My father in law is always watching TV in our room and is very annoying, what should I do?

We are a traditional society with respect for elders and care for the elderly, which is both a virtue and a virtue. First of all, we should understand the elderly and care more about them, and on this basis, we should use reasonable methods to communicate with them about the problems that exist, and use appropriate and appropriate methods to solve the problems. My father-in-law is watching TV in the room, you can communicate with him, but you can watch TV when you are not at home, instead of running into each other at the same time, which will cause more conflicts.

We can choose an appropriate way to communicate with the elderly, such as sitting down and having a good chat with the elderly in our free time, I think everyone can understand each other, explain their feelings and thoughts, which can not only solve the problem, but also enhance the emotional communication with the elderly, which is obviously worth doing.

Accompany. If we can spend more time with the elderly, or communicate with the elderly, we can make the elderly no longer feel lonely, and they will be more considerate of young people, and maybe they will not often go to the room to watch TV to disturb your life.

Old man. The living space of the husband and wife is also very important, and they should also fight for their right to have a quality life, you can communicate with the elderly well, explain your inconveniences, tell him how to solve them, and ask his opinions and opinions. The key is that family harmony is the most precious thing, everyone can understand each other and be considerate of each other is the most important way of life, I think as long as the family relationship is handled well, family harmony, many problems will be solved.

Television set. Finally, I wish you can communicate and solve problems well, enjoy the pleasant enjoyment brought by family harmony, the elderly can be accompanied, you can also enjoy a beautiful and sweet life, and get a comfortable and happy mood to face life.

First of all, this question must be divided into several situations. Start by asking a few questions.

First: Do you have a job? Second: What about the family conditions? Third: What is the purpose of my father-in-law watching TV in your room?

Why ask the first question in the first place. Whether you have a job or not, whether you have financial independence or not, directly determines your voice in the family. Why does this issue need to be spoken?

Because the subject's question does not reflect the husband's attitude towards this matter. To consider the attitude of the husband, you need to understand your own position. If the husband also feels bad, then the two of them can discuss and negotiate together.

How to negotiate is, of course, to look at the following two issues. But if you don't have an economy, that's largely a problem that is difficult to solve. Unless your mother-in-law is willing to help you solve it, or your husband is willing to go to the trouble for you, but we all know that the possibility is very small.

Once you have determined the first question, you have to ask yourself about the family's financial situation. But according to this question, there must be more than one TV in the house, and there is more than one room, which directly skims this problem.

The third question should be the hardest. Purpose. In my opinion, the purpose of the father-in-law is nothing more than the following:

First: I have a request for you husband and wife, but it is difficult to speak. Second: the soul is lonely, and you need to find a sense of existence. Third: your TV is better.

The first purpose, in fact, seems to me to be very easy to solve. Basically, it's about material needs. How to solve it?

Observe words and deeds. Since it is necessary to attract your attention in this way, it is necessary to see where he has needs and hints of existence. For example, I want a massage chair or something. It can be solved with money, and it is not a big problem.

How can the second purpose be solved? What is your mother-in-law's physical condition? Or is it already deceased?

From here, it can be discerned whether he is a material need or a spiritual one. If your wife has passed away, you should put more snacks on your father-in-law and have fun with him. Or, on the terms that both of you and your husband accept, find him a wife.

The old man is busy, so naturally he won't go to your room to find a sense of existence. However, it is still necessary to be thoughtful and responsible.

The third problem is not out of nowhere. When the elderly are accustomed to the old world, they will naturally be curious about your world. He is tired of watching spy war blind dates, so he naturally wants to see new things, and in the face of this, it is actually the most difficult to solve.

But if you're not in your room and you're watching your TV, that's a different story. The best solution for this is to move. In my opinion, it is better to live separately from the elderly, and if the ability permits, you can live closer to each other and fulfill the responsibility of support.

To sum up: those who have the right to speak will be met according to the needs of the elderly, and those who do not have the right to speak will be handed over to the husband to deal with.

After all, your father-in-law and you have a generation gap, and the growth and living environment is different, so learning to communicate is the first way to solve the problem.

Watch TV. First of all, to find out the reason for this phenomenon, you should ask your father-in-law, why do you like to watch TV in this room, is there anything bad about the TV in the living room? Of course, if it is inconvenient for you as a daughter-in-law to ask too much, you can ask your husband to ask.

Only by understanding the reasons why the elderly do this can we prescribe the right medicine.

Try to communicate with your husband, express your dissatisfaction with your father-in-law's always watching TV in his room, and let him solve it. Since the old man likes to watch TV, then I think it is completely possible to install a bigger and better TV in the father-in-law's room, one can make the father-in-law happy, and his room also has a new TV, and the other can also show the filial piety as a child, everything is for the good of the elderly, after all, the old man still needs his children to serve well when he is old. In this way, my father-in-law should not always come to your room to watch TV, which is good for others and himself.

Filial piety comes first, as children, when our parents' green silk turns gray, I think we should think more about our parents. It is not easy for them to work hard all their lives to raise us, so sometimes it is better to be filial to them with their parents as the center. It is said that an old man in the family is better than a treasure, and I think the harmony of relatives in the family is more important than anything else.

If you really can't accept that your father-in-law is always watching TV in your room, then out of sight, when he is in your room, you go to the living room, try to minimize contact under the same roof.

Nowadays, with the rapid development of information technology in this era, mobile phones have become more and more popular, you can buy a smartphone for your father-in-law, take him to understand and try new things, let him find that playing with mobile phones is much more interesting than watching TV, brush up on Kuaishou Douyin short**, listen to Himalayan cross talk, let his attention shift to the mobile phone, so that he will not always watch the TV in your room.

