Please lead to dinner, I m a girl, don t drink

Insist on not drinking alcohol in the first place...

It's not about how much you can drink, or how much someone else can drink. If you don't know how to drink, every time you drink it, it's worse than death, then resolutely don't drink it, and don't drink it on any occasion. Do you think that those who greet and toast the leader at the wine table are all fond of drinking?

I'm afraid it's a very few, but once it's decided, I can drink it, and then you have to drink it as much as you can on this occasion. If you can drink two taels, you will drink one tael nine, and the remaining one point of sobriety can ensure that you do not lose your demeanor, even if no one sends you, you can go home by yourself, instead of throwing up a mess, and even affecting the next day's work.

Once you decide that you can't drink as hard as you can, then you should never drink and never drink a drop of alcohol, then in the eyes of everyone you just can't drink. You think that if you drink a draught beer with your friends in private, wine or something is nothing, and others will not know, you are very wrong, as long as you have drunk it, the news is like having wings, and it will always be known by the person you want to hide, so if you can drink it, you will do your best, and if you don't want to drink it or can't drink it, you will never drink it.

Of course, you also have to weigh the pros and cons, if you don't drink, the boss may give you small shoes, and if you drink, you may always want to drink in the future. As for drinking too much, losing shape at the wine table, or even being convicted by **, it is foreseeable that the health will be damaged. If, according to an old colleague, the boss has good wine and never drinks as a courtesy, then you can sell face, otherwise you will weigh it yourself.

Some people, who are seriously allergic to alcohol, can be life-threatening after taking a sip, and they will definitely not bother with the landlord's problem. As for me, religion is forbidden, so I don't have to worry about it, and I don't have to quit my job.

In any case, the bottom line must be clear, such as never giving the biggest toast at a time. And the clearer the bottom line, the less likely it is for others to play haha. In this way, it is clearest not to touch a drop of alcoholic beverages.

I sometimes drink traditional Chinese medicine, and I take it to the unit to drink, giving others a feeling of bad health, and then when I want to drink at the dinner table, I say, oh, I'm sorry, I'm not in good health lately, and the doctor specially emphasized that I can't drink alcohol, so I have to replace wine with tea.

Yes, if you can't drink, you have to bring it up at the first meal and resolutely don't drink, otherwise it is easy for the leader to feel that it is not face-saving later.

Of course, you can not drink it, because not everyone drinks alcohol, and even some people are allergic to alcohol, and it is easy to have something wrong if you drink too much.

You can not drink, because whether you drink or not is your own business, and others have no right to interfere.

OK. You can tell the leader that there is something wrong with your body, so you can't drink. It's a bit of a disappointment, but it protects you.

Generally, you can't, but if you don't pay much attention to this situation and are not afraid of offending people, you can choose not to drink.

Try to drink a little, after all, the leader requires that you have to give the leader a little face, don't refuse too bluntly, which will only make both people embarrassed.

Personally, I think it depends on the amount of alcohol you drink, if the amount of alcohol is okay, after all, it is the leader toasting, or it is better to drink, if it is really not good, then you can choose to refuse tactfully, thank the leader for taking care of it, and say the reason why you can't drink, so that the tie does not lose face, and you can also successfully refuse.

Yes, because there are many girls who don't drink alcohol in the first place, and there are many reasons to refuse to drink.

No, because doing so will disprove the leader's face, will make the leader unable to get off the stage in front of so many people, and will make the leader wear small shoes for himself.

If you don't drink alcohol and invite the leader to eat, it is recommended to go to find out what the leader likes to eat or your local taste is particularly good in the restaurant, and there are some alternatives, or after booking, then invite the leader, if the leader is a person who likes to drink during dinner, you still need to bring a bottle of wine suitable for the leader.

If you can't drink alcohol, if you can't drink at all, tell the leader the actual situation during the banquet, because it is not an occasion where you need to persuade to drink to support the scene, and the leader will not embarrass you; If you just don't like to drink, or can drink less, you can accompany the leader for a drink, and remember to inform the leader before eating and drinking, how much alcohol you drink.

It should be noted that since you invite the leader to eat, you must pay attention to the convenience and mood of the leader to eat the meal, and at the same time give the leader convenience, but also give the leader a good mood.

For example, it can be like this:

1. Choose a restaurant close to the boss, or drive to pick up the leader;

2. If the boss wants to drink, whether you drink or not, you must pay attention to pouring wine for the leader;

3. At the beginning of the dinner, take the initiative to say some leaders for your help and guidance, if you are very grateful to the leader, then go to talk to the leader about some daily life and interests;

4. Cater to the boss's topic moderately and make him happier.

Finally, it's important to note that you should keep a relatively calm mind and not be too nervous.

