If your mom and your wife had a fight, who would you turn to?

To the old mother, people are old like children to coax, and the wife who loves you will of course love the house and Wu!

It doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong! Train your wife first! (How can you quarrel with your elders when you are small) and then apologize to your mother, pull your daughter-in-law into the room, and make amends to your daughter-in-law if it is your mother's fault.

If it's your daughter-in-law's fault, reason with her! I'm having a good chat with my mom afterwards! Hope it helps! Thank you!

Don't look at anyone, don't pursue who is right and wrong, tell your mother that you love your wife very much, but you also love your mother very much, say that it is not easy to be together with your wife, and talk more about the advantages of your wife; I also told my wife that I love her very much, but I also love my mother, and it is not easy for my mother to bring herself up, so I will talk more about my mother's advantages, instead of accusing my mother in front of my wife and accusing my wife in front of my mother; Say to them; The two of them quarreled personally, and they were very sad and sad, and I believe that when they want to quarrel in the future, they will take into account your feelings, because you are the person they love.

I think it's better to be kind to my mother, explain the reason to my wife in private, and be good to her.

It's your fault to face anyone, and it's your fault to not face anyone, this is the fate of men.

The smart old man chooses to do double-sided tape, not towards one side or the other.

No one is looking, but they all explain the reason.

You have to help, let's talk about it in private, the palms and backs of your hands are full of meat, and it won't be good for you to hurt anyone. Your analysis of why your wife quarrels with your mother every time, if it is because of different living habits or hygiene, then you can privately say to your wife, "My mother has developed a habit for so many years, otherwise, if you like to clean up, if you don't like it, you go out shopping and relax, I will report the expenses, as long as you live in harmony with my mother", and your mother said in private, "Mom, my wife is a knife mouth tofu heart, love clean, don't go to your heart" 。

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Mr. Wang, as a son and as a husband, does play a very important role in regulation, and needs to know some skills:

First of all, for the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we must adhere to the basic principle of turning big things into small things and small things into nothing, which means that you should not add fuel and vinegar to the complaints of both parties. Originally, there was only a small contradiction between the two parties, but if Mr. Wang stood on the side of his mother or wife and blamed the other party together, it would lead to an even greater conflict. At this time, no matter which side it is, you can't be led by the nose, otherwise the man who is the "sandwich biscuit" in the end will be the most painful.

Secondly, as a son and husband, you must be considerate of your mother as well as your wife. There are two generations with a big age difference, and even between ourselves and our parents are prone to conflicts, let alone between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are not related by blood? In the face of his mother, Mr. Wang can appropriately take some "mistakes" on himself, and don't let his mother's spearhead be directly aimed at his wife; You can tell your mother more about how good your wife is to you, and your mother will be more satisfied with her for her own sake. Do not blame and complain about your wife in front of your mother, so as not to escalate your mother's dissatisfaction.

Finally, in the face of his wife, Mr. Wang also has to understand his wife's distress. Out of love for herself and respect for the elderly, the wife does not directly conflict with the elderly, but the wife will also have a lot of emotions that need to be listened to and understood after the conflict. At this time, Mr. Wang can be patient and express his understanding of his wife in a timely manner.

Also, remember to care for your wife's parents, who will treat your parents well when she sees that you treat them well.

Talk to two people individually, understand the reasons for each other's quarrels during the conversation, and finally use some methods to coordinate the contradictions between the two people, and you must not sit idly by and let things develop.

I will first ask the two of them the reason for the quarrel, and then persuade the two of them separately, do ideological work for the two of them, and try to resolve their conflicts.

I will regulate their emotions well, and I will also take the problem on myself, try to avoid contact with them, and I can also choose to separate my wife from my parents.

I will understand this matter clearly, and then I will have a good talk with my mother and wife, and I will make my wife respect my mother, and I will ask my mother to be more tolerant of my wife.

Reason with him first, and if he is arguing with your parents, you should pull your daughter-in-law back to the room first.

And said to him: That's your parents, I hope he can also love your parents as much as he loves you, after all, your parents raised you, your tone should be gentle, don't be fierce, and then go to your parents and tell your parents that now the daughter-in-law is still young, in fact, they also respect them, your parents are the people who understand you best, and they won't worry too much about you, and the daughter-in-law will slowly instill in him that you are all a family, and your parents are also his parents.