Always watching TV in your room is actually because he needs someone to accompany him, how lonely and boring it is to watch TV alone in the living room, there is no one to talk to, isn't it good to watch TV together as a family, and you can chat together.

The older people are, the more they crave family affection, you don't think that he disturbs your two-person world, in fact, as juniors, we should understand and respect their feelings. The closest person to him is his son, and of course he wants to have a good time with his own son and daughter-in-law, just like we wanted to be with our parents before we got married.

When you start raising children yourself, you can have more parents who are not easy, they have worked hard to raise us, and watched us set up their own small families, watching us get farther and farther away from them, they are becoming more and more lonely, the only thing you can rely on at this age is the family, not that they need you to support the elderly, more I hope you can accompany them, talk to them, chat, Relieve loneliness, don't ignore them, they have less contact with people now, if there is no one to chat with at home, how pitiful it must be, isn't it.

Your own two-person world is important, but I believe that your father-in-law can't stay in your room all the time and not leave, take some time to accompany the elderly, you may not have these opportunities to accompany you in the future, right, I really thought that in the two-person world, you can go out to watch movies and go shopping.

In fact, I think if it were your own father, you might not mind so much, we still have to stand in the perspective of others to consider it, understand your husband, but also understand your father-in-law, all the old people are not easy, because the growth of our generation is inseparable from their young efforts, try to understand it in a different way of thinking, sometimes the elderly are like children, they can be happy for a long time, remember, they also need to be cared for!

From an ethical and moral point of view, the father-in-law is the elder, and we are the juniors, we should respect the elders, understand the elders, in the father-in-law's era, the most high-tech product is TV, so watching TV has become a kind of nostalgia for the past, which is understandable. Empathy, we should be considerate of this kind of behavior, and should not take too much responsibility and embarrass the elderly.

Communication is the best way to solve problems, we can communicate with the elderly, such as moving the TV to the father-in-law's own room, or the living room and other convenient places for the elderly, tolerance is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, mutual understanding, mutual understanding is conducive to the harmony of family relations. I believe that my father-in-law will be able to agree with his children's approach.

Accompany. If it is because the father-in-law likes the environment of the younger generation's room or other factors, you can ask more, people in their twilight years, thinking endlessly, may be nostalgic for the past years, watching their children grow up day by day, want to integrate into the world of young people, so often go to the younger generation's room to watch TV, this is the dependence effect, children can accompany the elderly more, companionship is the most affectionate confession, but also a kind of comfort, over time, so that the problem is fundamentally solved, so that the father-in-law feels that the child has been by his side and has not left, In this way, watching TV becomes a kind of getting along well.

Love. Looking at the problem from a negative point of view, the father-in-law is the parent of the partner, if it is because the relationship is not harmonious so he is waiting for the opportunity to deliberately make trouble, then it needs to be solved from the source, you can first find the reason for yourself and your partner, whether it is because the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, and the father-in-law finds out before retaliating. Then you can ask your father-in-law whether it is because of his personal reasons to sow discord, if communication and other methods are ineffective, or the situation is worse, you can take legal means to protect your legitimate rights and interests, to stop the continued occurrence of such a situation, to protect your own legitimate rights and interests is the obligation of every citizen, others infringe on your own legitimate rights and interests, we can use the law to protect ourselves.

Regarding the subject's question, first analyze the reason why the father-in-law watched TV in the subject's bedroom.

If your father-in-law just likes to watch TV shows, you can use the following methods:

1.Ask your husband to discuss watching TV with her father-in-law when she is away, and explain her troubles and wishes to her husband from the standpoint of the family, so that her husband can realize the seriousness of the problem, so that her husband can spontaneously remind her father-in-law to pay attention to the time of watching TV, and as a daughter-in-law, you should consider the harmony of the family, remember not to directly conflict with the elderly, and try to weaken the friction with the elderly. If you have children, you can also ask them to help persuade them.

Enables the elderly to recognize the distress their behavior has caused to their family members and to agree to the request.

2.If the subject's economic conditions allow,You can buy two TVs,One each for your father-in-law and your bedroom,If the economic conditions are not sufficient,You can carefully ask your father-in-law what TV program he is watching,If it is a TV program that can be replayed,You can pay attention to the replay time,Without disturbing your rest,Please replay your father-in-law**。 Of course, I think the best way is to give back knowledge, teach the elderly to use smartphones or computers to watch programs, and leave a good rest environment for their families.

If your father-in-law just wants to experience the atmosphere of family, you can use the following methods:

1.You can transfer the TV to the living room, and the family can make an appointment at the time to make some home-cooked snacks with your father-in-law to **TV program and discuss the plot together.

2.Reduce your father-in-law's attention to TV through other entertainment activities, such as going to the park to exercise, playing tai chi, ballroom dancing, etc., remember to maintain it for more than 21 days, so that your father-in-law will form a habit of going out to exercise, and he will naturally watch less TV.

3.The elderly watching TV does not exclude the factor of loneliness and boredom, and TV is the most important entertainment and pastime tool in the past years of the elderly, at this time it is necessary to help the elderly to establish a circle of friends, visit relatives and friends, or raise some small pets for the elderly to take care of, if the elderly do not like it, hehe, you just care, the rest of the pets, in these ways to relieve the old people's feelings of depression and loneliness, so that the old people's later life is more colorful.

4.In the name of their own needs, ask the elderly to help themselves, so that the elderly feel that they are old and strong, and have the feeling of being needed, enroll the elderly in tea art or other interest classes, cultivate the hobbies of the elderly, let the elderly feel the meaning and value of their existence, and meet the spiritual needs of the elderly.

I hope the above can be helpful to the subject, thank you!