If you can t continue to live with your lover, will you choose to face it or run away from it?

Updated on society 2024-03-25
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You and your lover. Me and my love. They all have fellowship with their hearts.

    Get along with love. A simple word. As long as you talk to each other more about what you think in your heart, whether it is a good thing.

    Still bad words. Say it. I want to wait for you to say it all.

    You won't have to fight too often. Just because you fight doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore. It's just that you've been together for a long time.

    Got acquainted with each other. Something is wrong and you can always quarrel together. It's because they know each other well.

    I felt it slowly, what kind of feeling was that. As long as there is such a feeling. It doesn't matter what happens in the future.

    Just let him go with the flow. Even if they will be separated in the future. At least there was such a good time, a day with him.

    But I have to tell you. The most important thing for two people together is to contain. and understanding.

    and care. You tell him these words. I think you'll be fine.

    Believe me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's important for the two of us to have a good talk. Why is this so? In fact, is it worth hurting your husband and wife?

    That's how I am. Me and my husband. Whoever buys groceries, washes dishes, washes clothes, cooks.

    It doesn't matter. Such a trifle. There is no need to quarrel.

    That's how life is. There will always be something you don't like. But it's nothing to think about.

    It's just a trifle. There's no need to make a big fuss. The relationship between husband and wife is the most important.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My younger brother is getting married, he is going to live, he has a lover, he has a father-in-law, so you have to work harder, because you are going to be in charge, you have to work harder to make money, and there is one more person's expenses.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, even if you are paralyzed, you should not kidnap your brother's life, it is normal for him to get married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone will encounter difficulties and setbacks of one kind or another in life, the key is to be full of confidence, to believe that difficulties are only temporary, and that you can overcome difficulties, so that you can face difficulties positively and overcome difficulties.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Face reality properly. There are so many disabled people in China, don't they have to live a lifetime!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To accept her is to accept everything she brings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No matter what your body is, you must have a confident heart, as long as you have such a heart, then you can overcome all difficulties, as for the younger brother, you should bless her and bless her with a good future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter, it's the happiest to have parents here.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This has to be communicated slowly with your wife, the foreign debt belongs to your father-in-law, and if she is not in a hurry, you don't have to be in a hurry to pay it back.

    Also, the two of them should live with one heart, sharing hardships and hardships, and sharing wealth is the true meaning of life. If you really see each other, there will be no differences. Women need to be hurt and let go, start with themselves first, and slowly get informed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The child went to school and advised the daughter-in-law to find a job.

    It's best for the two of you not to separate from each other and affect your relationship.

    You all say that the family is very happy, please don't divorce.

    Two people work together to create a family financial plan. How much is the monthly living expenses, how much is yours, how much are the expenses of the family, how much is the fixed deposit, let him see that in addition to some necessary expenses, you have saved the remaining money, or let him know where the rest of the money goes.

    6-700 per month, in fact, is not much, you can let him develop a habit of keeping all expenses in the account, so that you can see it when you go home. Children are actually quite expensive.

    If there are similar problems, I hope the two of you can have a good chat and communicate, and there will always be a solution to the problem. Maybe he asks you more, because he doesn't have a financial **, he has to keep a little money for himself, so that he can feel safe. If you don't worry, you can let him keep the money, hehe.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If such a woman is not corrected, she is destined to end up with no good end, and she will have nothing when she is old, and such a woman only has herself in her heart, and she is selfish and ,......When a man finds such a selfish woman, it is a lifetime of pain ...... unbearable

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    6 7 hundred dollars is considered a loser? I really don't understand you guys.

