Why, do we always know how to cherish it after we have lost?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-01
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We always know how to cherish and understand each other's good after losing each other, when the two are together, we never care about the details, you may not realize it, but you are used to the situation, you just need to keep it in your heart forever, however, when someone who has been with you for more than ten or twenty years suddenly leaves you, you feel very heartbroken, especially those who love you very much, that year, I was twenty-five, my grandfather was eighty-seven, and my grandfather was with me for 25 years.

    He has always been in good health, and I think it is inevitable that someone as kind and hardworking as Grandpa will live a long life, Grandpa supported the whole family on his own, he preferred to bear all the hardships himself while raising his siblings himself, grandpa could cook delicious meals, do needlework and do housework, it seems to me that grandpa can do anything. When I was a child, my parents were busy and didn't have time to spend with us, and my grandfather was with us, he taught us to read, taught us to cook and do laundry, taught us to do housework, taught us to be people, and told us many, many stories.

    He loved me very much, sometimes he was strict with me, when I was in elementary and junior high school, he always cooked, and when I finished school, the things he cooked were always so delicious,He would tell me stories, make toys for me, and I would habitually hide in my grandfather's arms when my mother beat meMy mom can only say a few words, but I will also be criticized, my grandfather will never allow me to dress up and whistle unneatly, I can't explain my affair with my grandfather in short words.

    Later, when I went to college and worked, I had less time to go home and spend less time with my grandfather, every time I came home, he would be happy, watch TV with him, he would tell me the plot and express his opinion, every time I left the house, he always filled my bag with delicious food, took me to the car, stood at the door and watched me leave, I always thought that he would be with me for a long time, I didn't dare to think about how to live without my grandfather,However, without waiting for me to spend time with him and talk to him, he left us suddenly

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because people have such a common problem, when you have something, you often feel accustomed to it, it seems to be dispensable, once you lose it, you find that these are very precious, and you will feel that you have to cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because when we have it, we don't think that one day we will lose our feelings, we will only blindly ask for it, and only when we really lose it, we will know how to cherish it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's normal for people to know how to cherish it after they lose it, because when they have it, they don't feel how rare it is, but they don't cherish it until they lose it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When we get it, we don't feel particularly precious, and only after we lose it, do we feel that we can never return to our side, and then we feel the pain of losing the most precious one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because we generally don't expect this ending until we lose. And when he lost it, he realized how important he was to himself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People always know how to cherish (miss) after the loss of prosperity brings love.

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    v Recall; Remember; Remember; Remember; Remember; Put....Keep it in mind;

    Example sentence You wouldn t remember me I was in another group

    You won't remember me. I was in the other group at the time.

    Other Third person singular: remembers.

    Now participle: remembering.

    Past tense: remembered.

    Past participle: remembered.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes, I can't feel it, I take it for granted, and when I lose it, I find that I am really happy, but I can't go back, so we should learn to cherish what we have, cherish the people and things around us, and don't regret it when we lose it, there is no regret medicine to buy in the world

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because people always find out that those things are of great value to themselves after losing something, but it is too late to regret it and it is irretrievable, so afterwards I feel that we must know how to cherish it in the future. And people are like this, they can't feel it when they have it, and they can only appreciate it after they lose it.

    It is also because of this that people will know how to learn to cherish!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

    And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if only you had done it that way, if only you didn't have how it was ......in the first place

    But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

    If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

    There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

    This sentence is not contradictory.

    We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect from others; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

    If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not.

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  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When we have experienced the growth process from children to growing up, life is slowly changing, and people have changed, in this process, there are joys, sorrows, sorrows, and sweetness, but many opportunities we have missed, when we turn our heads and think about it, we feel how unfortunate we are, how ignorant, how ignorant Life is like this, we must know how to fight, to pursue When I am old, I will not be ashamed of my inaction, so that I will not feel sorry for myself, my family, and all those who love me So from now on, I want to cherish it and never miss any opportunity that I can challenge

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the sadness, think about the past, we will be very happy, everyone is like this, before the loss, will think, hey, how good it is to leave, but after leaving, it is still a little reluctant, and then it is the nostalgia for this, there is still an impression, should be cherished, we all don't understand anything, and caring is a reflection of what should be done.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The easier it is to get, the more you will ignore it, and everything you do will always be taken for granted, and when you lose it, you will understand that things in life will not always be like this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

    There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Happiness will not be waiting for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, just. You. I.

    He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    A beautiful love enriches life, and a love that has passed the test is perfect

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because not being around gives you time to think and reminisce and review yourself, sometimes you feel that you will cherish it after you lose it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you have it, you take it for granted, and you don't know until you don't have it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The more you care about a person, the more angry he will be at you, and he will slander you casually, only if you don't care about him anymore, will it be balanced.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because having it you won't remember.

    You don't remember the past until you lose it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you don't lose it once, you won't understand how beautiful it is, and you always think that there will be better, but it's not good once, and then you remember the first time, and you want to cherish it, but it's too late.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because they don't know what love is.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because they think it's their own, they will ignore it, and put it aside to pursue other things without thinking that they will disappear. People tend to ignore what they have. And only when it is lost does it begin to face it squarely. Understand that what you lose is what you want to pursue.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because people are too stupid to have but not cherish. Only when you lose can you recover.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because when we love someone, we don't know if it's really wrong to be with him, and I don't have a good grasp of it, but when we leave our beloved him, we know that leaving him is our biggest mistake, and we don't want to extend the mistake, but painful memories always haunt us! How to say it, when you are together, you don't think about the consequences of leaving, so you know to cherish it when you lose, and you don't grasp it well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When you lose it, you will realize how much it means to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's what people are.

    It is often after loss that we know how to cherish it.

    But it was too late.

    I hope you will cherish the present.

    Don't lose to know how to cherish.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After losing, you will know how to cherish, what you want to ask is why? In fact, this is something that everyone has to go through, when you feel nothing, you don't think about how to cherish it, but when you find out that you should cherish it, it's too late. Why?

    The reason lies in yourself, people are such a smart but very stupid creature, remember that there is no so-called regret medicine in this world, and you can't avoid loss, the only thing you can do now is to cherish everything in front of you when you haven't lost everything, no matter what it is, as long as you do this, I think your regret should be reduced.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Many people only know how to cherish it after they lose it. So don't wait for you to get angry and regret it. Cherish everything you have now.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because of lack of experience. Many people have little experience in their first love, and they only know how to cherish it when they lose it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    When you get or have the time.

    I don't think about losing.

    You don't have to know how to cherish it after you lose it.

    Changed. Cherish a very important thing is gone.

    It's a pity to replace.

    Because it's gone, I'm looking for something to assume it.

    It's a pity to lose.

    Sometimes I don't want to be so entangled.

    Gain or Lose.

    You have to cherish it.

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