People who don't drink alcohol, please eat with the leader, then order some of the leader's favorite dishes, and you have to drink a little in moderation, it's not good not to drink, talk to the leader, drink less, talk to the leader, talk.

What is the purpose of inviting a meal, it is not necessary to invite a meal to be limited to the proposition of eating.

Invite the leader to eat, you don't necessarily have to drink.

Just say that you are allergic to alcohol and don't drink, as a female leader, it is too much to ask you to drink. Unless you drink a good amount of alcohol, you will regret it for the rest of your life if something happens, and you should refuse it, which is not a necessary part of the job.

I think that at this time, we should still communicate and exchange with our leaders in a timely manner, and I hope that the leaders can be more considerate of themselves, after all, they are a girl.

You can tell some white lies, tell the leader that you are allergic to alcohol, or that you came by car today, or you can say that you are in a particularly bad state after drinking and may not be able to continue eating.

You can decisively refuse, because it is better for girls not to drink, and secondly, because they may cause a lot of trouble to themselves after drinking.

When eating with the leader, if it is a girl, you should refuse the leader tactfully: Leader, I'm sorry, because I am personally unwell, the doctor recommends that I not be able to drink alcohol, so I'm sorry, here I apologize to you with tea instead of wine.

You can tell him that you are not good at drinking, and you can't drink at all, so that the leader may understand you and will not let you drink.

When drinking, you can tell the leader that you have recently been sick and have drunk cephalosporin, and the chemical reaction between cephalosporin and alcohol is very likely to prove, so it is impossible to continue to let yourself drink.

You can say that you want to prepare for pregnancy, so the leader is embarrassed to force you to drink in front of everyone.

Summary. First, your question first. 1. As a girl, if you eat with the leader, can you not drink if the leader asks for alcohol?

OK. But at the same time of refusal, please give the leader the step down. 2. Wouldn't it be bad if others drink and don't drink themselves?

See how you cope. Scenario 1: If you enter the company and say that you can drink, or that your boss knows how much you drink, or that you have shown your amount of alcohol for the first time at the table.

Then everyone else drinks. If you don't drink it, it's really not good. The second scenario:

If you're new to the company, say you can't drink it at the beginning. And without wavering, he said that he could not drink. Show that you are determined not to drink.

After a few times, the leader won't let you drink. In this way, there is nothing wrong with you not drinking. Secondly, to give you advice for reference; In the case of the first of the above; 1. Drink the first glass of wine, but please drink it at a constant speed or slowly, drink it in small quantities and many times, and show pain and grievances; Wide-eyed eyes look at the leader; 2. If you want to drink less at the wine table, see if you will play tricks.

1) Change the subject and divert attention.

First, your question first. 1. As a girl, if you eat with the leader, can you not drink if the leader asks for alcohol? OK.

But at the same time of refusal, please give the leader the step down. 2. Wouldn't it be bad if others drink and don't drink themselves? See how you cope.

Scenario 1: If you enter the company and say that you can drink, or that your boss knows how much you drink, or that you have shown how much you drink at the dinner table for the first time. Then everyone else drinks.

If you don't drink it, it's really not good. Scenario 2: If you are new to the company, say you can't drink at the beginning.

And without wavering, he said that he could not drink. Show that you are determined not to drink. After a few times, the leader won't let you drink.

In this way, there is nothing wrong with you not drinking. Secondly, to give you advice for reference; In the case of the first of the above; 1. Drink the first glass of wine, but please drink it at a uniform speed or slowly, drink a small amount of it many times, and show pain and grievance; Wide-eyed eyes look at the leader; 2. If you want to drink less at the wine table, see if you will be playful. 1) Change the subject and divert attention.

Hello, let's see if it helps you.

Summary. Hello dear.

It can be said: Hello director, Xiao Zhang, this glass of wine is a toast to you. Over the past few days, under your leadership, the bureau has made a major breakthrough in its work, ranking high in the province's systematic work, and the leading cadres have applauded you.

In the future, I hope to give Xiao Zhang more criticism and guidance in my work and study, and I will do it first as a respect.

The first is praise, the second is self-examination, and the third is about the future.

A compliment. Leaders love to listen to words that praise their excellent political performance, or positive evaluation by their superiors; The female leader can also talk a little more and praise her for her beautiful clothes and young and beautiful words. Of course, this one is generally suitable for female colleagues to toast, but it is not easy for male colleagues to speak.

2. Introspection. Use the opportunity of toasting to ask the leader what you owe a job of imperfection or mistake. In order to win the understanding of the leadership.

Three futures. You can talk about how you will work hard or improve in the future, and how you will strengthen your work and study.

