What would you do if you met a mom like An Home ?

Your life is not more flat, there are more things that make you feel difficult, or there are many twists and turns, so in life, every experience is a process of growth. No matter what kind of people and what kind of things we meet, we should face them calmly, and let ourselves learn to protect ourselves and take care of ourselves. If I meet the kind of mother in the An family, I will feel sad.

I feel even more sad, because he didn't give me more warmth, but it made me feel even more cold. It is said that the heart is compared to the heart, but this kind of family atmosphere makes me not feel the happiness of this kind of family. Then I'm more trying to escape.

Same as I thought, so be it!

If you meet the kind of mother's love like the one in the An family, there is no way, anyway, there is no way to choose, as long as you meet this kind of mother, then you can only be obedient, you can only listen to him, although there are some unreasonable words, but there is no way, you can only listen to her, in this case, unless you use that good travel plate to say assistance.

If you meet such a person, then don't contact again, young people are generally under pressure now, if the older generation of people still have to force some pressure, in the end it may lead to everyone's life is not good, it is better not to pay attention to it, and then live their own life well, and have the ability to be rich in the future can enter some filial piety.

If I meet a mother like "An Jia", I will choose to communicate with her well, communicate more, tell her some big truths, and try to change her patriarchal concept, if she continues like this, she will spoil her son, and she will have nothing to do in the future, and she will not have any great achievements.

If he meets a mother like An Jia, he will be far away from him, and his happiness is in his own hands. But I still have to do my filial piety. And their own mothers can't put their own happiness. It is used as a means for them to obtain the welfare of life.

If I had a mother like Fang Bijin, for the sake of a happy life for the rest of my life, I would try my best to get rid of his control and influence on me, this is for my own sake, in order to get rid of his influence on me, I will take three ways to get rid of his control over me:

Clause. 1. Completely break off relations with them, and leave them forever. Clause.

2. Apply for judicial intervention to protect yourself from their threats. Clause.

3. Take back what belongs to her, and hold her accountable for failing to fulfill her responsibilities for raising and educating her when she was a minor.

1. Escape from them and start anew.

For the pathetic family of origin, they have been affected too much since childhood, and the best way to solve this problem is to stay away from them and no longer be influenced and threatened by them. The original family does not teach the correct outlook on life, values and emotions, and does not have a correct understanding of family relationships, and may feel that it is impossible to give up family affection, but a mother who does not love her children is not worthy of being called a mother, he not only affected the earlier childhood, in order to reduce this influence and make up for it, the best way to get rid of this damage is to stay away from him, and then repair himself.

2. Protect them from harassment with the help of the police.

One of the main reasons why Fang Bijin's mother was able to harass and blackmail Fang Bijin repeatedly and four times was that he still cared about the family's affection and thought that his mother still had maternal love for her. And his mother also used this excuse to harass again and again, and the best way to solve this problem is to apply for judicial protection. The problem should be resolved once and for all through legal means.

3. Investigate and hold accountable those who have failed to fulfill their parents' responsibilities.

Fang Bijin: When she was young, her parents did not fulfill their responsibility to educate. Only by setting the right mentality, being able to recognize the mistakes of their parents, and self-correcting, let them realize that it is his mistake, not their own mistake, and let him know what his responsibility is. In this way, there will be no more extortion and neglect of family affection.

Fang Bijin's mother is a pure concept problem, she has lived in the countryside for too long, so that some of the more bad ideas in the countryside, such as patriarchal ideas, are deep-rooted, and it is difficult to change through words, when encountering this kind of person, she should be persuaded by various relatives, or stopped by some legal means.

If I meet a mother like "An Jia", then I can only ignore her, and my intimacy with her will not be so high.

Because of her whole state, I felt not happy, but scared or frightened.

Therefore, if you are financially independent in the future, you may be far away from her and not so close.

If you meet a mother like the one in An's family, the first point, then you listen to him, so you can't change him, the second kind of words is to listen to him finish speaking, after you finish speaking, if you have a better way, a better way to solve things, you talk to him, and then use that fact and theory to give him that saying assistance.

In fact, no matter who meets that kind of mother, it is a helpless thing. There is no way but to endure. Because he's his own mother anyway.

No matter what he did wrong, he was also his own mother. In fact, for his mother, he is just a mistake in ideology and patriarchy. You can only do your best to satisfy him, and when you can't satisfy him, you can only dodge.

If I meet the kind of mother in "An Home", I won't respond to my needs, but I won't be ruthless and ignore my mother, I just want to be urgent and not help the poor, if my mother has something urgent, I will definitely do my best to save her. If she just kept asking for it, I wouldn't give her half a dime.

For the practice of Fang Bijin in the play, I can only feel sorry for her and pity her, my mother called her 105 times for one million, and threatened her with words. In the face of such a scoundrel mother, it is very helpless to put it in anyone's hands.

As for responding to her mother's needs, she may still yearn for maternal love deep down, but she is buried deep in her heart. Maybe it's because of her gratitude for the kindness of raising her at the beginning.

If I meet a mother like "An Jia", I will be calm and reasonable with her and communicate with her more, after all, she is my own mother, and I should be more considerate and understanding.

There is no mother who does not feel sorry for her children, so as long as the communication is in place, they will definitely get along happily.

