Why am I not hard to speak, always consider the feelings of others, and panic when I speak the truth

People have different personalities, and the way they deal with people is also different! You think about others when you say and do, and that's good! It's good to do what you should do!

As for others who never consider your feelings and make you hurt. You don't have to be upset. Let each other go in small things.

Communicate calmly on major matters! If you don't listen to the advice, you will have less contact with them in the future! But remember, you're not angry! One.

People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, so you can't be a good old man without character, you have to distinguish between right and wrong, and it's right to consider other people's feelings when you do things, but when others don't care about your feelings, immediately pick out and fight with reason, and next time others won't underestimate you, otherwise, you will become more and more reluctant to show you a low aqui te amo.

Why do you think about others when you speak and do things, but others never care about your feelings when they speak, and you are always wronged, maybe you are too accommodating to others, so you will feel very wronged.

Because you are kind and honest, you consider the feelings of others when you speak and do, and others only care about themselves when they speak and do things, and never care about the feelings of others.

The first is that you care too much about other people's attitudes or practices towards you, others have their own habits of how they do things, and you can't force others to do what you are satisfied with according to your way of doing things, and others treat you badly, or don't consider your feelings and don't care about you, just see you clearly, you need to be strong and good enough, you can make rules, others will care about your feelings, and strive to make yourself more valuable.

Then I thought, "She won't live with me for the rest of her life."

It's a good mood.

You treat people with courtesy first, and if others don't cherish them, it means that that person is just a person who has nothing to do with your life, and is not worthy of your cherishment! For someone who has no impact on your life, is not helpful, and does not cherish you, then it is just a passerby, what is there to hurt.

Think about the babies who have been thrown into the garbage heap, in the field, on the road since birth, and the blood relationship is still not cherished, then what is the value of what you encounter.

Everyone's personality is different, some people go straight and never consider the feelings of others, don't care too much, because we can control only our own mouth.

Even so, it's better to keep your good character and take a dismissive approach to others and not get angry!

There are no two people in the world who are exactly the same, and you can't demand someone else with what you do.

So you can't just be a good person. Protect yourself. Learn to say no.

Because it is determined by the kindness of your heart, your kindness cannot represent the kindness of others, so some things have to be adapted to the person.

Thinking too much about others is also a sign of immaturity. There is no need to think too much about the selfish people around you. Shoot when it's time to strike.

Some people are rectums, what to say, completely ignoring the feelings of others, there are also such people around me, he just doesn't go through the brain, and others can't do anything. All we can do is not to bother with him, because he forgets when he finishes speaking, and he doesn't know what to say.

Because they don't know how to care about others, they don't know kindness, and sometimes it's because the other party is too angry.

Self-centered people never think about the feelings of others when they speak.

The world is big, and everyone has it.

Your ideas are good, and you recognize your shortcomings and inadequacies. Correct the shortcomings to take your time, step by step, whenever you talk to others, you must first consider whether the words you say can be accepted by the other party, try not to say unfavorable language to others, and learn to praise and praise others, so that you can be welcomed and liked by everyone, in order to improve your popularity and popularity.

Call all your friends around you and scold you You can't swear You must reply in polite language Half an hour a day A week is fine.

Say less and do more, even if you want to say it in your heart, don't blurt it out at the first time, and think about whether others will be unhappy because of your words and deeds. As for what you said about not thinking about others, it is also a manifestation of selfishness, the habit developed from childhood to adulthood, it is very easy to change it when you say it, you recognize your own problems, it means that it has changed, isn't it, hehe, there is also the stupidest method, before you want to say it, wait for 5 seconds to say, and then use it to consider the benefits and disadvantages of the words spoken to the other party, and then judge whether to say it.

Read more books to improve your emotional intelligence.

Talking without going through the brain, it means that this person is naïve and very casual, such a person generally has no scheming and always follows his feelings, such a person is easy to hurt the other party, because he often does not think about what the next words will give others a feeling. As the saying goes, "Misfortune comes from the mouth", and sometimes a word we say inadvertently can kill people.

Such a person is very arrogant and has no scheming, in fact, such a person has a good heart and will not poison people.

I don't know if you have read Lejia's personality colorology, you can find the answer you want above.

Knife mouth tofu heart, knife mouth knife heart.

They don't always mean to say things like that.

Sometimes they just don't know what to say, they don't notice something, and they themselves are distressed and worried.

Don't take what they say to heart or not.

Consider their mood once in a while.

Sadness is sure, but you can moderate your mood and maybe you can communicate more with them.

After all, it's your friends, and it's when they're friends.

That's why it's sad, isn't it?

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine!

This kind of person may be more arrogant, he lives in a relatively superior environment, basically belongs to the clothes to stretch out his hand, food to open his mouth, never have to take into account the feelings of others. This kind of person may also belong to the lonely person in the heart, but on the contrary, it shows the feeling of being difficult to get along with. What is done and what is said is always hurtful.

This kind of person may also belong to the person who speaks without thinking through the brain, and may not realize it himself, so he doesn't need to pay too much attention to it. People are selfish, real friends are hard to find, friends may be using each other, some things, it's hard to say, don't trust others too much, friends are the same, don't pay too much, otherwise it will hurt more deeply.

Yes, some feelings are like this, don't consider other people's feelings when you speak, just talk about yourself, no matter what's wrong with you.

Well, maybe that's the way it speaks, and it won't be subtle.