    Calculate the meal money first, is the food cost of 10 yuan a day high for the mother? It is estimated that the children's snacks are not enough to eat 300 yuan a month **100 yuan in the fee is not too much Firewood, rice, oil and salt are not 100 yuan is not much Property fees Go out on the bus for a month and also have some money for the New Year and holidays You calculate that you give 700 yuan is too little and say that women will not give you 700 yuan See what you have become? 】

    Why don't you stay close to your lover and children You can't give much money People aren't around You women and children are so pitiful Give some money and still hurt you like this If I am a man I earn more or less I have to be with my family.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    6-7 hundred is not too much, it is not enough. The most basic food expenses for an adult and a child: 5 yuan in the morning, 8 yuan at noon, 8 yuan in the evening, 21 yuan a day, and more than 600 yuan a month, which is only the most basic food and clothing and not hungry.

    What fruits, what households, what toys, what food, clothing, housing and transportation have not yet been calculated, but we still need to understand each other more, tolerate each other, and empathize more.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's also quite boring, first of all, you really make too little money! If you spend money indiscriminately, you will work hard to earn money for her to spend, and you can't afford to bear it together, which is based on sincerity and sincerity, life and death! If it's another, then get a divorce now! She's going to hurt you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Most women are losers, this is the law, especially now that women are married, they like to use various packages to find ways.

    Grab the tail of youth, or satisfy vanity. If your economic conditions allow her to enjoy it at will, of course there is no problem, if you don't have this economic foundation, you have to find a way to control her desires, you can separate the economy, earn your own money, what age, women still need men to raise! Isn't it the pursuit of women's rights, but independence!

    Let's start financially. In addition, it is necessary to make her realize the severity of the reality and the necessity of having money left, and the method is easy for each person, but it is necessary. Good luck!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Women are more beautiful, right? The so-called woman is the one who pleases herself, and you also say that she loves you very much, and the average woman will have a little inferiority complex when she falls in love with someone This is from the mouth of a talented woman like Zhang Ailing Even a woman like her is no exception Not to mention your wife? She wants to show her best side in front of you because she loves you You should be happy Besides, isn't the main economic encyclopedia in your hands Maybe I'm a little mean, Six or seven hundred a month is really not too much She can squander to ** Now the average pocket money of high school students has reached the level of six or seven hundred a month Besides, women like to add small things You take a closer look Is the layout at home very warm Is there a lot of small details that are exquisite?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Well, a woman's love for beauty is innate, you can control its money, or give him a little bit of power to see (the disadvantages of buying things, such as cosmetics hurt**, children take it by mistake and cause illness) Maybe this can change its crazy desire to buy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not easy for you to live outside, it's not easy for him to take care of the children at home, understand more, he spends money to buy loneliness, and there is an outlet, I don't have that much interest, so I feel that life is boring, and my husband also goes out, and he doesn't give me money, and he doesn't even give him living expenses, and he takes it for granted.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can't have anything left after working all your life, it's all like this, you're all poor, and it's already good to have no negative equity.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your income is okay, and you still have money to take advantage of hemp, so it's okay for your wife to spend a little!

    You have 2 3 thousand yuan per month, when 2,500 yuan is counted, and 700 yuan is remitted to your wife and daughter every month, which is nearly 1,800 yuan, how much money do you spend yourself?

    The monthly income is 2,500 yuan, excluding 1,000 yuan from the savings bank or rent and miscellaneous expenses.

    There are also 1500, an average of 500 yuan per person, give 1000 to your wife!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Six or seven hundred a month said that he would not live? If I want my wife to spend six or seven hundred a month, I am happy to die, I am starting a business now, only not in and out, my wife used five thousand this month, and I am not happy to let the plan be used! Sometimes I really feel so tired from living.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't blindly listen to what some people say about divorce!

    Think about it, she is a fairly young woman, you only give her 6-700 yuan a month, or living expenses, then she has no savings to buy what she needs, and she has to pull the children, it is really hard, you have to understand her well.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Women love to dress up, no way.

