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a.Should the child's early love be in the end?
When it is discovered that children are in early love, parents are often like great enemies, and many restrictions on their children are often counterproductive, causing children to be more rebellious. So what should you do when you find out that your child is in early love?
First, there is no such thing as the best time, whether he is in school or working, everything is the best arrangement. If the child has not met a suitable love partner now, of course he will see that there are people around him who are in love, maybe he will be curious, and then he will feel why no one likes me, there may be confusion, etc., we can tell him that there is no need to worry, you are very good, and someone will appreciate you in the future. At the same time, if he really meets a favorite object, then we can also calmly face the fact that the child has a favorite object.
Second, love is beautiful, we know that in an intimate relationship, the relationship is very important, and at the same time, it will also bring us a lot of different emotions and emotions, and even it will have a bitter part. As parents, we are not able to help our children. Let the good have a little more time, we know that the best time for a relationship is when there is no relationship to break.
Therefore, we can extend this time and let the child extend this time after the college entrance examination, which is the best. Like after the college entrance examination last year, there was a news that exploded the circle of friends. There is a pair of school tyrants who have a good impression of each other in school, and they have never said anything about it, and they were admitted to Tsinghua University together and became classmates before they determined their relationship, which we call the love of school tyrants.
Third, when parents know the signs of early love in their children, they can actually take this opportunity to share with their children appropriately, tell their parents' love stories and experiences, and also listen to their children's careful thoughts and troubles in love.
Fourth, parents should not force their children to talk about some of his situation, when we are aware of this part, parents should do a good job of their own inner adjustment, when the child is in early love, he will definitely test the attitude of his parents, when he goes to test a little, as a parent, if he can firmly catch his temptation. That child will feel that I can talk to my parents a little bit more and trust them a little more.
Fifth, there will be some emotional changes and ups and downs in the child's relationship, which is a very natural thing, for parents, there is no need to worry about it, allow the child to have emotional changes, and feel that this is a very natural thing, when the child is ready, he will also be willing to share with you, or we say this is a process of growth.
Sixth, and most importantly, when you know that your child is in love, you have to talk to your child about sexual safety, I know that for many parents, it's hard to talk about this part, if you think it's really hard to talk to your child, we can use some other methods, here, I recommend a movie to you.
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The innocence of the child, the cuteness of the child will be recognized by people, and no one else will care about anything, and will say how innocent those two children are, how naïve the children are!
But as we grow older, there are more and more troubles, adolescent children will have some early love, the reason is because of the desire to be loved, not as parents think, as children are young love because of curiosity, we grow up to have more people to love us, so that our lives are more colorful, rather than growing up stupid and don't understand anything, but children who have been in early love can experience the harm of early love in the end, love is a bitter feeling for our teenagers, I will always do a lot of things for each other, hoping that the other party will love me more and make myself happy. I myself am a typical example, but at least I have now understood a lot, what love, for our age, is all a fantasy, around 15 years old we are a good time to learn, not to have our own love choices like adults, we are just children, we have no love choices. It seems to make me very happy to know him, and I feel very happy to know him, as a naïve girl I don't think much about anything, like other peers are eager to get love from the opposite sex, I hope that I won't be lonely like that, and every day with him feels so fulfilling, looking back, I know that I have paid a lot, and he is always spoiled by himself, never let him be hurt because of himself, and he always uses all the intimate words to melt my heart, for him, study, He became my motivation, whenever he was a failure, he would always shout his name loudly, but in the end he remembered his smile in his mind with tears, and just like that, the days passed day by day, and he worked hard for a lot of thoughts, until one day, unconsciously found that he really liked another girl, and he was ruthlessly knocked down, telling himself to be strong, but he couldn't do anything.
Faced with his rogue expression, he tried his best to swallow the crystal tears in his eyes slowly, telling himself that he was not a weak girl. However, in the end, he said that the moment he broke up, he couldn't bear to be sad, tears rolled down his cheeks, and at the moment when he turned to leave, his heart told himself that he would never like any boy again before he was a minor, and he would no longer easily believe in boys' rhetoric.
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Don't confess easily, after confessing, he won't care about you, he is with other people, he doesn't care about your feelings, he can let go and say things that hurt you. He treats this as child's play, not far away, not close, lukewarm to you. But he'll apologize to you best, and make a promise.
When he hurts you, you treat her badly, he will treat you in the best way, you will regret it.
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He liked her, and she didn't hate him. One day he finally spoke to her, and she accepted it with a red face. Then, they happily go to school together, get out of school, go to school, get out of school, ...... schoolUntil one day, the teacher found out about their existence and notified the parents, and they separated under the coercion and temptation of the parents, and then became like strangers.
In their sophomore year, they got in touch again by chance, and they talked about their past experiences, and found that the past seemed to be just a fun playhouse, and they both laughed when they talked about it. Then, in his junior year, he asked her again if she wanted to be his girlfriend, and she said yes. And then they're still together.
This is the story of brother's low-key early love.
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An educational case on the issue of "puppy love" among elementary school students.
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To be a dime a dozen. The current little pot friend is very precocious.
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In fact, children don't understand what early love is, but adults impose this idea on children. The new century back to the little children though.
Answer: The things he comes into contact with are relatively avant-garde, but ideologically he is still a child after all, and we can't see the world of children from the eyes of adults. What they show is only a moment of curiosity about a certain person, because he is growing up, constantly in contact with different people, as adults we can not follow the clouds, but should communicate with children, after all, parents are the best teachers for children, can teach him how to understand the world, how to deal with people. At the same time, it is more convincing to strengthen the time between parents and children, take children out into society, and use the natural environment to educate.
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I guess a big part of it is out of curiosity, and the child may not understand.
I think it's better not to talk about them, as long as every time there is too much deviation, methods such as; Adjust them to a table, so that after a long time they will find each other's shortcomings, so that the short-term relationship will pass, sometimes the interaction between classmates of the opposite sex would have been very pure, but after being talked about by others, it has deteriorated, and it is easy to be self-defeating!! Hehe, I'm a middle school student!!
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