You can talk about just one or two of the above points. It doesn't have to be all talked.

What to say when you drink with a female leader.

Dear, you can say: Hello director, Xiao Zhang's glass of wine is a toast to you. Over the past few days, under your leadership, the bureau has made a major breakthrough in its work, ranking high in the province's systematic work, and the leading cadres have applauded you.

In the future, I hope to give Xiao Zhang more criticism and guidance in my work and study, and I will do it first as a respect. The first is praise, the second is self-examination, and the third is about the future. A compliment.

Leaders love to listen to words that praise their excellent political performance, or positive evaluation by their superiors; The female leader can also talk a little more and praise her for her beautiful clothes and young and beautiful words. Of course, this one is generally a toast for female colleagues, and it is not easy for male colleagues to talk about it. Zhipi two introspection.

Take advantage of the opportunity to toast in the Huai Hall to ask the leader what is not perfect or wrong in a certain job. In order to win the understanding of the leadership. Three futures.

You can talk about how you will work hard or improve in the future, and how you will strengthen your work and study. You can talk about just one or two of the above points. It doesn't have to be all talked.

Dear, you can say: Hello director, Xiao Zhang's glass of wine is a toast to you. Over the past few days, under your leadership, the bureau has made a major breakthrough in its work, ranking high in the province's systematic work, and the leading cadres have applauded you.

In the future, I hope to give Xiao Zhang more criticism and guidance in my work and study, and I will do it first as a respect. The first is praise, the second is self-examination, and the third is about the future. A compliment.

Leaders love to listen to words that praise their excellent political performance, or positive evaluation by their superiors; The female leader can also talk a little more and praise her for her beautiful clothes and young and beautiful words. Of course, this one is generally a toast for female colleagues, and it is not easy for male colleagues to talk about it. Zhipi two introspection.

Take advantage of the opportunity to toast in the Huai Hall to ask the leader what is not perfect or wrong in a certain job. In order to win the understanding of the leadership. Three futures.

You can talk about how you will work hard or improve in the future, and how you will strengthen your work and study. You can talk about just one or two of the above points. It doesn't have to be all talked.

Be mindful of what you wear. Men like to judge a woman's potential by her appearance, so it is best to dress well and be a little conservative when you go to a restaurant.

Be careful to wear your ring before you go. Between the conversations, you unconsciously present a sweet and happy scene with your boyfriend and your husband. When men hear nice things about you and other men, the attraction of the opposite sex is instantly reduced by half.

If not, you can lie and make up stories. As a woman, how do you skillfully refuse the drink that the leader asks to drink at the dinner table? Take good care of leaders and customers at the dinner table, and show careful attention at the dinner table if you are worried that your low profile will affect your chances of participating in social activities in the future.

Ordering, always taking care of everyone's needs, introducing everyone's advantages, always turning the table turntable, letting the leader eat well, helping to drive, etc. When you become an assertive woman, it is face-saving to let the leader feel your intimacy and let you come out for dinner.

Find a reason to avoid or pre-emptive. Don't drink without a drop. There are many reasons not to drink alcohol.

It is necessary to avoid excuses such as allergies, illness, driving, evenings, work, etc., but do not drop alcohol. As a result, I was not so delicate that I couldn't drink a glass of wine. After the meal, you can take the initiative to respect the leader and say this to him.

Leader, I'm really sorry. I drove today. Well, I would like to pay my respects first.

Just do what you want. Thank you leadership for your continued care. Click pour yourself a little more after drinking, and the person who toasts next time will usually politely make you meaningful.

As a woman, how do you skillfully refuse the drink that the leader asks to drink at the dinner table? Seek the help of a male colleague, find a colleague with a good relationship to go with him and ask him for help in time, and most people will help a better person to drink secretly. But remember, don't think he should drink for you.

After all, he also learned hard work and gratitude.

It is proposed to end the host country in time, and the leader is also a person who does not like to drink, and it is proposed to end the drinking game on time. Seeing that the leader was almost drunk, he loudly arranged for the waiter to change the car in time, or said: "The soup in this house is very good, everyone drink more soup, don't waste it."

In this way, you can not only end your predicament early, but also solve the siege for the leader. As a woman, how do you skillfully refuse the drink that the leader asks to drink at the dinner table? I would say it's an environment.

Don't complain, get the hang of it. You can't beat it to death with a stick at the dinner table. The key is to evaluate yourself by looking at the place.

What can be changed by drinking, and what can be lost by not drinking. The comparison between the two is whether you want to drink or not. People are not the amount of alcohol, but the ability to improvise.

Can you get away without drinking and be smooth enough to become a sinner?