Of course, the Chinese are not angry with the original text, beg! Chinese, why don t you get angry

Patience is a traditional virtue. The idiom "lying on the salary and tasting the guts" is a model of success, and only those who endure it cannot endure and endure it for countless years can become the ultimate winner. China's scarcity of material life has developed the habit of patience.

Unable to eat, eating bark and chewing roots, plus tightening the belt; It's not warm to wear, three years of new and three years of old, another three years of sewing and mending, plus gritting your teeth, the days will always pass, don't you come over with patience? Why should you be patient, how can you not be patient, you don't need to think about it, and you don't need to think about it, because if you think about it, it's in vain. In the face of foreign aggression, the authorities adopted an attitude of patience, and they also used white flowers and silver and fertile land to accompany their patience, and this patience was really generous.

Patience has endured for thousands of years, endured countless unbearables, and slowly patience has become a virtue, and we are proud of patience. If a person can't endure it, he can't bear the burden of humiliation, and if he can't bear it, he will make a big plan, and he will lack a kind of capital to achieve success.

Patience is actually something we have no choice but to do. What can you do if you are not patient? I once saw a news on TV, an ordinary person in order to protect his sea from environmental pollution, but without the support of the relevant units, he silently assumed the responsibility of managing the sea, as a result, he gave up his small family to take care of everyone, the family was surrounded by four walls, his wife left him in desperation, and he even almost took his life, and was hit by a car of the sewage unit and lost an eye forever.

If you are not patient, you may be able to get the understanding of others and the support of relevant units one day, but how to calculate the price paid before that? Or, what if you never get support? For another example, our Dongyuan Campus is located in an industrial park environment, and it is often "edified" by the smell, and the leaders get angry and go to negotiate; Is it useful for a colleague to get angry and write a letter to the Environmental Protection Bureau?

Thousands of teachers and students continue to live in the "edification" of the stench. Medically speaking, anger hurts the liver, for the sake of our liver, let's be patient! What about impatience?

Patience creates a good temper, "the prime minister can support the boat in his belly" and "the sea is inclusive", don't "can't tolerate a sand in your eyes", if you don't have patience, you feel like a villain. Someone in the corridor lost napkins, melon peels and fruit crumbs, etc., so they went to clean them; After a few days, it will be cleaned again; It'll be there in a few days, and I'll continue to sweep! What else?

Do you scold that unhygienic neighbor in the hallway? Or do you wear a red armband and constantly patrol the corridors, just to catch the littering villain and scold him? We are cultured and cultivated people, how can we not have the quality to "Hedong Lion's Roar"!

We don't have the right to ask others to do the same as ourselves, to be more considerate of others, they only have this level, this quality, tolerate the small shortcomings of others, this is also the connotation of self-cultivation!

Does anger work? Useful? Useless? Suddenly it feels as philosophical as "the egg came first or the chicken came first".

I forgot how many years ago I read Bai Yang's "Why Don't You Be Angry Chinese".

I don't remember exactly how I felt when I first read this article.

It's just that during this time, I heard many friends chatting and always saying: "There is no way, it can only be like this, for the sake of life, I don't even dare to speak loudly." ”

Today I saw a child who was said to be useless, but there was no expression on his face. After he left, a teacher said something like this: "This child's personality is really good, let others talk about it, let people scold, and don't get angry!"

There is also a meaning of praise and appreciation in the words. I don't feel scared!

I don't know if when our education has trampled on human dignity, and we can still keep saying that it is the act of loving children, whether the reputation of the car can really breed talents; I don't know how much a child who grows up in this kind of language is hurt; I don't know if in the long run, our descendants will become the kind of people who only promise......

The only thing I can think of is the passage in Bi Shumin's "Hundred Flavors of Life": "Life without anger is a kind of sadness." Like a jumping elk that has lost its ability to run quickly, like an agile civet whose beard has been cut off.

When man is indifferent to everything, when he first quits anger and then all the emotions that belong to normal people, man goes to eternity while he is alive--- that is, death. ”