Why is my mind always not on the same channel as the people around me?

Don't doubt yourself, it may be that your points of interest and everyone are not the same channel. There are a lot of this situation.,It's like me.,I'm chasing stars.,But there are really few people around me who chase stars.,And it's not the same as me.,I'll buy **,Brush the sound source.,And I'm in the Korean circle and the European and American circles.,So very few people around me can have a common language.,I've mixed the Chinese circle before.,But it really disappointed me.,So I really don't know what to say to communicate with you now.,Especially for a winter vacation at home.,When I come to school, I don't know what to say to them? It's really depressing.

I don't know what stalks they say.,But fortunately, I'm not completely ignorant.,It's just that I don't understand it right away.,They say this stalk.,My thoughts are still floating in other places.,It's really super not**.。 It's a matter of interest in keeping one's mind on the same channel as others.

There may be that your thinking is too jumpy, and there is no way, because people's thinking is different, it is a very normal thing, and it is an idea in the eyes of the public, but because your thinking is different from ordinary people, so express your views and solve problems are different from others, this is a person's thinking, but also their own characteristics, from time to time a sentence may really surprise people. For example, watching "Talk Show", there is a link in it that there is a **, and then let you see what you can think of when you see this long**? Everyone's brains are open, ah, from this can also reflect what kind of thinking you have, and the heat around you is not a problem, you have your own ideas, this is your thinking.

If your mind is always not on the same channel as others, you should be happy. This shows that you are a different person and are destined to be extraordinary. I have the impression that such people are generally very intelligent people. <>

Like one of my high school classmates, his thinking is always not on the same channel as others. At the beginning of the military training in the first year of high school, when everyone was resting, everyone was sitting there drinking water or something, so he ran to catch grasshoppers, and there were rumors that he still had to eat grasshoppers, of course, it was just a rumor, and I hadn't seen it. He was very fun during military training, and he couldn't tell the difference between left and right for a while, and then he turned around.

It's cute all day long, and it's especially fun.

A mortal like me can't talk to him, he speaks nonsensically, one sentence from east to west, and the one that jumps from this thing right away. When he memorized classical Chinese, he couldn't memorize it himself, and asked the teacher to translate it into vernacular for her, saying that he would memorize it. He was very fond of science.

When we were in reading class, everyone was in a hurry to write reading notes, and he was there quietly doing math problems, ignoring our Chinese teacher. So our Chinese teacher didn't like him very much. But the teacher is also the class teacher, and his Chinese grades are not very good, but his science grades are very good.

So the teacher also has no way to take him.

In addition, his desk is very, very messy, and everyone wants to clean up the table and be in a good mood to study. But he didn't, and he couldn't find anything when he was messing around all day long. From the elementary school class, there will always be someone who doesn't like to clean up the desk, and they are often the ones who have very good grades.

So thinking and others are not different from each other on the same channel, nothing, which shows that you have a lot of potential. You should put yourself in the category of smart people.

In the case of you, I think it can be divided into three categories, and you can see which category you fall into.

The first type is the sluggish type.

Some people are born with reflex arcs.

It's longer than others, but it's more than a little bit longer.

Often half an hour after the end of the previous topic, some people are still immersed in the previous topic, infinitely generating infinite associations, and others are not on the right lips when chatting with him.

mouth, I can't understand what he's talking about at all, and it doesn't match the current topic at all.

In other words, the reflection arc is long, and the star really can't afford to be hurt.

I am always ridiculed and disliked by all kinds (.).

The second type is off-line.

On average, in a class, there are often 2 to 3 people who are very active and very out-of-the-box, often the topic is still ongoing, and he is there to listen to others, but in fact, his thinking has already run to Java.

The questions raised can also feel inexplicable, because they go beyond the normal direction of human thinking.

This kind of person's personality is often more funny and funny, and he is a pistachio that can bring joy to many people. He will be more serious in his work and is a very positive person.

The third type is the Nakayong type.

Also known as the "genius type".

Genius is always not understood, and genius is always the loneliest. Their minds are beyond the average person, they cannot find a common language from their peers, they are a special group.

Don't think it's glamorous to be a genius, geniuses often accept more things than they can bear at their age, and many geniuses don't have childhood. What's more, many geniuses are problematic, they are immersed in their own world, they don't communicate with outsiders, and outsiders can't understand their minds at all.

If parents don't understand education, that genius is likely to become crazy.

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Two people who are not on the same thinking channel must have differences in their perception of some things. If these two are friends, it is the trend to part ways; If these two people are colleagues, it is estimated that they will not get along with each other; If it is a husband and wife, either one party compromises and pretends to be stupid, or they say goodbye.

My colleague's father-in-law and mother-in-law had a very unpleasant quarrel because of an RV, and even reached the verge of divorce. When it comes to this age, it is time to see how many years you can live, and you should do whatever you want to do to make yourself happy. The manuscript model Jane's womanism is very positive and resolutely opposed, and the man has no choice but to dispose of the RV.

I estimate that two people will also feel uncomfortable, and it is inevitable to leave a shadow on each other, after all, they are both adults, men need dignity, and women need decency.

When encountering this kind of thing, you should either negotiate and solve it, think about it from the other party's point of view, analyze the reasons, don't oppose the other party at the beginning, use reason to overcome emotions, lay out the pros and cons of facts, and then weigh them, and use facts and data to let one party revise their cognition. If you can reach an agreement, you will insist, and after the negotiation collapses, you will no longer insist on complaining and blaming. Being stubborn doesn't help.

Why bother, why bother, life is short.

Two people who are not in the same thinking channel are like parallel lines that are difficult to intersect. Just go your own way, don't practice yourself, please respect life and live every day.

First, everyone has a different level of understanding of things, and the scope of consideration is also different. What determines the level of understanding? It is determined by the individual's knowledge and cultivation.

Knowledge also represents a person's broad vision, and the perspective of looking at problems is naturally changeable; The degree of cultivation mainly refers to the cultivation of people, and the cultivation of people depends on whether they will take into account the feelings of others and whether they have appropriate words and deeds.

Second, everyone's values and the period during which they were formed are different. In a certain period, people's values will not change easily, they have their own life principles, their own judgments of right and wrong, and whether the earth revolves around the sun or not; In this way, it is difficult to achieve ideological communication and emotional resonance. In addition, even if the two parties share the same values, it is not easy to talk about them together because of the difference in the formative period of their values.

What does it mean to be in the formative period? It is equivalent to that I already have a certain in-depth understanding and understanding of a certain value, and you are still in the initial stage of understanding this certain concept.

Third, each person's familiarity with others is not equal to the familiarity of others with themselves. All of this is mixed with too much self-belief before it is recognized and confirmed by others: thinking that if you do this, others will understand; Thinking that others do that is a habit for a long time, and even a matter of course... As everyone knows, today's unhappiness is the seed of unequal familiarity in the past.

In addition, even if the level of familiarity is equal, it depends on whether each other is willing to walk into each other; If you want the other person to take ten steps and the other person to take five steps back, then there's nothing to talk about. Maybe no matter what you say or do, the other party can pick out a little thorn.