The main reason why my wife quarrels with my parents is you. You are the bridge between them, and if you don't play a role, the greater the contradiction between them. This kind of relationship in the general family is nothing more than that your parents are not used to some of your wife's behaviors and words, but your wife feels that your parents are too careful, because they look at the problem from different angles, so there will be contradictions.

This contradiction is for you to resolve.

What should you do if your mother and wife quarrel? Some people stand on the side of their wives, but they are often accused of being unfilial, and some people stand on the side of their mothers, and they are accused of being ruthless and unrighteous.

In fact, family harmony not only requires the efforts of women, but also the efforts of men, the women here refer to the wives and mothers, and the men here refer to the men themselves.

As a man, you should be keenly aware of the possible causes of problems before they have conflicts. Because if a man can feel the contradiction in advance, he can save the day in advance, and of course the wife and mother will not quarrel.

As a man, Zheng Soukai and them should be stopped from continuing to quarrel in time during their quarrel, because people who quarrel lose their minds, and they will say anything at this time, which will lay the foundation for the harmonious coexistence of the family in the future. Therefore, it is necessary to dissuade it in time.

As a man, you should communicate with them separately in a timely manner after they quarrel, explain from the leakage, say good things about each other, and engage in a family trip in a timely manner, etc., which are all important ways to effectively ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

That's all for this question, hope.

When your mother and daughter-in-law have a conflict, who will you turn to? Why?

As a middleman between the son and the husband, it is crucial.

Standing on his wife's side in front of his wife, he should be enlightened and enlightened.

In front of the mother-in-law, stand on the mother-in-law's side, say good things about the daughter-in-law, and enlighten it.

There must be a pole in your heart, you must have a firm subjective opinion, you must not stand up to one side, you are needed on both sides, and you will never be partial.

As the head of the family, you must be dignified, tell your mother in front of your mother that it is your daughter-in-law's own family, you must love and be tolerant, tell your wife that she is the only mother, and you must respect. Be filial. Don't say anything to your wife and mother, which will only make things worse, you'd better take the initiative.

At this time, you can only pretend to be confused, persuade both sides, and never help either side, otherwise the contradiction will intensify and it will be more troublesome.

My mom and my wife quarrel (only for quarrels, the nature is different if you do it) I will say to my wife, this is what I know a male colleague said! He made the following point!

First of all, my mother is the hostess of this house, and my daughter-in-law is just here! 1. This family is all my mother's relatives, my mother has my father's comfort, and I want to comfort my wife! And my mother said everything at home, she was usually unreasonable and cunning, who could bully her.

Of course, my mother should also feel distressed, and she should be coaxed. My wife is also distressed!

And my mother loves me very much, he looks at me in the middle, dilemma, he will definitely be soft-hearted! The newly married wife has just come to this house, so she has to run in well!

Since my mother is the mistress of this house, I have to show the owner's bearing, don't worry about some small things, of course, I will also persuade my wife! Living together, it's normal to have a little contradiction, and the surface is peaceful, but the dark tide is surging!

Second, if I am in the same camp with my mother, the newlywed wife will definitely be haunted, this family will never be peaceful, she will try to pull me and her in a camp, so repeatedly, and finally the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be transformed into a conflict between husband and wife! It's easy to break up a family that has been formed with great difficulty.

Of course, if there are conditions, I will choose not to live together, even upstairs and downstairs, so that I don't have to make sandwich biscuits, and there are too few relationships under the same roof! It is better for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to choose to live separately as much as possible!

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be resolved by sons and husbands, and they cannot be real bystanders. You are definitely a participant!

Summary. If I had a conflict with my mother, I would definitely be towards my daughter-in-law, because because a woman marries a man and integrates herself into your life alone, so if you don't turn to her at this time, no one will want to help her.

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If there is a conflict between me and my mother, I will definitely be towards my daughter-in-law, because because a woman marries a man and integrates herself into your life alone, so if you don't look at her at this time, no one will want to help her.

So it must be towards his daughter-in-law.

Since she is married to you, then you have to stand on the same position as her, your mother is hurt by your father, and you will definitely be hurt by your daughter-in-law.

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First of all, you have to confirm why your wife is arguing with your mother;

Secondly, you have to stand up and stop them from arguing;

Again, the two sides of the sedan car to pacify;

Finally, solve the problem of Qi Tang who quarreled with the two of them.