be considerate of each other, and I am tired of love, and I have had it too! But I'll get back to it soon! Because each other is for each other's good!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Feelings are like that, don't think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What else does this kind of man want him to do?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A friend asked: In love, my boyfriend said that he was tired, did he not love me? I don't think that's a generalization, you have to analyze the problem based on the actual situation.

    If you get along normally and the pressure of life and work is not great, your boyfriend may not love you anymore when he is tired; If your boyfriend's work life has been stressful lately, then he may just be discouraged when he says he is tired. But no matter what the situation is causing him to say that he is tired, you should not avoid talking about it. First, you have to ask your boyfriend why he said he was tired. Second, you can try to ask him if he wants to break up; Third, you schedule a date to see if your boyfriend is still as enthusiastic as he used to be.

    Don't speculate about what your boyfriend said was tired, you can just ask him why he said he was tired. If he says he's under pressure at work, then you can enlighten him and help him share the pressure. If he says that he just feels a little tired of getting along with two people, then you can ask him if you are not good enough, and adjust the mode of getting along with two people.

    Of course, when you say that your boyfriend is tired, you can also try to ask him if he wants to break up. If he is silent, then it means that he really doesn't love you anymore and wants to break up. If he denies it, then he will definitely give a reason, and you can solve the problem together.

    You can schedule a date and see how your boyfriend reacts, and if he's still as enthusiastic and happy as you get, then he's probably just tired and not tired of your relationship. So you don't have to think about it, just get along.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you care more about him, take care of him more, if he doesn't want to talk to you and stop talking about the confusion in his life, then he doesn't love you anymore.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, if the other party often says that he is particularly tired in life, it means that the other party does not love himself at all, the other party does not care about himself, and the relationship between the two people is not particularly stable and strong.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The boyfriend was disgusted with the relationship and wanted to give up the relationship, so he would say that he was tired, and this relationship made him feel that it was difficult to endure.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I think that if this is the case, then it is better not to continue together, because the other party has clearly told you that you don't want to continue.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At this time, you shouldn't continue, which means that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and if you continue to entangle, it will be very tiring.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, since you don't love it, you should withdraw as soon as possible, and don't be humble and stay.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. I told my boyfriend that I was tired of loving him, and he said I was sick. In fact, it's always because this is because my boyfriend doesn't understand us.

    He didn't think I said anything like that, maybe it didn't go through my brain. But the teacher thinks that we are our true selves and expresses what we want to say to him. In fact, the reason why such a problem occurs may be that we have very little communication with each other.

    He doesn't necessarily know what we think, maybe because something thinks we're vexatious, or that our ideas are too weird for him to accept.

    I told my boyfriend that I was tired of loving him, and he said I was sick. In fact, it's always because this is because my boyfriend doesn't understand us. He thought I didn't say such a thing, maybe it didn't go through my brain.

    But the teacher thinks that we are our true selves and expresses what we want to say to him. In fact, the reason why such a problem occurs may be that we have very little communication with each other. He didn't necessarily know what we thought, maybe because of something that was vexatious to think of Hukison as us, or that our idea of a trouser mu was too strange for him to accept.

    In fact, this is the reason for the lack of communication between the two people, which will cause the current state.

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I think this guy is really stingy! You don't need to say that he should have thought of it himself, right? I still need you to remind him, and he still doesn't go to be angry with you about this matter, men should be gentlemen, women are born to use love to use coaxing, I don't think he should hurt people, women want to marry a husband who will hurt people, otherwise you will be hurt in the future, he will ignore you.