When I met a mother like "An Jia", then I would definitely not associate with him, because I think he has no family affection at all except money, and for this person who only recognizes money, so he should not associate with him, although there is a blood relationship, but what he does is really chilling.

The kind of mother in the An family, it is rare to meet in reality, and generally mothers love their children and will not oppress their children like this. This is an artistic exaggeration. If there is such a mother, stay away.

If I meet a mother like "An Jia", I know his character very well, and I will let her come, because no matter how they are, they are also our mothers? It is not easy to raise us with hard work, and we should be considerate of them.

In the recently hit TV series "An Jia", Fang Bijin is the golden sign of An Jiatian, with outstanding ability and low-key, he is the manager of Anjia Tianxia Jingyi Store, who used thunderous means to eliminate foreign enemies, and with the appearance of her mother, the pain of her original family was exposed.

I was born in the countryside since I was a child, and I have a very intuitive understanding of the preference for sons in the countryside, but I was still shocked by the family of Fang Bijin.

It's All Good", Su Mingyu's mother, she is also patriarchal, eccentric, she gave all the resources she has to her two sons, compressing her daughter's living space, her son went out to travel, without saying a word, she gave two thousand, her daughter needed one thousand to buy tutoring materials, but she didn't give it, her daughter was admitted to Tsinghua University, and finally found her a free normal school to study.

In "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei's superficial life is glamorous, but in fact she is the most poor among several girls, because she needs to send her salary home to support her parents, brother and sister-in-law and nephew, Fan Shengmei's parents ask for her endlessly, but they will also do superficial work, and when they ask for money, they will also disguise it, show concern for Fan Shengmei, kidnap Fan Shengmei with morality, and suck her blood like a locust. Fan Shengmei wanted to be filial to her parents, but she didn't want to subsidize her brother's family, so she put herself in a dilemma.

In "An Family", Fang Bijin's mother Pan Guiyu was ready to drown her in the well since she was born, and then her grandfather came forward to stop her, took her back to raise, and went to school with the money given by her grandfather. So you owe me a few lifetimes, such a mother is not worthy of being a mother.

Among these mothers, the one who hates the most is Pan Guiyu in "An Jia", even if she is born and not raised, she has no kindness to Fang Bijin since she was a child, but she ran to rob her after the other party made money, so that the audience couldn't wait to run into the screen to beat her, Fang Bijin participated in the street health run and won the first place, Xu Wenchang was quite puzzled, Fang Bijin said: You run for health, I run for life. One sentence expresses the difficulties of his own growth.

If I meet a mother like An Jia, I will definitely be very angry, because as far as I am concerned, if I meet such a mother, I will definitely quarrel with him every day.

I will spend a lump sum to ask for the signing of an agreement to sever the relationship and ask a lawyer to notarize it, it is enough to be sucked by a vampire once, and if I continue to sever the relationship, sooner or later I will be sucked dry.

This situation must be ruthless, and for details, you can refer to what Fan Shengmei of "Ode to Joy" did later. If it were me, I would be really ruthless, I would do what I had to do, but if morality were to kidnap me, I would resist.

In fact, I also have a similar mother, but she doesn't ask me for money, it's the kind of cold violence, the patriarchal kind, I think my brother is good, I'm not good, everything is left to my brother, in fact, I was very ruthless to her at the time, but then I got married and had children, and I was relieved, after all, it was a constant family relationship, but there was less contact, less meeting, and the heart was still hanging

We are outraged because most of these things don't happen to us.

But deep down we fear that we will be treated like this.

1.It's unrealistic to say that the relationship is severed, 2I can only work hard to go out, strengthen myself, and let myself have enough economic ability;

3.Set a limit for yourself, how much you can help, how you can help, and how you can help;

4.Heal yourself and don't let the intergenerational trauma of the environment you grew up in put an end to all this patriarchal in your own generation.

The behavior of Fang Bijin's mother in "An Home" is completely patriarchal, and she never considers her daughter's feelings, such a mother is really a mother in vain, which is too unfair to her daughter.

In fact, I think in this TV series, her mother's behavior should be very selfish, and it is angry with everyone and God.

I feel that this kind of mother's behavior is reprehensible. Because there are very few mothers who don't care about their daughter's life and death, and will only ask their daughter for money.

When you meet such a mother, you must be very tired and tired. Although you have suffered a lot, you have the ability to face many things. Her purpose is to be comfortable for herself, and she objectively tempers you. Mom, you can't change it, and she won't listen to your education, as always. Only contribute, do not worry.

Why did you change her? Isn't it nice that your life is almost over?

She is your mother, what can you do, you have no way to change her, only to go with the flow.

If you're an adult, work a little more and don't worry about your mother.

Half of this is difficult to change, you are a junior, you don't care, you have to know that when you were born, you were also brought up with a soak of and urine, so you can feel at ease. I hope you are satisfied with my answer.

Imagine what you would do if you didn't have a mother, or if your mother was sick and needed your care. How did you suffer from it?

There is an old saying, the sky is going to rain, the mother is going to get married, you can't care, it's better to change others than to change yourself, Pepsi filial piety first, think about the suffering of your mother when you were a child, you have grown up and now is the time for your mother to enjoy happiness, now the life is good, the whole family is healthy and full of food, you will feel happy even if you are bitter.

Say less and do more, let go when nagging, don't talk, and it's good for a long time.