Why can t you even be friends after a breakup?

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......

After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

Friends need to be cared for, and if so, then why choose to break up?

A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a single pull

It is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......

There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......

If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......

Different characters, different landscapes.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

Don't love him her.

Let it go, don't make excuses for your selfishness.

Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......

Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the stranger you know most ......

Personally, I think it's better not to be friends after a breakup, just be a stranger!

Because the departure of the other party will be the beginning of another period of happiness for us!

In the end, it's up to you to decide! People think differently!

I can't be friends with someone I've loved.

Because my heart hurts.

It's not something that is necessary and unnecessary.

Hopefully, you will make a decision that wishes you happiness.

Usually after falling in love and breaking up, you can't be friends. On the contrary, they are most likely to become strangers, because they love, and only in this way can they stop being sad and choose to forget.

Whether the two can still be ordinary friends after breaking up is a more complex issue that needs to be considered by many factors:

1.The reason for the breakup. If it's due to a major disagreement or deep hurt that leads to the split, then it's less likely to be a regular friend. And if the breakup is forced by external circumstances, then the chances of being friends in the future will be slightly greater.

2.How you feel after a breakup. If neither party has a deep hostility or resentment towards each other after a breakup, then it is not difficult to be friends. But if there is deep malice or pain in the breakup process, future friendships will be more difficult.

3.The character of both sides. If both parties are more open-minded, generous, and mature personalities, then they are much more likely to be friends. In contrast, if one or both of the two people are more paranoid and cautious, it will be more difficult to be friends. Probation.

4.The state of life after a breakup. If both parties are more stable and smooth in their respective lives after the breakup, it will be easier to accept each other's transformation into friends, and it will be easier for each other to let go of the past.

But if one of them is in a difficult situation, then being friends may bring greater psychological pressure.

5.The meaning of friendship. If both parties understand and value each other's friendship, which has some meaning for everyone, then the likelihood of turning into a friendship is much greater.

If one of them doesn't value the friendship very much, there may be fewer and fewer contacts in the future.

Therefore, on the whole, it is still more difficult for the two to be ordinary friends after breaking up, and it depends on the situation. If both parties have a more open-minded personality and attitude towards life, the reasons and process of the breakup are not too painful, and both parties cherish each other's friendship very much, then there is a chance that they can turn into better friends. But in general, it is still a minority to be ordinary friends, and true friendship also needs to be tempered and repaired for a long time.

This is a topic that needs to be given differently in different situations.

1.The reason and how to break up. If you break up because your personalities and life values are incompatible, and the way of breaking up is more rational and peaceful, this is conducive to becoming ordinary friends in the future.

But if the reason for the breakup involves a conflict of interest or emotional betrayal, or if the breakup is done in a bad way, it is usually not conducive to being friends later.

2.Mindset after a breakup. If both parties are comfortable with the breakup and have the mentality of understanding and understanding each other, it is more likely that they can become friends.

However, if one or both parties are obsessed with the breakup, it can make it difficult to make the dream of becoming friends a reality.

3.Whether you can maintain a friendly relationship after a breakup. If both parties can still chat or have a meal occasionally in a friendly way after the breakup, it shows that both parties have a basis for becoming friends.

However, if you break up with each other and cut off all contact and communication, it may be difficult to become friends again.

4.Whether it is necessary to be friends in real life. Sometimes the reason why I want to be friends again is because I have to meet frequently in my life, and I have the idea to avoid embarrassment.

But if there is almost no intersection in life, purely out of nostalgia, the motivation to become an ordinary friend may not be enough.