    Hungry he planted for a few days.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Next time, you keep enough for your living expenses, and then tell her that he can take care of the money in the future, and give him all the money in the future, and promise that you will not ask you when the money runs out in the future, so maybe you will realize it after a while.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    My daughter-in-law is the same, but she has relented when she sees that I am working hard to earn money, understand, mentality!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dizzy, I'm too good at living, and he always says I'm stingy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I believe you must understand that confusion will not solve any problems, it will only drag things out more and more seriously, now this situation, it means that your relationship has always had problems, but you have not been aware of it, hurry up to improve your emotional cognition, study the SLM emotional repair model.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I loved it before, but I don't feel it now?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Both love well, your husband loves you but you don't necessarily have real love, this is the responsibility of the family, there is a lover who you both love each other, this is your love, and your husband cherishes it! May you be happy!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You can only fall in love with one person, your husband is your own, your lover can never replace your husband, if you are reluctant to do both, it is difficult to choose, it means that you have no love at all, you are not in love with any of them, you are just spending, and selfishly loving yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Life is like climbing a mountain! What a majestic mountain in front of you! Once you climb to the top of the mountain! That's it! However! At this moment, what you envy is another mountain that appears in front of you!

    Only when you know how to cherish life can you truly have happiness!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You only love yourself, you don't love either of these two men, if there is a man who treats you well or you still say that you love him, so you don't love anyone, really love someone, you won't fall in love with the second one.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Give up your lover and go back to your normal life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The husband is always happy to support, and the lover is a momentary impulse to cause emotion, but it will make the families of both parties broken, and more importantly, it will become the shadow of the child. If you want a happy family and a stable family, you must decisively forget your lover and let go of it, so that family harmony will last forever.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since your husband loves you very much, why do you give your heart to others, you can only say that you don't love enough, otherwise it is impossible for a lover to appear in your life...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    A lover can't replace her husband no matter what, when you're healthy and in no predicament, your lover is naturally good, and I've had it too, and my husband is incomparable.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    One must not be greedy, otherwise there will be no both.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You can't have both fish and bear's paws, have you ever thought about your husband's feelings, alas, what age is this, everyone has it.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's impossible to fall in love with two people at the same time? Doesn't it mean that if you have a lover in your heart, others will not be able to enter it?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    To be a man, you must have your duty, and you must not know what you don't know unless you do it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You're taking care of other women's men, and you have the energy to put it on your husband.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Do you love them very much? I think you love yourself more.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Since love do not deceive, tell them and let them choose.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I often walk by the river, how can I not get my shoes wet. If the other party knows about it, the consequences will be .........

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    can still love the same, you must choose one between the two.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Whoever you think in your heart proves who you love?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You should now think about how you will live your life in the future, and be thick-skinned.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You are a first-class woman, and there is a saying that the life of a first-class person is (the red flag does not fall at home, and the colorful flags flutter outside).

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It's normal that she really loves you and thinks to live with you for the rest of her life? If it's you, you have to be tolerant, and if it's entangled, you can live alone.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I'll be upset.

    But my mentality may not be normal.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Restless, although I love her very much, but my heart is uneasy and very suspicious.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Don't take this too seriously, let him pass the past!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    No, as long as you trust her.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    A few more were sixteen or seventeen.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    No, it's enough for her to love me.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Then I will definitely choose an opponent like a wolf, there are challenges in life, there are challenges in life, wolves can give you a chance to exercise and survive, pigs in addition to eating and sleeping, there is no feeling at all!

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Long pain is better than short pain, don't make do.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Slowly run in the life! Tear down ten temples without regretting one family! Don't have unwarranted illusions about other people! Life is not perfect.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    No matter what, the road is always to be walked, and the days will go on day by day! After crying today, I patted myself on the shoulder, went to comfort myself, and said, "So, what is it?"

    It's just a little setback in life. "If you lose, you can start over, in life, you always have to encounter ups and downs, you have to believe that after the wind and rain, it will be sunny." "If you have children, then both parties have to show their own sense of responsibility!

    Do something and think about how you might hurt someone you love!

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    If you are already married, then go on, because love used to be family affection, and if you are not married, break up.

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